Anyone feel too scared to enjoy pregnancy in the first trimester? Or is it just me? - Page 2

desiwannabmom · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:17 AM

And don't get me started on the whole telling people business. We haven't told anyone yet and it is killing me. I think I want to wait at least my 10 week appointment but I hope that comes soon!!!!

Inky2006 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:26 AM

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thats good to hear.. today i was sick when i got up and still feel a abit sicky but my boobs arent really sore today like they have been. I just think tho surely if something was wrong i would be having pains and bleeding right?

Most people do have bleeding as an early sign of MC, and lots of pain. Its weird because I find some days I am nauseas, and have less painful boobs. Some days I have painful boobs and not much nausea. I think I am just weird LOL!

Inky2006 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by desiwannabmom

And don't get me started on the whole telling people business. We haven't told anyone yet and it is killing me. I think I want to wait at least my 10 week appointment but I hope that comes soon!!!!

Roll on 12 weeks. Everyone says last tri is slow. I think in the first tri- time stands still!

Just to say, I have also had brown bleeding last week. It scared be to bits. I only bled for a little while, it was copper coloured and a black clot came out. The clinic told me not to worry. Brown blood is old blood. I haven't had any since, but must admit, has made me symptom watch even morexxx

nlz2468 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:33 AM

nope your not alone hun im in exactly the same boat! this is my second pregnancy with first baby, my first pregnancy i had a mmc at 10.5weeks and with this pregnancy i am terrified im not even enjoying it at all i am a nervous wreck thinking what if? I dont think it will actually sink in until baby is in my arms im so sceard of history repeating its self that i cant begin to enjoy this pregnancy i should be celebrating and telling friends and family but im making sure its a secret until at least 14+weeks me and OH are keeping this pregnancy very much hush hush for the time being. Its normal to feel worried and anxious but i wont be relaxed until baby is in my arms at the end, sad i know but i cant help the way i feel after loosing a baby in my first pregnancy! xx

coopfairy · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:34 AM

your not weird! looking thru a few posts on here alot of women seem to have symptoms that disappear and then come back

hannahmumxx · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:45 AM

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Hi guys

I was just wondering if anyone else was feeling like me. Just abit about me. I am 35, this will be my first. We took quite along time to get here, because my husband had male factor infertility. We did something called ICSI, it didn't work the first time but with frozen embroyos it did. It is little short of a miracle.

At week 6.6 days we saw a little fetal pole with a hb.

However, this did not reassure me. I seem to live my life scared at the moment. I am scared to do anything. I am constantly symptom watching. If my boobs hurt less one day, I take it as a bad sign. If I am not so nauseas one day, I think its over. If I can't sleep one night, and am tossing and turning, I think I have damaged the baby. Oh...when will the worry end.

I am truly not a neurotic person usually. Has the first trimester caused anyone else to feel this way. Would love to hear from you allxx

need to find some first tri-buddies too.

i am exactly the same.....i am a basket case i am so on edge!! i have been to the doctors 3 times in the past 7 days and i am going back this afternoon to get my hcg levels tested after no hb on early pregnancy scan...i have never ever ever been like this!!
i think i am just a crazy pregnant lady, but it seems to have happened to a lot of people so don't worry, your not on your own :-)

all the best. xxx

Inky2006 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:49 AM

Good luck for this afternoon hannah. Maybe the dates were abit out on the scan. Sometimes its too early to see a heart beat. Good luck, keep coming back. let us know how you got onxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Nat0619 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:24 PM

Hi Inky2006

Firstly, we are at a very similar time in our pregnancies

Secondly, we are similar ages (I'm 36) and both expecting our first

Thirdly, we too tried for a good while (a year of TTC and a year before that of NTNP) to get pregnant. We had just seen doctor to start tests and I fell pregnant

And yes, I am definitely as you are - I have not been able to get excited at all yet, just so nervous! I have very few symptoms - no nausea or sickness, only slight tiredness sometimes and very little boob tenderness or difference - all I have are a constant bloat, wind and a bit of constipation

and a real liking for orange juice and cheese

I've got my first midwife appointment on Friday and am really hoping I get a scan date very soon so I know when it is and can work towards it x

Inky2006 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:32 PM

First of all congratulations. And second of all, Good luck on friday nat. Please let me know how it goes. I only got referred a week and half ago to midwife, because GP wanted to wait for my early scan to confirm pregnancy. He is abit lazy. I think you are supposed to have a midwifes appt between week 8-12. I shall be chasing that midwifes appointment up. My GP is abit rubbish. Hope all all goes well. I'm sure it will. I'm much more confident for others than myself!!xxxxx

Nat0619 · Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:53 PM

When did you have your early scan Inky and what did you see? x

Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:17 AM	#11
desiwannabmom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: USA Posts: 547	And don't get me started on the whole telling people business. We haven't told anyone yet and it is killing me. I think I want to wait at least my 10 week appointment but I hope that comes soon!!!!

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:33 AM	#14
nlz2468 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: England Posts: 1,225	nope your not alone hun im in exactly the same boat! this is my second pregnancy with first baby, my first pregnancy i had a mmc at 10.5weeks and with this pregnancy i am terrified im not even enjoying it at all i am a nervous wreck thinking what if? I dont think it will actually sink in until baby is in my arms im so sceard of history repeating its self that i cant begin to enjoy this pregnancy i should be celebrating and telling friends and family but im making sure its a secret until at least 14+weeks me and OH are keeping this pregnancy very much hush hush for the time being. Its normal to feel worried and anxious but i wont be relaxed until baby is in my arms at the end, sad i know but i cant help the way i feel after loosing a baby in my first pregnancy! xx

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:34 AM	#15
coopfairy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 384	your not weird! looking thru a few posts on here alot of women seem to have symptoms that disappear and then come back

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 10:49 AM	#17
Inky2006 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Sevenoaks,uk Posts: 1,984	Good luck for this afternoon hannah. Maybe the dates were abit out on the scan. Sometimes its too early to see a heart beat. Good luck, keep coming back. let us know how you got onxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:24 PM	#18
Nat0619 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: West Midlands Posts: 3,938	Hi Inky2006 Firstly, we are at a very similar time in our pregnancies Secondly, we are similar ages (I'm 36) and both expecting our first Thirdly, we too tried for a good while (a year of TTC and a year before that of NTNP) to get pregnant. We had just seen doctor to start tests and I fell pregnant And yes, I am definitely as you are - I have not been able to get excited at all yet, just so nervous! I have very few symptoms - no nausea or sickness, only slight tiredness sometimes and very little boob tenderness or difference - all I have are a constant bloat, wind and a bit of constipation and a real liking for orange juice and cheese I've got my first midwife appointment on Friday and am really hoping I get a scan date very soon so I know when it is and can work towards it x

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:32 PM	#19
Inky2006 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Sevenoaks,uk Posts: 1,984	First of all congratulations. And second of all, Good luck on friday nat. Please let me know how it goes. I only got referred a week and half ago to midwife, because GP wanted to wait for my early scan to confirm pregnancy. He is abit lazy. I think you are supposed to have a midwifes appt between week 8-12. I shall be chasing that midwifes appointment up. My GP is abit rubbish. Hope all all goes well. I'm sure it will. I'm much more confident for others than myself!!xxxxx

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Mar 22nd, 2011, 12:53 PM	#20
Nat0619 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: West Midlands Posts: 3,938	When did you have your early scan Inky and what did you see? x

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