Frightened!!!

AfterAbigail · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:30 AM

Hello all,

We lost our daughter Abigail during full term labour on the 22nd September 2009, and after about 7 months of trying we have just found out that I am about five weeks pregnant!

I am so very happy but more than happy I am frightened.

I want more than anything to take our beautiful baby home and know that I need to calm down and relax as much as I can. Easier said than done!

I feel anxious that this will be taken away from me too. We have had so much loss in our family.

holly2234 · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:32 AM

Congratulations! And im sorry for your loss. Keeping calm is never as easy as it sounds is it. Heres to a happy and healthy 9 months

charliexxx · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:33 AM

i am so sorry for your loss xx

i am six weeks and 5 days pregnant and am extremely frightened too. i am just taking it one at a time

lets hope for happy bouncing babies in 9 months time xxxx

ttc3 · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:34 AM

Hiya,

I am so sorry for your loss.

You need to remain positive, calm and relaxed and everything will be fine.

Wishing you all the luck for the next 9 months. I hope it all works out for you!

Oh and a BIG CONGRATS on your good news xxx

ttc3 · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by charliexxx

i am so sorry for your loss xx

i am six weeks and 5 days pregnant and am extremely frightened too. i am just taking it one at a time

lets hope for happy bouncing babies in 9 months time xxxx

I am the same as you! I am just trying to think ahead and remain upbeat and positive. This is my first pregnancy after 4 years of trying!

charliexxx · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ttc3

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Originally Posted by charliexxx

i am so sorry for your loss xx

i am six weeks and 5 days pregnant and am extremely frightened too. i am just taking it one at a time

lets hope for happy bouncing babies in 9 months time xxxx

I am the same as you! I am just trying to think ahead and remain upbeat and positive. This is my first pregnancy after 4 years of trying!

congratulations on concieving

i agree that the best thing to do is stay postive, i have no idea what my little bean is up to in there so i am just gonna stay upbeat till i see my midwife

good luck mummies xxx

Swanny · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:40 AM

I'm sorry for your loss, wishing you all the best for the future and a happy and healthy pregancy x

Groovychick · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:43 AM

Congratulations hun!

Sorry for your loss.

JJay · Oct 11th, 2010, 09:44 AM

Sorry for your loss

It's a scary enough time anyway without your previous loss on your mind. I've heard that it's only the start and we will spend the rest of our lives worrying about our little ones.

I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.

J x

mumoffive · Oct 11th, 2010, 10:24 AM

Its not surprising you feel the way you do after your loss. I think anyone who has gone through what you have is naturally going to feel that way. Its worth noting that most pregnancies though do go along uneventfully. There are many people who have had a loss like yours and have gone on successfully to have a baby. I know a friend of a friend that lost her baby at fullterm and went on to have another without issue. I wonder if there is anyone who you could talk to that has had a loss like yours and is pregnant? If it were me, i would probably feel most reassured with chatting to someone who has had a similar experience. Surely the mw could also give you some reassurance considering what you have been through and maybe even the hospital could help?. I really wish you a healthy and happy 9 months.xxxx

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AfterAbigail Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Berkshire, United Kingdom Posts: 428	Frightened!!! Hello all, We lost our daughter Abigail during full term labour on the 22nd September 2009, and after about 7 months of trying we have just found out that I am about five weeks pregnant! I am so very happy but more than happy I am frightened. I want more than anything to take our beautiful baby home and know that I need to calm down and relax as much as I can. Easier said than done! I feel anxious that this will be taken away from me too. We have had so much loss in our family.

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holly2234 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: New York Posts: 5,605	Congratulations! And im sorry for your loss. Keeping calm is never as easy as it sounds is it. Heres to a happy and healthy 9 months

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charliexxx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: staffordshire, England Posts: 100	i am so sorry for your loss xx i am six weeks and 5 days pregnant and am extremely frightened too. i am just taking it one at a time lets hope for happy bouncing babies in 9 months time xxxx

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ttc3 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 90	Hiya, I am so sorry for your loss. You need to remain positive, calm and relaxed and everything will be fine. Wishing you all the luck for the next 9 months. I hope it all works out for you! Oh and a BIG CONGRATS on your good news xxx

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Swanny Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: North East (Redcar) Posts: 3,553	I'm sorry for your loss, wishing you all the best for the future and a happy and healthy pregancy x

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Oct 11th, 2010, 09:43 AM	#8
Groovychick Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 12,984	Congratulations hun! Sorry for your loss.

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JJay Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: UK Posts: 1,634	Sorry for your loss It's a scary enough time anyway without your previous loss on your mind. I've heard that it's only the start and we will spend the rest of our lives worrying about our little ones. I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months. J x

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Oct 11th, 2010, 10:24 AM	#10
mumoffive Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 7,480	Its not surprising you feel the way you do after your loss. I think anyone who has gone through what you have is naturally going to feel that way. Its worth noting that most pregnancies though do go along uneventfully. There are many people who have had a loss like yours and have gone on successfully to have a baby. I know a friend of a friend that lost her baby at fullterm and went on to have another without issue. I wonder if there is anyone who you could talk to that has had a loss like yours and is pregnant? If it were me, i would probably feel most reassured with chatting to someone who has had a similar experience. Surely the mw could also give you some reassurance considering what you have been through and maybe even the hospital could help?. I really wish you a healthy and happy 9 months.xxxx

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