I couldnt be the only one? - Page 3

pink_rulez · Apr 7th, 2012, 10:11 AM

It can annoy me sometimes but I soon get over it n move on to so thing else I'd like to eat, which then usually evolves hubby going to the shop so I look as it as a tree Thor all the running around he's doing
When I was pregnant with Sophie we did have a drinking ban in the last month incase he needed to drive anywhere, which he took to quickly but I guess he thought he better not argue with a 8months pregant ratty woman lol, I think I it's annoying you may be you could come to some sort of agreement eg he only drinks on weekends or eats the foods you cant while your not there?!?!?
Xxx

pinkribbon · Apr 7th, 2012, 10:23 AM

I don't really mind what he eats. Unless in the future it's something I'm craving and can't eat. That would bug me.

It would also annoy me if he went on a load of benders... Not that I'm a fan of drinking and miss it or anything because even before I was pregnant it was once in a blue moon I'd have a drink.. But because I think it would be disrespectful

his smoking really annoys me though it makes me feel ill

ThinkPositiv · Apr 7th, 2012, 11:14 AM

nah. although i love my vino, the smell doesnt appeal to me these days and i am more than happy to be the designated driver! we comprimise becuase i am usually tired earlier than usual so we head home early....

Sunshine12 · Apr 7th, 2012, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by SleepyBaby

does anyone else feel that there OH should give up there weekends with us? by with us i mean we have to stop so they should?

should drink infront of us? should they be allowed to gulp down coffee by the gallon and eat all the eggs they wanna? eat mayo like its going out of style and generally do all the things we are not allowed to do infront of us??

grrrrrrrrr full wee rant head on about my OH not changing a thing while im not allowed my daily dose of coffee!

Im of the opinion that its me thats preggers and why should he have to do without just because I have to. At least one of should be able to have fun! p.s I eat home made mayo, runny eggs, rare meat etc anyway so its only alcohol I have to do without. Obviously, you can have coffee too providing its not more than 200mg a day. x

ClaudiasMummy · Apr 7th, 2012, 11:27 AM

I can understand how you feel. I do think some stuff should be off limits.
I guess I'm a little lucky...My OH doesn't drink or do nights out. He's in with me all the time.

Matos2010 · Apr 7th, 2012, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyBaby

does anyone else feel that there OH should give up there weekends with us? by with us i mean we have to stop so they should?

should drink infront of us? should they be allowed to gulp down coffee by the gallon and eat all the eggs they wanna? eat mayo like its going out of style and generally do all the things we are not allowed to do infront of us??

grrrrrrrrr full wee rant head on about my OH not changing a thing while im not allowed my daily dose of coffee!

I dont mind what my hubby does :-) Hes shouldn't have to stop having a beer because I am pregnant. And I am still allowed to drink coffee/eat eggs/mayo. Pretty much the only thing my doc told me not to do was drink alcohol & eat sushi. ....Im not a big drinker anyways!

Leikela · Apr 7th, 2012, 13:36 PM

I with the rest of the ladies. Just because I am pregnant doesn't mean hubby has to change his lifestyle too. That isn't fair! We went out with friends last night to TGIFriday's and he had 2 pints of beer and my friends drank too. I didn't mind. I was just glad to be out and socializing. My hubby is also great with calling it quits early with me. I can no longer stay out past 9 or 10 o'clock because I get so exhausted.

I actually encourage hubby to eat what he wants. He is so supportive too and asks if the smell bothers me, he will eat else where. The way I look at it, I am very lucky to be in the position I am in-expecting. A few sacrifices here and there are worth it in the end without having hubby have to suffer too.

