can someone help wthout judgement

cherie_24401 · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:32 PM

My last period was jan 23,and my cycles are usually every 25 days. I slept with guy A jan. 28 & 29. Slept with guy B Feb 2, but took plan b pill the next morning. About 12-13 hours after sex. Now I do have an unusual history, I got pregnant two, yes 2 times with an IUD which is very very rare ( that was like 2 yrs ago), so my question is: was I already pregnant with guy A's baby,( which pill would not have harmed) or am I pregnant by guy B and pill failed??? I have heard that plan B is not very effective if you have already ovulated. But I think I ovulated on Feb 2 according to all the online calculators. Anyone have any opinions?

sienarose · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:37 PM

Depends how long your leutal phase is so it's hard to know exactly with them being so close together, but I'd be heading towards guy B. If your leutal phase was the average 14 days you would have ovulated around the 2nd Feb. Unfortunately I think the only for sure way of knowing is dna testing. Sorry chicky

cherie_24401 · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:40 PM

im not sure what exactly the leutal phase is....?

Jinnah · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:41 PM

Those dates are so close... I don't think you can guess on this one. I think you are going to have to get a DNA test.

cherie_24401 · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:58 PM

ok looks like my leutal phase is aout 16-17 days. so whats that mean?

someone23 · Mar 18th, 2012, 20:58 PM

i will guess guyA.. because you had sex before ovulation.. as sperm can live up to 5 days in a fertile enviroment! 9 times out of 10.. by the time you ovulated and had sex with guy B - guy A sperm had already caught the egg especially if you ovulated earlier!! Ovulation date is just an estimate and you can ovulate before or after that date... goodluck chick! hope it all work out for you

GlasgowAngel · Mar 18th, 2012, 21:10 PM

I'd be inclined to say B but I think your really gonna need a DNA test as those dates are all pretty close

Stressbucket · Mar 18th, 2012, 21:21 PM

Given that B is closer to the probable ovulation date, if I had to pick one of them based only on what I know, I'd say he had the better chance. But as you point out, if you did get pregnant earlier, the Plan B wouldn't have done anything--and also, sperm from both might have been sharing space at some point, given its survival date after 'launch'.

I'm going to agree with everyone else--if you need to know, it's going to have to be DNA testing. Given everything, I don't think either potential father can be ruled out without the help of science.

Sorry we couldn't give you a solid answer on this one.

cherie_24401 · Mar 18th, 2012, 21:26 PM

thanks everyone

Emerald87 · Mar 18th, 2012, 22:51 PM

Yes, you will never know from dates. You'll need a DNA test sorry.
As stated previously, guy A's sperm would have survived in there for days. Then you added guy B's to the "mix" and your ovulation date isn't certain. Both sets of sperm were in there and it really depends who got there first

Good luck

Mar 18th, 2012, 20:32 PM	#1
cherie_24401 Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: virginia Posts: 6	can someone help wthout judgement My last period was jan 23,and my cycles are usually every 25 days. I slept with guy A jan. 28 & 29. Slept with guy B Feb 2, but took plan b pill the next morning. About 12-13 hours after sex. Now I do have an unusual history, I got pregnant two, yes 2 times with an IUD which is very very rare ( that was like 2 yrs ago), so my question is: was I already pregnant with guy A's baby,( which pill would not have harmed) or am I pregnant by guy B and pill failed??? I have heard that plan B is not very effective if you have already ovulated. But I think I ovulated on Feb 2 according to all the online calculators. Anyone have any opinions?

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Mar 18th, 2012, 20:37 PM	#2
sienarose Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 130	Depends how long your leutal phase is so it's hard to know exactly with them being so close together, but I'd be heading towards guy B. If your leutal phase was the average 14 days you would have ovulated around the 2nd Feb. Unfortunately I think the only for sure way of knowing is dna testing. Sorry chicky

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Mar 18th, 2012, 20:40 PM	#3
cherie_24401 Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: virginia Posts: 6	im not sure what exactly the leutal phase is....?

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Mar 18th, 2012, 20:41 PM	#4
Jinnah Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: USA Posts: 588	Those dates are so close... I don't think you can guess on this one. I think you are going to have to get a DNA test.

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Mar 18th, 2012, 20:58 PM	#5
cherie_24401 Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: virginia Posts: 6	ok looks like my leutal phase is aout 16-17 days. so whats that mean?

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someone23 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 493	i will guess guyA.. because you had sex before ovulation.. as sperm can live up to 5 days in a fertile enviroment! 9 times out of 10.. by the time you ovulated and had sex with guy B - guy A sperm had already caught the egg especially if you ovulated earlier!! Ovulation date is just an estimate and you can ovulate before or after that date... goodluck chick! hope it all work out for you

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Mar 18th, 2012, 21:10 PM	#7
GlasgowAngel Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Glasgow Posts: 963	I'd be inclined to say B but I think your really gonna need a DNA test as those dates are all pretty close

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Mar 18th, 2012, 21:21 PM	#8
Stressbucket Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Northern California Posts: 457	Given that B is closer to the probable ovulation date, if I had to pick one of them based only on what I know, I'd say he had the better chance. But as you point out, if you did get pregnant earlier, the Plan B wouldn't have done anything--and also, sperm from both might have been sharing space at some point, given its survival date after 'launch'. I'm going to agree with everyone else--if you need to know, it's going to have to be DNA testing. Given everything, I don't think either potential father can be ruled out without the help of science. Sorry we couldn't give you a solid answer on this one.

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Mar 18th, 2012, 21:26 PM	#9
cherie_24401 Pregnant (Expecting) New BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: virginia Posts: 6	thanks everyone

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Mar 18th, 2012, 22:51 PM	#10
Emerald87 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 3,214	Yes, you will never know from dates. You'll need a DNA test sorry. As stated previously, guy A's sperm would have survived in there for days. Then you added guy B's to the "mix" and your ovulation date isn't certain. Both sets of sperm were in there and it really depends who got there first Good luck

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