So for those of you who read my posy last night where I confronted other half about hiding his phone and acting secretive I just want to thank you so much for all your support you have made me feel so much stronger and made me feel like im not the paranoid one and that indeed his actions are wrong
Am going to house tomorrow with my gran after midwife appointment while he's at work so I can collect mine and the kids things that are there but feeling very much like the woman scorned at the moment and did something a little bit silly which made me feel better at the time but I now feel really guilty for doing...
Facebook wall post made by me to his wall....
me and james are no longer together as he thinks its acceptable to have his phone on silent and hidden everytime we are together, the last time I was pregnant 2months before baby was due I found messages between him and another woman on his phone he told me I was paranoid and she was just a good friend a few months later when he gave me his email password as I still didnt trust him I found messages between him and said other woman dating back 2 years he then admitted she was an old bed buddy, not only were there messages flirting with her but also several other women wanting to meet up with them sending them pictures of himself and giving his number out.
Even tho he has just bought a house and wants me and the children to give up our home to move in with him he is still advertising himself on dating sites and 'fuck' sites as he calls them leaving his number on one asking people to message and he'd definitely get back in touch. I am posting this message so other women know what a dirty lying rat he is and so he knows what it feels like to feel humiliated in the same way that he has humiliated me and made me feel like I was always the 'paranoid' untrusting partner with the way he acted its no wonder I didnt trust him!! Anyway baby number 3 on the way to him now and doing this one on my own so I dont have to spend the entire time miserable and getting lied to and cheated on. Good luck with the new house james hope you get a lodger sorted soon
I have been sooo mean havent I, Ive got that horrible sicky feeling in my stomach now I hate been mean but dont see why he should get to carry on with his life as normal messing about with other people all over the place whilst I now am going to be dedicating my life to 3 children with no help or support from anyone....geez think my hormones are really kicking in now
You shouldn't feel guilty about what you did -- if he truly thinks his actions are OK and that there's nothing wrong with what he was doing, he shouldn't be ashamed of having it spelled out on his facebook wall.
Besides that, imagine all the grief you're saving other women who may be facebook friends with him that he's trying to get into bed. Don't be surprised if you get a few messages from other women who don't know what type of man he is. Also, don't be surprised if you find out he has other children.
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