SleepyBaby · Apr 7th, 2012, 14:41 PM

are we allowed runny eggs?? lol

yea i agree now, and i agree'd yesterday, was just off on one last night, having a wee off moment but i soon got over it ! i wasn't feeling pregnant and was feeling sorry for myself, but yeah i got over it! :-)

i dont mind not being allowed things, but when i really really want it and he has it im kinda

but i get over it, think it hormones as im usually not this girny lol

Leikela · Apr 7th, 2012, 14:53 PM

Runny eggs are on the banned list because of the risk of salmonella poisoning. However, I believe in moderation! We aren't supposed to eat deli meat either and one day I just indulged in a bologna and cheese sandwich and enjoyed every bit! I even had ham and cheese at Panera one time too. That has been it though and I am fine. I think as long as you don't over do it, because the risk still exists, you will be fine.

Emerald87 · Apr 7th, 2012, 19:24 PM

I don't take the chance with anything not recommended; Runny eggs, cheeses etc. I've had a loss and I can't go through that again. If I lost another one I'd know I've done everything I could to keep it. I couldn't live with the guilt if there was a slight possibility it was my fault.

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pink_rulez Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Bristol,UK Posts: 1,762	It can annoy me sometimes but I soon get over it n move on to so thing else I'd like to eat, which then usually evolves hubby going to the shop so I look as it as a tree Thor all the running around he's doing When I was pregnant with Sophie we did have a drinking ban in the last month incase he needed to drive anywhere, which he took to quickly but I guess he thought he better not argue with a 8months pregant ratty woman lol, I think I it's annoying you may be you could come to some sort of agreement eg he only drinks on weekends or eats the foods you cant while your not there?!?!? Xxx

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pinkribbon Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK. Posts: 4,274	I don't really mind what he eats. Unless in the future it's something I'm craving and can't eat. That would bug me. It would also annoy me if he went on a load of benders... Not that I'm a fan of drinking and miss it or anything because even before I was pregnant it was once in a blue moon I'd have a drink.. But because I think it would be disrespectful his smoking really annoys me though it makes me feel ill

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ThinkPositiv Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: BC Posts: 1,259	nah. although i love my vino, the smell doesnt appeal to me these days and i am more than happy to be the designated driver! we comprimise becuase i am usually tired earlier than usual so we head home early....

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ClaudiasMummy Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 1,067	I can understand how you feel. I do think some stuff should be off limits. I guess I'm a little lucky...My OH doesn't drink or do nights out. He's in with me all the time.

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Apr 7th, 2012, 13:36 PM	#27
Leikela Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: New Jersey, USA Posts: 1,148	I with the rest of the ladies. Just because I am pregnant doesn't mean hubby has to change his lifestyle too. That isn't fair! We went out with friends last night to TGIFriday's and he had 2 pints of beer and my friends drank too. I didn't mind. I was just glad to be out and socializing. My hubby is also great with calling it quits early with me. I can no longer stay out past 9 or 10 o'clock because I get so exhausted. I actually encourage hubby to eat what he wants. He is so supportive too and asks if the smell bothers me, he will eat else where. The way I look at it, I am very lucky to be in the position I am in-expecting. A few sacrifices here and there are worth it in the end without having hubby have to suffer too.

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Apr 7th, 2012, 14:41 PM	#28
SleepyBaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 1,712	are we allowed runny eggs?? lol yea i agree now, and i agree'd yesterday, was just off on one last night, having a wee off moment but i soon got over it ! i wasn't feeling pregnant and was feeling sorry for myself, but yeah i got over it! :-) i dont mind not being allowed things, but when i really really want it and he has it im kinda but i get over it, think it hormones as im usually not this girny lol

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Leikela Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: New Jersey, USA Posts: 1,148	Runny eggs are on the banned list because of the risk of salmonella poisoning. However, I believe in moderation! We aren't supposed to eat deli meat either and one day I just indulged in a bologna and cheese sandwich and enjoyed every bit! I even had ham and cheese at Panera one time too. That has been it though and I am fine. I think as long as you don't over do it, because the risk still exists, you will be fine.

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Apr 7th, 2012, 19:24 PM	#30
Emerald87 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 3,214	I don't take the chance with anything not recommended; Runny eggs, cheeses etc. I've had a loss and I can't go through that again. If I lost another one I'd know I've done everything I could to keep it. I couldn't live with the guilt if there was a slight possibility it was my fault.

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