I am so very, very sorry for your loss... I had something similar. My 10-wk scan showed no heartbeat. The baby stopped developing about 10 days prior and my body showed no signs. They gave me the option of waiting, meds or a d&c. Psychologically, I was still having bad morning sickness and it was too much for me. I opted for surgery. The benefit was that I sent the baby for testing and found out he had downs syndrome. I had a friend (at the exact same time as me) that waited it out and it took a few weeks. My sister took the drugs for her m/c and said it was extremely painful. I think it just all depends on what will be best for you psychologically. Do what is best for your mental health. Take time to cry and grieve. It is devastating and shouldn't happen to anyone, but I promise that it does get easier over time. Just cry. A lot. Whenever you need to. Again, so sorry for your loss. Lots of hugs.
Thanks so much for all the thoughts and prayers I decided to let it happen naturally I couldn't handle the thought of the Cytotec and I passed the baby last night. So thankful my husband was home B/c I wasn't prepared for just how traumatic it was. I do feel so much better now that I have it behind me and I'm ready to try again soon best wishes to all the pregnant and soon to be pregnant ladies on here
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