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Hi, following a completely normal birth of my 3 year old son, i suffered a Grade 3 placetal abruption February last year, unfortunately my little man died in the uterus at 36 weeks. I suffered a major post partum haemorrage and i am lucky to be here myself. I am now 21 weeks pregnant with another little boy and just hopeful that i wont suffer the tragedy again. It was certainly the worse thing i have ever been through and it almost destroyed my relationship as well as me. I am having doctors keeping a close eye on me and scans so far have been good. I can't say i'm not anxious but i am truly trying not to worry this time round. I don't want to put any stress on my baby. All i can say is don't let your fears hold you back from pregnancy and i know its easy to say but try not to worry and let stress take hold. Be as happy and healthy as you can be. They couldnt give me the reason why this happened to me but as i have had a normal birth before, Doctors are hopeful that even though there is a chance of it happening again, as long as i follow all their advice, have regular checks and scans i should have a normal pregnacy or at least they should detect early if there are any problems. Hope this has helped. XX
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