does anyone else feel that there OH should give up there weekends with us? by with us i mean we have to stop so they should?
should drink infront of us? should they be allowed to gulp down coffee by the gallon and eat all the eggs they wanna? eat mayo like its going out of style and generally do all the things we are not allowed to do infront of us??
grrrrrrrrr full wee rant head on about my OH not changing a thing while im not allowed my daily dose of coffee!
I guessed i've just lucked out, My hubby doesn't go out, he will drink a tiny bit at home, but he would never get drunk especially as he put it, with a pregnant wife lol, he enjoys our time together more, so when we both have a day off together or a good solid evening together, we spend it together, and if he wants to hang with friends, then we invite our friends . He also hasn't eaten too many things that I can't eat, but that could just be because we don't usually buy groceries that we both can't benefit from due to our semi tight budget
You can't blame the guy though for wanting to go out, and enjoying foods they want to enjoy...if my hubby wants to eat something I can't it's honestly fine by me, he should be able to, and I know he isn't doing it to spite me.
I'm ok with it. I don't see the point in having hubby be as restricted as I am. Sure I get whinny sometimes wishing I could eat/drink what he does, but I don't think it means he should quite doing it. I still have the occasional decaf coffee and fully cooked eggs are perfectly ok.
Whenever we go out to eat and he has a few drinks, I'm actually happy that we have a designated driver
i just want him to understand how lonely this whole thing can be when im the only one left at home to sit on the egg, when i get to watch him do all the things he knows i cannot do!
why doesnt he feel guilty about it??
lol is this my hormones or do i really wanna bash his head in for being so .......... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
last night we sat in and watched a film and he opens a beer?! he will make a coffee and ask me to smell it while wafting his hands to push the smell over? i dunno lol and hes out tonight probably gonna come home reeking of beer which will either make me gag or make me wanna beer lol
I don't really mind. My dh doesn't go out but he'll have a couple beers at home sometimes. He has gone to a neighbor's party and got pretty drunk, but I like to see him enjoy himself before he's locked down. He is being so great though and catering to all my whining that I feel he deserves it. Plus he quit coffee, drinking, smoking, everything when we were TTC, so I thought that was pretty awesome of him so this is his reward.
Nah, hes a good man doesnt party or stay out. If it makes him happy im ok with it. But i do ask him to take his food elsewhere if its making me sick and have banned chicken from the house. I do nag him everyday about not dipping (it where they put tobacco in their mouths and spit out the nasty brown goop) he doesnt do it in front of me but i still HATE it!!!
I don't mind much but the smell of beer does bother me, even before I was preggo. I went to the pub this evening too tho, just had a couple of orange juice & sodas. And I'd rather he enjoyed himself a bit now (within reason) before he's on nappy duty! But my DH doesn't often go out without me, we socialise together a lot.
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