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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 11:59 AM   1
Lexi09
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4 weeks pregnant & had sex 2 different guys Help ?


I just found out today that im 4wks/1day pregnant

.. my question is , I had sex with 2 guys.....

the last time was the 10th cycle day 19....?
week past ovulation ..

but the guy who ive been steady with not together .. is who ive had sex with up untill June 6th . he had left for a while.

Im just Trying to figure out whos baby with is ...

Is it possiable a week after having sex with a random guy that pulled out and didnt even cum near me ... could it be his or is it safe to say its not ?

Sorry this is confusing but its hard



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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 12:01 PM   2
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So the 10th you had sex with the guy that wasn't the regular one?



 
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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 12:01 PM   3
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Sorry you have to go through this, didn't want to read and run. My guess is the father is who ever you dtd with closest to your ovulation date, so probably wouldn't be the one the week after. Good luck xx



 
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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 12:03 PM   4
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Sorry this is really confusing with timings- you had sex with guy number 1 (not steady boyfriend) on cycle day 10- so are you counting this as 10 days after the first day of your period? (because then you wrote '19' and I didn't get what that meant..?) and then the steady guy, number 2, I assume you were having sex with him regularly, all through the month after stopping your period..? How long are your cycles also, and how long do your periods usually last?



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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 12:04 PM   5
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Ohhh. the 10th of the month, I see, and that was cycle day 19th...still confused about the other guy though, the steady one..?



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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 12:16 PM   6
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I'd say if you're definitely sure that you ovulated when you think you did then it would seem more likely that the guy your steady with is the father, however women can and do ovulate at different times during different cycles and I have known many women fall pregnant from using the pull out method as there is always pre cum.

I'd say unless you are 100% certain of ovulation dates then it COULD be either guy.

I hope you figure things out Hun and sorry I wasn't able to give any brilliant advice.

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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 13:24 PM   7
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Yep it sounds like the father is probably the guy you were having sex with until June 6th. Unlikely to be the other guy. Not impossible (if you ovulated later than you thought) but unlikely.



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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 13:38 PM   8
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To be honest I don't think you can guess at something like this you need to tell both and do a DNA test as soon as the baby is born! you can speak to your doctor to get a reliable one,
You can't just guess remember a lot of people have had periods between sleeping with different people it doesn't mean it is deffo the second persons
I don't wanna sound like a meanie but you can't guess at this no matter how well you know your cycle xxxxxxxx



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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 13:45 PM   9
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if u had sex 10th and 6th 2 different guys then baby could be eithers



 
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Old Jun 20th, 2011, 13:54 PM   10
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Lexi, I am a bit slow on the uptake, could you make the dates a bit clearer as well as the two guys involved, as I am not 100% clear. Do you know for sure when you ovulated, because conception is usually within 24 hours of ovulation and impossible several days after. I am not really sure when you had sex with the random guy. It would be good if you could be precise with your dates. This must be a nightmare for you so if I can give you any help with working it out I will xxx



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