Where'd my sex life go?! - Page 3

PG5K · Mar 15th, 2012, 13:57 PM

Due to bleeding weve only done it twice. My dh is as scared of me having bleeding as I am.

Im making sure I keep dh happy (when I feel like it!)

Remlap · Mar 15th, 2012, 14:02 PM

Haven't Dtd for 9 weeks nearly!! I'd vomit all of him if I tired as ive had severe ms. Poor dh. He understands though. N I'll make it up to him when Im feeling better...

MedievalGrad · Mar 15th, 2012, 23:11 PM

Ever since I found out we were pregnant, my boyfriend has been SUPER excited about it, and wanted to have sex a lot, but I'm nervous about spotting afterwards. Although it hasn't happened yet, I keep checking his *TMI* penis for evidence of bleeding afterwards. So far I haven't spotted or bled at all, but I've felt REALLY dry down there. Anybody else experience this, too?

Lil_Moma · Mar 22nd, 2012, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by MedievalGrad

Ever since I found out we were pregnant, my boyfriend has been SUPER excited about it, and wanted to have sex a lot, but I'm nervous about spotting afterwards. Although it hasn't happened yet, I keep checking his *TMI* penis for evidence of bleeding afterwards. So far I haven't spotted or bled at all, but I've felt REALLY dry down there. Anybody else experience this, too?

I've done the same just waited for it. I've also been rather dry down her way and has made sex a little painful luckily my OH is biiiig on fore play

we've picked up pace again so feeling a little better still nothing like we used to

I miss the togetherness of it but the plus side is we get more time without the sex while ttc my OH and I lost the close feeling we got from being together without dtd. I feel bad for him coz his sex drive hasnt changed and mine seems to peak when hes at work, more from romance novels so Im keeping a secret stash to read while hes in the shower to make sure Im ready

SarahDiener · Mar 22nd, 2012, 03:33 AM

We've done it once and it was bad! half way through I started thinking about the baby and my cervix and... needless to say I suddenly really lost the erge! It's really weird for me because normally I'm the one who wants it all the time and am always trying to get him to have more sex!

psmith · Mar 22nd, 2012, 03:36 AM

Morning sickness is cripling my sex life. Nearly 8 weeks.... you should have seen OH's face when I told him things should be back to normal in only a MONTH!! lol

Lil_Moma · Mar 22nd, 2012, 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by psmith

Morning sickness is cripling my sex life. Nearly 8 weeks.... you should have seen OH's face when I told him things should be back to normal in only a MONTH!! lol

well while dtd with *TMI* me on top in the 9th week I suddenly felt sick and was leaning over him with my head in the bucket throwing my guts up luckily enough both me and my OH could see the funny side in it

mommy0629 · Mar 22nd, 2012, 10:09 AM

Dr put me on pelvic rest till week 12 cause of bleeding after sex and I was happy to inform dh lol. By second tri I'll be after him so much though he'll be hiding from me lol so he remembers that from when I was pregnant with our son and is just counting the days haha.

lovelylisa84 · Mar 22nd, 2012, 10:38 AM

Yup! Im in the same boat. We are only getting busy 1-2x per week and i do it out of mercy lol I know that sounds terrible but I am sooooo out of the mood. Someone told me to start eating a lot of bananas and that will help. Im going to test it out.

WM61711 · Mar 22nd, 2012, 11:38 AM

Glad Im not the only one! I feel so bad because I've been pretty irritable the past few weeks, and DH has been so understanding but most of the time I just dont want to be bothered by him! I hate feeling like this, not affectionate or intimate like before, it sucks. Hoping it goes away soon and we can start being intimate again

Mar 15th, 2012, 13:57 PM	#21
PG5K Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Staffordshire, UK Posts: 1,270	Due to bleeding weve only done it twice. My dh is as scared of me having bleeding as I am. Im making sure I keep dh happy (when I feel like it!)

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Mar 15th, 2012, 14:02 PM	#22
Remlap Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 713	Haven't Dtd for 9 weeks nearly!! I'd vomit all of him if I tired as ive had severe ms. Poor dh. He understands though. N I'll make it up to him when Im feeling better...

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Mar 15th, 2012, 23:11 PM	#23
MedievalGrad Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Columbia, Missouri Posts: 366	Ever since I found out we were pregnant, my boyfriend has been SUPER excited about it, and wanted to have sex a lot, but I'm nervous about spotting afterwards. Although it hasn't happened yet, I keep checking his TMI penis for evidence of bleeding afterwards. So far I haven't spotted or bled at all, but I've felt REALLY dry down there. Anybody else experience this, too?

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Mar 22nd, 2012, 03:33 AM	#25
SarahDiener Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Germany Posts: 2,091	We've done it once and it was bad! half way through I started thinking about the baby and my cervix and... needless to say I suddenly really lost the erge! It's really weird for me because normally I'm the one who wants it all the time and am always trying to get him to have more sex!

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Mar 22nd, 2012, 03:36 AM	#26
psmith Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 89	Morning sickness is cripling my sex life. Nearly 8 weeks.... you should have seen OH's face when I told him things should be back to normal in only a MONTH!! lol

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Mar 22nd, 2012, 10:09 AM	#28
mommy0629 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: PA, USA Posts: 1,952	Dr put me on pelvic rest till week 12 cause of bleeding after sex and I was happy to inform dh lol. By second tri I'll be after him so much though he'll be hiding from me lol so he remembers that from when I was pregnant with our son and is just counting the days haha.

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Mar 22nd, 2012, 10:38 AM	#29
lovelylisa84 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: San Diego, CA Posts: 807	Yup! Im in the same boat. We are only getting busy 1-2x per week and i do it out of mercy lol I know that sounds terrible but I am sooooo out of the mood. Someone told me to start eating a lot of bananas and that will help. Im going to test it out.

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Mar 22nd, 2012, 11:38 AM	#30
WM61711 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 248	Glad Im not the only one! I feel so bad because I've been pretty irritable the past few weeks, and DH has been so understanding but most of the time I just dont want to be bothered by him! I hate feeling like this, not affectionate or intimate like before, it sucks. Hoping it goes away soon and we can start being intimate again

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