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Old Jun 12th, 2011, 23:58 PM   1
sammy1205
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I'm out, wish you all well


Hello all,
I haven't felt very well all week. Today I woke up, should've been 5w 3d, and had some brown spotting, very minute, but kept watching it and rested. Around 4pm I did some ironing (very little) and just felt a little more of a wet feeling, went to the bathroon and had a big dark red spot, it wasn;t bright red but a rich red, if that makes any sense. I did have some cramping yesterday, but nothing major. Today my back hurt allong the area you bra strap fits across your back, so I went to the ER.

They did bloodwork, urine, pelvic exam, and an external ultrasound. The us tech sid the md ordered a abdominal and a internal, he started with the abd, and asked me if I had blood drawn yet, I said yes, about an hour ago. He said ok I will be right back I want to see if it is back yet. he came back in the room, typed somemore and took me back to the er. On the way back I asked him if the bloodwork had come back yet, he said yes the HCG level was 55. So either you MC, or youa re really early. I knew my LMP was 05/06 and we only BD 1 day 05/18. The MD told me, I could be really early, but in totality, it looks more like I MC. He said straight away make sure you have another HCG in 24-28 hours to make sure the levels are going down. So that told me he was convinced of a mc. I think at first they wanted to make sure I was ever really pregnant to begin with. I told them I did 3 tests and they were VERY dark lines, hit the test line dark before the urine got to the control line. The MD said yea with a HCG of 55 you definitely were PG, but I am 99% certain you MC!

TMI- I am bleeding heavily with a few small clots now. I will go back in to redraw the blood just to make sure I do not end up with an infection.

DH is upset, first the ectopic with twins in Jan and now this. I think he is done. I may be too, jsut want to think it thro a bit before he has the Big V.

Hoping you all have a happy, sticky, not too sick pregnancy.



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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 00:04 AM   2
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i am really sorry you are having to go through this if you need someone to talk to or even just complain to i am here. honestly if there is anything you want to say i am happy to listen. i have been through this far to many times so i understand your pain. i will say dont give up and good luck with future pregnancys again im really sorry xxxx



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 00:05 AM   3
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I'm so sorry



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 00:05 AM   4
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so so sorry x



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 01:10 AM   5
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I'm so sorry you have been through so much, I truly hope whatever you decide works out for you. Big hugs sweet x



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 01:23 AM   6
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 01:48 AM   7
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 04:35 AM   8
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I'm really sorry to hear this, sending you xx



 
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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 04:42 AM   9
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So sorry to hear your news.



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Old Jun 13th, 2011, 04:47 AM   10
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im really sorry to hear about that, ive had 2 miscarriages previously, i know how devestating they are. Sending lots of love to you both, stick together and remember what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. It doesnt have to be the end but thats something you need to think about carefully between the two of you, only you know. Hugs.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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