is anyone elses OH being a complete twat??

sheryl16 · Apr 7th, 2012, 17:48 PM

sorry ladies need 2 rant
my OH had planned a night out for tonight, however i started to bleed and went to hospital, he went and got my mom to stay at the hospital with me so he could go home and get ready to go out...he said he needs to go out as he is meeting a friend on a friend whom can "get" him a better job. anyways the doctors say i should be okay but to go back to A&E if it gets any worse. but instead of rearranging it for another weekend so he could stay with me whilst i feel like complete shite and constant pain he goes ahead with his mates. And to top it off he was only ment to be going out for a quiet drink and then coming home to me, but no now he's going clubbing and saying he's staying at his mates house. i wouldnt mind but we never do anythink together but now he has money to go out with his friends. just seams when i needed him most he fucks off

am i being irrational???

Shell999 · Apr 7th, 2012, 17:51 PM

No you aren't. I'd be very cross. Speak to him about it tomorrow & explain why you are so hurt- dont get stressed now. Look after you & baby. Hugs xx

sheryl16 · Apr 7th, 2012, 17:53 PM

thanks hun xx

Unexpected212 · Apr 7th, 2012, 18:02 PM

Relax as much as you can and don't stress out too much. Rest, get well.

Then speak to him about his behaviour. It is completely unacceptable and if my partner did it I'd seriously reconsider how I felt about him and our future. But thats just me.

sheryl16 · Apr 7th, 2012, 18:05 PM

thanks chick, i think i am reconsidering our future together....just not sure i can do this alone

xx

katealim · Apr 7th, 2012, 18:17 PM

Bottom line...men are just truly daft!!! Hope everything is o.k with you and lo. Take the evening to yourself to relax and try not to stress then talk to him in the a.m. Thinking about you and hoping everything works out well!

pinkribbon · Apr 7th, 2012, 19:30 PM

Mine's been a total arsehole tonight actually. I'm on here trying to distract myself enough to calm down.

Long story short OH went on a staff night out, came home WAY late and drunk which we'd discussed wouldn't happen. He also lied and said he forgot to book a taxi in advance - it's crap, i'd been texting him all night asking him to do so.

Grr bloody men!!

britt0285 · Apr 7th, 2012, 19:42 PM

I hate to admit but I'm a little passive aggressive. I think he would pay for it forever and I would be incredibly upset that is really shitty. I hope everything works out.

bexxc · Apr 7th, 2012, 20:35 PM

wow. i would be completely pissed. i think i'd give dh a swift kick in the junk!!!! i'm sorry he's being such a butt!

LuckyInLove10 · Apr 7th, 2012, 21:32 PM

I'm dealing with a similar issue unfortunately. I'm not having any difficulties with bleeding or anything but BF goes out every single weekend. What's worse is he works night shift so we only get nights together on weekends. He stumbles in around 3am every saturday/sunday morning so I spend every single night alone. We live together and it seems like I'm single.

I, too, and reconsidering our future. I have been a single mother twice...so I can do it again, just don't want to...I guess.

*sigh* If you need to talk, I'll listen....It sucks that we're going through crappy situations

Apr 7th, 2012, 17:48 PM	#1
sheryl16 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: uk Posts: 172	is anyone elses OH being a complete twat?? sorry ladies need 2 rant my OH had planned a night out for tonight, however i started to bleed and went to hospital, he went and got my mom to stay at the hospital with me so he could go home and get ready to go out...he said he needs to go out as he is meeting a friend on a friend whom can "get" him a better job. anyways the doctors say i should be okay but to go back to A&E if it gets any worse. but instead of rearranging it for another weekend so he could stay with me whilst i feel like complete shite and constant pain he goes ahead with his mates. And to top it off he was only ment to be going out for a quiet drink and then coming home to me, but no now he's going clubbing and saying he's staying at his mates house. i wouldnt mind but we never do anythink together but now he has money to go out with his friends. just seams when i needed him most he fucks off am i being irrational???

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Apr 7th, 2012, 17:51 PM	#2
Shell999 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 348	No you aren't. I'd be very cross. Speak to him about it tomorrow & explain why you are so hurt- dont get stressed now. Look after you & baby. Hugs xx

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Apr 7th, 2012, 17:53 PM	#3
sheryl16 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: uk Posts: 172	thanks hun xx

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Apr 7th, 2012, 18:02 PM	#4
Unexpected212 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 1,911	Relax as much as you can and don't stress out too much. Rest, get well. Then speak to him about his behaviour. It is completely unacceptable and if my partner did it I'd seriously reconsider how I felt about him and our future. But thats just me.

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Apr 7th, 2012, 18:05 PM	#5
sheryl16 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: uk Posts: 172	thanks chick, i think i am reconsidering our future together....just not sure i can do this alone xx

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Apr 7th, 2012, 18:17 PM	#6
katealim Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 677	Bottom line...men are just truly daft!!! Hope everything is o.k with you and lo. Take the evening to yourself to relax and try not to stress then talk to him in the a.m. Thinking about you and hoping everything works out well!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 19:30 PM	#7
pinkribbon Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK. Posts: 4,274	Mine's been a total arsehole tonight actually. I'm on here trying to distract myself enough to calm down. Long story short OH went on a staff night out, came home WAY late and drunk which we'd discussed wouldn't happen. He also lied and said he forgot to book a taxi in advance - it's crap, i'd been texting him all night asking him to do so. Grr bloody men!!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 19:42 PM	#8
britt0285 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 927	I hate to admit but I'm a little passive aggressive. I think he would pay for it forever and I would be incredibly upset that is really shitty. I hope everything works out.

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Apr 7th, 2012, 20:35 PM	#9
bexxc Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: California Posts: 10,087	wow. i would be completely pissed. i think i'd give dh a swift kick in the junk!!!! i'm sorry he's being such a butt!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 21:32 PM	#10
LuckyInLove10 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 78	I'm dealing with a similar issue unfortunately. I'm not having any difficulties with bleeding or anything but BF goes out every single weekend. What's worse is he works night shift so we only get nights together on weekends. He stumbles in around 3am every saturday/sunday morning so I spend every single night alone. We live together and it seems like I'm single. I, too, and reconsidering our future. I have been a single mother twice...so I can do it again, just don't want to...I guess. sigh If you need to talk, I'll listen....It sucks that we're going through crappy situations

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