Everytime i am pregnant!

katratrina · Oct 10th, 2010, 17:41 PM

sorry going to have a rant!
But every time i am pregnant someone dies!
with DS1 DP's Nan died when i found out i was pregnant, With DS2 his grandfather died when i was pregnant! with DD My Grandma died when i was pregnant and now i am pregnant with #4 my grandfather died yesterday!

and every time i hadn't had a chance to tell them!
I only have 1 grandparent left! and DP has none!
Sorry about the rant, it just sucks!!!

Canadianmom4 · Oct 10th, 2010, 18:13 PM

I'm sorry for all your losses. I know what's it like to lose the ones you love. I've lost both of my parents at such a young age, and these are times I really wish my mom was still here to celebrate such a happy time with me. But I know she is here in spirit.

Anyway, I have heard that for every life lost and new life enters. So find peace that your children live on in those that you have lost.

hanelei · Oct 10th, 2010, 18:13 PM

That's sad hun. My grandfather died just after I found out I was pregnant too, it's sad he didn't get to see or hear about his first great grand-child, but I kind of look at it as the cycle of life really, and even though my grandmother is now by herself after 65 years of marriage, she is very excited to have a great-grandchild on the way.

Sevenladybugs · Oct 10th, 2010, 22:20 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss

natural_mamma · Oct 11th, 2010, 00:03 AM

I'm so sorry hon!

I know exactly what you mean though! Something bad has happened both times I've been pregant, with DD1 mum was diagnosed with breast cancer, which was right at the end of my pregnancy, which I think was what triggered my labour, and with DD2, my dad severed his finger off, and mum was too scared to tell me incase it scared me into labour again! In the end, my sister told mum she should tell me, and so she did! The next day I was in labour and had my baby!
I'm hoping this time around nothing happens!

leeanne · Oct 11th, 2010, 00:17 AM

I am so sorry for your losses.

HannahGraceee · Oct 11th, 2010, 00:32 AM

I'm sorry for your loses

x

nalini878 · Oct 11th, 2010, 00:38 AM

im sorry for your losses. My DH's grandma died last wednesday and we were planning on travelling to Wales to tell her and both of our families that weekend. Now my DH doesnt want to tell anyone until some time has passed after the funeral (next monday), I am selfishly gutted! But I am trying to look at it as Canadianmom has put it, after my mc last time, I feel like she has gone so my baby will live, the circle of life and all that. I know some people may think that sounds stupid or harsh, but its the solace I have found in the sad situation xxxx

BeckyBoo · Oct 11th, 2010, 03:05 AM

Sorry for your losses hun, I've been in same position.

DS1 My dad died when I was 37 weeks pregnant
DD1 My Great Aunty died
TTC3 Only person I have left is my mum and I'm scared!

haze · Oct 11th, 2010, 03:08 AM

I'm really sorry for your loss xx

Oct 10th, 2010, 17:41 PM	#1
katratrina Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Victoria, Australia! Posts: 586	Everytime i am pregnant! sorry going to have a rant! But every time i am pregnant someone dies! with DS1 DP's Nan died when i found out i was pregnant, With DS2 his grandfather died when i was pregnant! with DD My Grandma died when i was pregnant and now i am pregnant with #4 my grandfather died yesterday! and every time i hadn't had a chance to tell them! I only have 1 grandparent left! and DP has none! Sorry about the rant, it just sucks!!!

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Canadianmom4 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 751	I'm sorry for all your losses. I know what's it like to lose the ones you love. I've lost both of my parents at such a young age, and these are times I really wish my mom was still here to celebrate such a happy time with me. But I know she is here in spirit. Anyway, I have heard that for every life lost and new life enters. So find peace that your children live on in those that you have lost.

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hanelei Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Tokyo Posts: 955	That's sad hun. My grandfather died just after I found out I was pregnant too, it's sad he didn't get to see or hear about his first great grand-child, but I kind of look at it as the cycle of life really, and even though my grandmother is now by herself after 65 years of marriage, she is very excited to have a great-grandchild on the way.

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Oct 11th, 2010, 00:03 AM	#5
natural_mamma Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 471	I'm so sorry hon! I know exactly what you mean though! Something bad has happened both times I've been pregant, with DD1 mum was diagnosed with breast cancer, which was right at the end of my pregnancy, which I think was what triggered my labour, and with DD2, my dad severed his finger off, and mum was too scared to tell me incase it scared me into labour again! In the end, my sister told mum she should tell me, and so she did! The next day I was in labour and had my baby! I'm hoping this time around nothing happens!

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Oct 11th, 2010, 00:17 AM	#6
leeanne Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: BC, Canada Posts: 26,691	I am so sorry for your losses.

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Sevenladybugs Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,563	I'm so sorry for your loss

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HannahGraceee Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Farnborough Posts: 13,262	I'm sorry for your loses x

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Oct 11th, 2010, 00:38 AM	#8
nalini878 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 548	im sorry for your losses. My DH's grandma died last wednesday and we were planning on travelling to Wales to tell her and both of our families that weekend. Now my DH doesnt want to tell anyone until some time has passed after the funeral (next monday), I am selfishly gutted! But I am trying to look at it as Canadianmom has put it, after my mc last time, I feel like she has gone so my baby will live, the circle of life and all that. I know some people may think that sounds stupid or harsh, but its the solace I have found in the sad situation xxxx

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Oct 11th, 2010, 03:05 AM	#9
BeckyBoo Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Scotland. Posts: 4,931	Sorry for your losses hun, I've been in same position. DS1 My dad died when I was 37 weeks pregnant DD1 My Great Aunty died TTC3 Only person I have left is my mum and I'm scared!

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Oct 11th, 2010, 03:08 AM	#10
haze Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Poole Posts: 1,226	I'm really sorry for your loss xx

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