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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:33 AM   1
MissCurly
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Has it really happened? (pregnancy)


Hiya,
This being our second month of trying for #2, and having bought loads of cheap pregnancy tests (10miul), I began testing over last few days, and today I saw an EXTREMELY faint line- so I did it three more times just in case something is wrong with the first test. And all with the same extremely faint line and I read the tests within 5-10 minutes to eliminate evap line problems.

I am 10 or 11 DPO.

I havnt even told the husband yet. What do I do now? Am I really pregnant, or should I just wait until I definitely do not get a period over the next week?

I know this sounds a bit silly from someone who already has had a baby, but i feel a bit shocked i think, and possibly somewhat cautious.

And i think i just need to get it out of my system.



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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:36 AM   2
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Oh also, husband didnt want me to test before period is due, namely because it gives a more reliable result, and two if we do have a chemical pregnancy we would be none the wiser- argh, do i tell?? EEk!



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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:37 AM   3
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That's how I found out. Did an Internet cheapie and got a faint line. Did it again and same thing. Then the next day I did a first response and 2 lines. Sounds like you're pregnant to me. Congrats!



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:44 AM   4
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As long as the line was there and your sure it wasnt an evap or 4 lol then Congratz

dont tell, wait until he wants you to test then get the two lines with your hubby i let my OH have the 3 minute wait on the test and i think it was so much nicer than me telling him! Plus i got to confirm it all over again

test again in the morning



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:49 AM   5
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Thanks both you

sleepybaby- I think thats a great idea with waiting with oh- i might try to do just that. I dont know how strong my resolve at keeping it quiet is, but its worth a shot!!



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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:53 AM   6
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i was the same, trying not to giggle when waiting with him was impossiable! i had to tell him i was giggling with nerves and after the test came up positive he was to happy to remember me giggling xD lol



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 08:54 AM   7
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Mine lines started out light too, I bet it will be darker in the morning, good luck

BTW you're little girl is soooo cute



 
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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 09:04 AM   8
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sleepybaby- if im giggling away i think the husband would be much happier with that than with all the emotional crying he's had to deal with this weekend!

lanicol12- thanks although she doesnt look like a baby anymore, more like a 2-3 year old with pigtails! (really should update that pic!). x



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Old Mar 20th, 2012, 10:54 AM   9
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I wouldn't be able to hold it in for any other reason other than hubby. If I felt he'd take it very hard if I were to end up getting my period, I'd wait to tell him.

For me, I knew he'd want to know right away so it was the right choice to tell him when I got my faint line. If you think he'd rather not know, then it's okay to wait to tell him. You don't have to feel bad.

That being said, if you do end up having a chemical/getting , would you talk to him about it? Would you need his support to get through that? He may be completely shocked and upset that you didn't tell him earlier and then all of the sudden he's lost a baby.

You probably know best!



 
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