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Old Sep 24th, 2011, 20:51 PM   31
KendraNoell
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I would definitely go get a second opinion if at all possible. Being on here for several months I have seen tons of people get told they are miscarrying or will probably miscarry and it turns out that the Dr/midwife/whoever was WRONG. Don't give up hope!!



 
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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 04:41 AM   32
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So sorry you're going through this hun
First of all, as I understand it, you cannot have suffered a blighted ovum if a yolk sac was identified. Secondly, can you be sure your dates are correct?
I don't want to get your hopes up if it is an early loss but I want you to be certain.
I had a blighted ovum in July. I found out at around 6 weeks and within days I started bleeding. I had no more pain than a usual period but it lasted about 2 days longer.
I really hope things work out for you but please PM me if you need to talk xx



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 12:02 PM   33
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I am sure of my dates. I know when my LMP was and when I got positive OPKS. I found out at 13DPO, so I could have been 6 days off at the max... any sooner then that and there's no way I would've seen a BFP. I'm not sure why the tech and midwife called it a Blighted Ovum if it wasn't that...



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 12:07 PM   34
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Possibly because they wanted to give you an answer. Sometimes doctors/nurses/health professionals are wrong. I'd say it's an early MC if you are 100% sure of your dates but you could be wrong too. If there has been no progress in another week or so then I think it's safe to say it's an early MC (or even a missed miscarriage since you have been waiting for so long for it to happen) but I hope that doesn't happen to you. Keep us posted with what happens and take care of yourself.



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Old Sep 25th, 2011, 14:12 PM   35
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I'm so sorry you're going through this.

You mentioned that you were anxious about having a D&C, so I just wanted to reassure you that IF you have to, it's really not that bad. Honestly. With my first, I found out at 12+4 that the baby had died around 10 weeks (there were no signs that I'd miscarried). I opted for a D&C and it was a good decision for me. It was pretty much painless and I had minimal bleeding afterwards. It was hard, but it gave me a chance to say goodbye and then feel a sense of closure instead of dealing with bleeding and the fear of retained tissue for weeks.

Things will get better, but it definitely takes time. Be kind to yourself and give yourself permission to grieve however you need to. I'm so sorry. There's nothing fair about this



 
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Old Sep 26th, 2011, 11:00 AM   36
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So my midwife called to order some bloodwork. She wants to check my HCG because the radiology report says that the pregnancy may still be viable. There was appropriate growth (in everything but the embryo, obviously) and the sac still looked healthy and showed no signs of collapsing.

I am not getting my hopes up... because 3 days she was telling me that I was going to miscarry



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Old Sep 26th, 2011, 11:03 AM   37
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well I am hoping for you...



 
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Old Sep 26th, 2011, 11:06 AM   38
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Ill be hoping and praying for you!Miracles happen and thats what babies are!Good luck!



 
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Old Sep 26th, 2011, 11:08 AM   39
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good luck sweetie!



 
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Old Sep 26th, 2011, 11:08 AM   40
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oh i hope it turns out ok for you. xx



 
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