Really worried ;'(

Lalababy2010 · Oct 15th, 2010, 08:04 AM

Hello ladies, i am 13 weeks pregnant today. This is my first pregnancy and i have not had any morning sickness, i am quite pleased in a way because i have a phobia of being sick but quite worried in another as woman say it's a good sign to have morning sickness
Also had 7 weeks and 3 days i had an emergency scan as i was spotting a little bit and had a few stomach cramps, All was fine to my relief.. We saw the baby's heartbeat and the baby was the right size (:
But now i am starting to worry as i don't feel pregnant, I'm always tired but i don't feel pregnant any more. I am starting to get quite a big bump though, I haven't got any more bleeding or stomach cramps since 7 weeks so that's a good sign. But my friend who is also pregnant is 14 weeks pregnant and she was telling me about the fluttery feeling her stomach she keeps getting, which is a sign of the baby moving about in there. But i haven't got any fluttery feelings so i am starting to worry about if the baby's ok.. I have my 2nd 12 weeks scan next Wednesday, i told my Oh my concerns, he said im being silly. But i just can't help it. Does anyone else feel like this?

Flipsy · Oct 15th, 2010, 09:15 AM

I haven't had mornign sickness either and only had tiredness and am only jsut maybe possibly feeling flutters and I'm 17 weeks gone so .. the trick to remember is that EVERY woman and pregnancy is different. xxx

HippyMumma23 · Oct 15th, 2010, 09:19 AM

Your friend is lucky to feel them so early, some people dont feel them for a long time, up to 20 weeks. Thats perfectly normal.

As for not feeling pregnant- welcome to your 2nd trimester! Its because your hormones have calmed down and this is the time when you start feeling good!

Im looking forward to it!

G.L with your scan, sounds as though it will be just fine.

Babycakes92 · Oct 15th, 2010, 09:20 AM

Some women dont feel flutters until 16 weeks or longer. I wouldn't worry about it too much. x

ky24 la la · Oct 15th, 2010, 09:20 AM

I had nothing with my 1st, sailed throught the pregnancy not even a symptom of a tiniest bit.....NIL....NOTHING!!! abd she was a healthy boucing 8lb 2oz!! Dont worry ure one of the lucky 1s, this time round i feel tired, sick and sore boobs...every pregnancy is different....just enjoy the experience xxxxxxxxxx

Megi.MKD · Oct 15th, 2010, 09:47 AM

oooh hun I think there is nothing to worry about!!! My mom didnt have the sickness at all and both of us (my brother and me) were super healthy ones

Enjoy.....morning (I wonder why morning when they lsat all day long) sickness arent fun at all :P

Peril · Oct 15th, 2010, 10:40 AM

I am 18 weeks today... i have not had any sickness and i also can't feel any movement, i had a scan last week and know that all is well, so don't worry, I am sure you are fine!

BostonMommy · Oct 15th, 2010, 10:45 AM

Not every woman gets M/S and the lucky ones avoid it!!!

You are just entering the phase where you will feel awesome!! At 14 weeks with both my DD and DS, I stopped feeling pregnant. Got my energy back. That's why the call it the "honeymoon phase". You feel awesome and many times forget you are even pregnant!! Enjoy it!!

BostonMommy · Oct 15th, 2010, 10:47 AM

Also, many first time moms don't recognize the baby's movements till around 20 weeks. You might notice the gas bubble type flutters if you lay down at night after a meal. But even that you probably won't feel till closer to 16-18 weeks.

