I'd be very angry as well, but I dunno about ending your very long friendship with her.
Was it completely stupid and selfish of HER to spill your news/secret like that? Absolutely, but maybe after things have cooled down some between you, you can hopefully at least forgive her for her big mouth.
Like I said, I'd be so angry if this had happened to myself, but in the end... if you have a healthy little baby in 9 months... that's all that matters and how/who told won't matter as much.
I hope you'll be able to work this out with her eventually.
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