I've just been a very naughty girl UPDATED P5 - Page 4

Catwoman85 · Feb 9th, 2011, 04:49 AM

SECOND TIMER I admire your courage and think you have made the best choice for your children and youself. I would have done the same if not worse.

Men think they can do whatever they want and get away with it, but their time is up, we are all fighting back.

Well done!!!! ;-) You will look back and thank god you had the courage now.

KatieMRi · Feb 9th, 2011, 04:53 AM

Wow, wonderful. I'll tell you, they make it seem like it's your fault and make you blame and doubt yourself but don't. Don't be sorry, get angry (something I realised I should've done now I've grown up) be angry, know that what he's doing is wrong and beleive in yourself xx

ambreen359 · Feb 9th, 2011, 05:08 AM

Am so sorry to hear what you have had to go through especially at this time
Something similiar happened to me i gave birth to my son and my husband started having an affair i immediatly feel pregnant with my daugter he was violent throughtout that pregnancy while also accusing me of cheating while he was the one doing the cheating i left him when my daugter was born my children are now 18 and 19 and it was the best decision i made
I am very happily married and excpecting my third child
Good luck with everything and remember your friends and family will be there for u ask them for help when u need it x

LaraJJ · Feb 9th, 2011, 05:14 AM

Wow - that is brilliant, well done you. You have done so many other women a favour I'm sure.

Has he replied to the post, or have you had any other comments on it?

You should feel so strong and empowered

marina294 · Feb 9th, 2011, 05:29 AM

i had the same hun u just know when the phone goes everywhere or on silent changes passwords i went as far as to get hold of this womens number and tell her who i was bare in mind she didnt know me- she started screaming down the phone she was seeing my partner!
My partner kept making out i was paranoid and she was just a friend ect. of course she told him about phone call he then accused me of ruining everything with this friend!!!!
Well done trust me i know how much it hurts but well done to you !!

cucumber · Feb 9th, 2011, 06:37 AM

Shouldn't have let him off so lightly!

What a mug

grey_pony · Feb 9th, 2011, 07:01 AM

You just said what every woman would LIKE to say in that situation. Why should he get to carry on with other women... you said what needed to be said! Good for you, you are doing the best thing for you and your kids. You will be better off without him in your life. Keep your chin up and realize you are a strong woman that other women can look up to. You WILL make it through this rough time and be better off!!

babyblessed · Feb 9th, 2011, 07:11 AM

i say get the same thing printed on a poster at put up in the town center and on flyers too, that will teach him!

kaths101 · Feb 9th, 2011, 09:47 AM

haha thats brilliant!!! He deserved it so dont feel guilty - he obviously doesnt feel guilty about whats hes done to you and your children!! he deserved that and far worse!! DONT let him turn it round and make you out to be the bad one!

le_annek · Feb 9th, 2011, 09:50 AM

Well done you

xxx

Feb 9th, 2011, 04:49 AM	#31
Catwoman85 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Essex Posts: 92	SECOND TIMER I admire your courage and think you have made the best choice for your children and youself. I would have done the same if not worse. Men think they can do whatever they want and get away with it, but their time is up, we are all fighting back. Well done!!!! ;-) You will look back and thank god you had the courage now.

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Feb 9th, 2011, 04:53 AM	#32
KatieMRi Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 1,121	Wow, wonderful. I'll tell you, they make it seem like it's your fault and make you blame and doubt yourself but don't. Don't be sorry, get angry (something I realised I should've done now I've grown up) be angry, know that what he's doing is wrong and beleive in yourself xx

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Feb 9th, 2011, 05:08 AM	#33
ambreen359 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: edinburgh Posts: 280	Am so sorry to hear what you have had to go through especially at this time Something similiar happened to me i gave birth to my son and my husband started having an affair i immediatly feel pregnant with my daugter he was violent throughtout that pregnancy while also accusing me of cheating while he was the one doing the cheating i left him when my daugter was born my children are now 18 and 19 and it was the best decision i made I am very happily married and excpecting my third child Good luck with everything and remember your friends and family will be there for u ask them for help when u need it x

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Feb 9th, 2011, 05:14 AM	#34
LaraJJ Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South West UK Posts: 822	Wow - that is brilliant, well done you. You have done so many other women a favour I'm sure. Has he replied to the post, or have you had any other comments on it? You should feel so strong and empowered

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Feb 9th, 2011, 05:29 AM	#35
marina294 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: UK Posts: 1,167	i had the same hun u just know when the phone goes everywhere or on silent changes passwords i went as far as to get hold of this womens number and tell her who i was bare in mind she didnt know me- she started screaming down the phone she was seeing my partner! My partner kept making out i was paranoid and she was just a friend ect. of course she told him about phone call he then accused me of ruining everything with this friend!!!! Well done trust me i know how much it hurts but well done to you !!

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Feb 9th, 2011, 06:37 AM	#36
cucumber Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 356	Shouldn't have let him off so lightly! What a mug

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Feb 9th, 2011, 07:01 AM	#37
grey_pony Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: US Posts: 188	You just said what every woman would LIKE to say in that situation. Why should he get to carry on with other women... you said what needed to be said! Good for you, you are doing the best thing for you and your kids. You will be better off without him in your life. Keep your chin up and realize you are a strong woman that other women can look up to. You WILL make it through this rough time and be better off!!

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Feb 9th, 2011, 07:11 AM	#38
babyblessed Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Glasgow Posts: 1,092	i say get the same thing printed on a poster at put up in the town center and on flyers too, that will teach him!

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Feb 9th, 2011, 09:47 AM	#39
kaths101 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Norfolk Posts: 2,536	haha thats brilliant!!! He deserved it so dont feel guilty - he obviously doesnt feel guilty about whats hes done to you and your children!! he deserved that and far worse!! DONT let him turn it round and make you out to be the bad one!

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Feb 9th, 2011, 09:50 AM	#40
le_annek Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Swansea Posts: 655	Well done you xxx

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