DYING TO TELL!!!!! Must wait. A Killer!

Dr.M · Feb 21st, 2011, 10:46 AM

The first time I TTC, we got preg that day. Then told a lot of friends/family. Then had a chemical. I didn;t mind calling my family and best friends, but my husb college roommate - who I dont know, etc - went beyond my comfort level.
10 mos later, we just BFP'd again

and decided not to tell anyone!!!

I'm dying. I'm so excited and I can't even talk about it with my husband b/c he is out of town on a tripwith little free time, no privacy and no cell phone (I told him in 10 seconds on his friends' phone). Now he's stranded in a snow storm until tomorrow. OMG 3 days and no one to tell!!!!! Thank god for BNB!!!

When are/did you gals start talking? I won't tell work until I absolutely have to (maybe May....), but for fam and friends????

Coffee Lover · Feb 21st, 2011, 10:52 AM

I told close friends and family as soon as i found out, my view is I would need there support more if anything happened than keeping it from them.. But ii know everyone is different... I have a scan on wed and i am praying everything is ok....

emsieb · Feb 21st, 2011, 10:56 AM

I found out thursday, and we told my parents and oh dad today....his mum cannot keep a secret, i'm abot 4 +4 so very early, bt i needed to release it ha

Hope all goes well for you xxx

stouffer · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:11 AM

Not telling anyone until we've had a scan! I'm seeing my parents this weekend so it will be difficult not to tell but I just want it to stay between me and hubby for now and when we know everything is ok we'll share the news.

I really can't wait to tell people though. It's so hard! All I can talk about is baby. I have to vent on my poor hubby. I think he thinks I've gone baby crazy

josy0710 · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:14 AM

I had that happen when I found out..told people and had a chemical..found out this time..i told my family within the hour of finding out...told everyone else about a week later, I told people that I know would bea good support system if anything were to happen and now I cant wait to be able to tell the world!

pinkjoelle · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:21 AM

I told very few people but my bf told everyone else, so the secret is out of the bag...lol

telling is fun and you dont have to make up excuses for not drinking, feeling sick all the time and suddenly having an aversion fo sushi...haha

But on the other side I would have like less people to know that way if something goes wrong it would be less complicated...

AmandaAnn · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:22 AM

I too had a chemical, but thankfully had only told close family. This time, I'm dying to tell everyone, but also afraid. I'm thinking about telling at 10 weeks but wonder if I should hold out until 12. Interested in what others do...

Kiki09 · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:24 AM

We told my mum and sister but they live 3 hours away and so told my 2 best friends, as I know I will need their support either way! plus its great having someone to talk to about it as they are as excited for me as I am lol

josy0710 · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:25 AM

I had a scan at 10 weeks and was going to tell everyone..then decided to just wait. Figured I already waited this long might as well hold out lol I have a scan at 13w1D so i will probably tell everyone then when i have an updated scan pic

Tampa · Feb 21st, 2011, 11:28 AM

I cannot WAIT to tell my mum, but I know she'll be devastated if anything goes wrong, so I'm going to wait til had that vital 12 week scan. My oh's mum will be mega excited too. Only told my sis, who is also my best mate. Only 6 + 2, so feel I need not to get the hopes up. Scan tomorrow at EPU - hoping all is well in there! So hard not to get excited!

!!! x

Feb 21st, 2011, 10:46 AM	#1
Dr.M Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Long island Posts: 80	DYING TO TELL!!!!! Must wait. A Killer! The first time I TTC, we got preg that day. Then told a lot of friends/family. Then had a chemical. I didn;t mind calling my family and best friends, but my husb college roommate - who I dont know, etc - went beyond my comfort level. 10 mos later, we just BFP'd again and decided not to tell anyone!!! I'm dying. I'm so excited and I can't even talk about it with my husband b/c he is out of town on a tripwith little free time, no privacy and no cell phone (I told him in 10 seconds on his friends' phone). Now he's stranded in a snow storm until tomorrow. OMG 3 days and no one to tell!!!!! Thank god for BNB!!! When are/did you gals start talking? I won't tell work until I absolutely have to (maybe May....), but for fam and friends????

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Feb 21st, 2011, 10:52 AM	#2
Coffee Lover Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 798	I told close friends and family as soon as i found out, my view is I would need there support more if anything happened than keeping it from them.. But ii know everyone is different... I have a scan on wed and i am praying everything is ok....

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Feb 21st, 2011, 10:56 AM	#3
emsieb Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: West Midlands Posts: 137	I found out thursday, and we told my parents and oh dad today....his mum cannot keep a secret, i'm abot 4 +4 so very early, bt i needed to release it ha Hope all goes well for you xxx

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:11 AM	#4
stouffer Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: UK Posts: 2,299	Not telling anyone until we've had a scan! I'm seeing my parents this weekend so it will be difficult not to tell but I just want it to stay between me and hubby for now and when we know everything is ok we'll share the news. I really can't wait to tell people though. It's so hard! All I can talk about is baby. I have to vent on my poor hubby. I think he thinks I've gone baby crazy

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:14 AM	#5
josy0710 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: La Crescenta,CA Posts: 302	I had that happen when I found out..told people and had a chemical..found out this time..i told my family within the hour of finding out...told everyone else about a week later, I told people that I know would bea good support system if anything were to happen and now I cant wait to be able to tell the world!

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:21 AM	#6
pinkjoelle Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Canada, Quebec, Montreal Posts: 438	I told very few people but my bf told everyone else, so the secret is out of the bag...lol telling is fun and you dont have to make up excuses for not drinking, feeling sick all the time and suddenly having an aversion fo sushi...haha But on the other side I would have like less people to know that way if something goes wrong it would be less complicated...

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:22 AM	#7
AmandaAnn Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Nebraska Posts: 633	I too had a chemical, but thankfully had only told close family. This time, I'm dying to tell everyone, but also afraid. I'm thinking about telling at 10 weeks but wonder if I should hold out until 12. Interested in what others do...

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:24 AM	#8
Kiki09 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Norfolk, UK Posts: 3,205	We told my mum and sister but they live 3 hours away and so told my 2 best friends, as I know I will need their support either way! plus its great having someone to talk to about it as they are as excited for me as I am lol

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:25 AM	#9
josy0710 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: La Crescenta,CA Posts: 302	I had a scan at 10 weeks and was going to tell everyone..then decided to just wait. Figured I already waited this long might as well hold out lol I have a scan at 13w1D so i will probably tell everyone then when i have an updated scan pic

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Feb 21st, 2011, 11:28 AM	#10
Tampa Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Scotland UK Posts: 588	I cannot WAIT to tell my mum, but I know she'll be devastated if anything goes wrong, so I'm going to wait til had that vital 12 week scan. My oh's mum will be mega excited too. Only told my sis, who is also my best mate. Only 6 + 2, so feel I need not to get the hopes up. Scan tomorrow at EPU - hoping all is well in there! So hard not to get excited! !!! x

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