sorry going to have a rant!
But every time i am pregnant someone dies!
with DS1 DP's Nan died when i found out i was pregnant, With DS2 his grandfather died when i was pregnant! with DD My Grandma died when i was pregnant and now i am pregnant with #4 my grandfather died yesterday!
and every time i hadn't had a chance to tell them!
I only have 1 grandparent left! and DP has none!
Sorry about the rant, it just sucks!!!
I'm sorry for all your losses. I know what's it like to lose the ones you love. I've lost both of my parents at such a young age, and these are times I really wish my mom was still here to celebrate such a happy time with me. But I know she is here in spirit.
Anyway, I have heard that for every life lost and new life enters. So find peace that your children live on in those that you have lost.
That's sad hun. My grandfather died just after I found out I was pregnant too, it's sad he didn't get to see or hear about his first great grand-child, but I kind of look at it as the cycle of life really, and even though my grandmother is now by herself after 65 years of marriage, she is very excited to have a great-grandchild on the way.
I'm so sorry hon! I know exactly what you mean though! Something bad has happened both times I've been pregant, with DD1 mum was diagnosed with breast cancer, which was right at the end of my pregnancy, which I think was what triggered my labour, and with DD2, my dad severed his finger off, and mum was too scared to tell me incase it scared me into labour again! In the end, my sister told mum she should tell me, and so she did! The next day I was in labour and had my baby!
I'm hoping this time around nothing happens!
im sorry for your losses. My DH's grandma died last wednesday and we were planning on travelling to Wales to tell her and both of our families that weekend. Now my DH doesnt want to tell anyone until some time has passed after the funeral (next monday), I am selfishly gutted! But I am trying to look at it as Canadianmom has put it, after my mc last time, I feel like she has gone so my baby will live, the circle of life and all that. I know some people may think that sounds stupid or harsh, but its the solace I have found in the sad situation xxxx
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