Sevenladybugs · Oct 15th, 2010, 11:06 AM

You're just fine

I have never had m/s and I've had 4 healthy babies. 1st time moms really don't generally feel baby move until 20+ wks especially if their placenta is near the front. Try not to worry and enjoy 2nd tri

Oct 15th, 2010, 08:04 AM	#1
Lalababy2010 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scotland United Kingdom Posts: 390	Really worried ;'( Hello ladies, i am 13 weeks pregnant today. This is my first pregnancy and i have not had any morning sickness, i am quite pleased in a way because i have a phobia of being sick but quite worried in another as woman say it's a good sign to have morning sickness Also had 7 weeks and 3 days i had an emergency scan as i was spotting a little bit and had a few stomach cramps, All was fine to my relief.. We saw the baby's heartbeat and the baby was the right size (: But now i am starting to worry as i don't feel pregnant, I'm always tired but i don't feel pregnant any more. I am starting to get quite a big bump though, I haven't got any more bleeding or stomach cramps since 7 weeks so that's a good sign. But my friend who is also pregnant is 14 weeks pregnant and she was telling me about the fluttery feeling her stomach she keeps getting, which is a sign of the baby moving about in there. But i haven't got any fluttery feelings so i am starting to worry about if the baby's ok.. I have my 2nd 12 weeks scan next Wednesday, i told my Oh my concerns, he said im being silly. But i just can't help it. Does anyone else feel like this?

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Oct 15th, 2010, 09:15 AM	#2
Flipsy Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 1,268	I haven't had mornign sickness either and only had tiredness and am only jsut maybe possibly feeling flutters and I'm 17 weeks gone so .. the trick to remember is that EVERY woman and pregnancy is different. xxx

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Oct 15th, 2010, 09:19 AM	#3
HippyMumma23 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: London Posts: 1,808	Your friend is lucky to feel them so early, some people dont feel them for a long time, up to 20 weeks. Thats perfectly normal. As for not feeling pregnant- welcome to your 2nd trimester! Its because your hormones have calmed down and this is the time when you start feeling good! Im looking forward to it! G.L with your scan, sounds as though it will be just fine.

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Oct 15th, 2010, 09:20 AM	#4
Babycakes92 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Knighton, Wales. Posts: 439	Some women dont feel flutters until 16 weeks or longer. I wouldn't worry about it too much. x

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Oct 15th, 2010, 09:20 AM	#5
ky24 la la Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: preston, england Posts: 699	I had nothing with my 1st, sailed throught the pregnancy not even a symptom of a tiniest bit.....NIL....NOTHING!!! abd she was a healthy boucing 8lb 2oz!! Dont worry ure one of the lucky 1s, this time round i feel tired, sick and sore boobs...every pregnancy is different....just enjoy the experience xxxxxxxxxx

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Oct 15th, 2010, 09:47 AM	#6
Megi.MKD Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 52	oooh hun I think there is nothing to worry about!!! My mom didnt have the sickness at all and both of us (my brother and me) were super healthy ones Enjoy.....morning (I wonder why morning when they lsat all day long) sickness arent fun at all :P

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Oct 15th, 2010, 10:40 AM	#7
Peril Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,317	I am 18 weeks today... i have not had any sickness and i also can't feel any movement, i had a scan last week and know that all is well, so don't worry, I am sure you are fine!

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Oct 15th, 2010, 10:45 AM	#8
BostonMommy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 373	Not every woman gets M/S and the lucky ones avoid it!!! You are just entering the phase where you will feel awesome!! At 14 weeks with both my DD and DS, I stopped feeling pregnant. Got my energy back. That's why the call it the "honeymoon phase". You feel awesome and many times forget you are even pregnant!! Enjoy it!!

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Oct 15th, 2010, 10:47 AM	#9
BostonMommy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 373	Also, many first time moms don't recognize the baby's movements till around 20 weeks. You might notice the gas bubble type flutters if you lay down at night after a meal. But even that you probably won't feel till closer to 16-18 weeks.

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Oct 15th, 2010, 11:06 AM	#10
Sevenladybugs Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,563	You're just fine I have never had m/s and I've had 4 healthy babies. 1st time moms really don't generally feel baby move until 20+ wks especially if their placenta is near the front. Try not to worry and enjoy 2nd tri

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