How is everyone coping?

lily24 · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:01 AM

I found out last night (my birthday!) Im 1-2 weeks pregnant after 2 losses and nearly 2 year TTC #2

Im super duper excited of course, but so frigging nervous and convinced something is going to go wrong

I hope its not going to cause problems with my accepting the pregnancy as im scared im going to be let down

Got lots of lower back pain aswell and all i can think it 'somethings wrong, somethings wrong'

Need a kick up a butt!

Laura2806 · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:04 AM

Hunni. Know the feeling, petrified something will go wrong and praying it doesn't, I just keep telling myself I'm pregnant and this is what I've always wanted, everything's going to be fine :-) I just keep telling myself that worrying will cause stress and that's not good.

Hope you can relax and enjoy it soon hunni.

Oh and congratulations momma!! X

3rdtimearound · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:05 AM

Relax - you've a baby on board!

Congratulations it's not easy to chill out and relax at all, is it? I'm a tad jumpy too... would love to just go to sleep and wake up in the 2nd tri or at my 12 week scan

. . . . That would be nice!

girl friday · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:07 AM

Congratulations on your

!!!

I had lots of lower back pain in the early weeks, it felt very different to cramps I had with DS. This whole pregnancy has so far! I'm nauseous and tired all the time! Not had my scan yet, but got a bloat bump and lots of symptoms.

Wishing you a happy & health 9 months (and a belated happy birthday).

xx

Dawnlouise30 · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:41 AM

I think it is so natural to be anxious throughout, and this will probably continue for the rest of our lives even after pregnancy ( i am sure being a mum has anxious times). When i was 5 weeks pregnant i remember waking up one morning and sobbing truely believing that i was going to loose the baby, total irrational fear, but it helped to cry it out. I then had a bleed at 6 weeks 5 days and was besides myself - a scan revealed all was okay. I have just had my scan this week and baby is right on target. I still get cramps and twinges, but am learning to trust my body and know woman are meant to be pregnant, we know what to do. When i relaxed i found that the cramps and twinges seemed less.
I know its easier said than done but relax

Dawn x x

destynibaby · Apr 7th, 2012, 08:52 AM

lol everyone in first trimester knows exactly what you are going through!
your fears are normal and its easier said than done, but you must try to relax.
h&h 9 months!

Apr 7th, 2012, 08:01 AM	#1
lily24 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,107	How is everyone coping? I found out last night (my birthday!) Im 1-2 weeks pregnant after 2 losses and nearly 2 year TTC #2 Im super duper excited of course, but so frigging nervous and convinced something is going to go wrong I hope its not going to cause problems with my accepting the pregnancy as im scared im going to be let down Got lots of lower back pain aswell and all i can think it 'somethings wrong, somethings wrong' Need a kick up a butt!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 08:05 AM	#3
3rdtimearound Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,145	Relax - you've a baby on board! Congratulations it's not easy to chill out and relax at all, is it? I'm a tad jumpy too... would love to just go to sleep and wake up in the 2nd tri or at my 12 week scan . . . . That would be nice!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 08:07 AM	#4
girl friday AutoSignup (SAAB) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,136	Congratulations on your !!! I had lots of lower back pain in the early weeks, it felt very different to cramps I had with DS. This whole pregnancy has so far! I'm nauseous and tired all the time! Not had my scan yet, but got a bloat bump and lots of symptoms. Wishing you a happy & health 9 months (and a belated happy birthday). xx

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Apr 7th, 2012, 08:41 AM	#5
Dawnlouise30 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: England Posts: 1,213	I think it is so natural to be anxious throughout, and this will probably continue for the rest of our lives even after pregnancy ( i am sure being a mum has anxious times). When i was 5 weeks pregnant i remember waking up one morning and sobbing truely believing that i was going to loose the baby, total irrational fear, but it helped to cry it out. I then had a bleed at 6 weeks 5 days and was besides myself - a scan revealed all was okay. I have just had my scan this week and baby is right on target. I still get cramps and twinges, but am learning to trust my body and know woman are meant to be pregnant, we know what to do. When i relaxed i found that the cramps and twinges seemed less. I know its easier said than done but relax Dawn x x

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Apr 7th, 2012, 08:52 AM	#6
destynibaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 1,532	lol everyone in first trimester knows exactly what you are going through! your fears are normal and its easier said than done, but you must try to relax. h&h 9 months!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 08:04 AM	#2
Laura2806 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Tamworth UK Posts: 3,209	Hunni. Know the feeling, petrified something will go wrong and praying it doesn't, I just keep telling myself I'm pregnant and this is what I've always wanted, everything's going to be fine :-) I just keep telling myself that worrying will cause stress and that's not good. Hope you can relax and enjoy it soon hunni. Oh and congratulations momma!! X

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