Im just wondering, how many of you have lost weight during the first trimester..

I eat as much as i can. (mainly banana sandwiches, grapes, meals, other bits and peices) and ive lost weight..

My mum said ill be on a drip soon because i "dont eat"

i had 3 weeks of morning sickness and a few days i couldnt keep ANY of my food down.

OH said i look really bad now and unhealthy.

I eat healthy i havnt been able to eat any kind of meat except chicken.
Mum cooked lasagna and i had to lock my self in my room because the smell wanted me to chuck up..
I cant even look at oily food fast food with out my belly turning..

I gained a bit of weight, but when the midwife weighed me she said she was surprised because most people stay the same or lose weight in first tri, because of sickness. So you're not unusual. Just eat what you can (can you stomach meal replacement drinks because they will help) your baby will be fine because it will use up your stores.

I know im fine, i feel good.

My OH thinks its not normal u should gain weighy nd im like :/ when u have gastro you loose weight.. When im pregnant i loose weight ill put it back on.. I look shitty because LO is taking everything and i get little..

He doesnt ever believe me, he always other people (irritates me!) and he wants us to go to the doctors? Lol.

I have a complete 0 sex drive, i dont even want to be touched some times and he compares me to other people, and say they wanted it all the time why dont you.

He really needs to step up and grow up /:

He come to my house today or the first time since i got pregnant and we had a huuuge argument on how i feel when hes childish and makes hurtful comments towards me and i told him it makes me rethink our relationship and makes me think why am i with you, or i dont want to be with you and he completly stormed out of my house, (44mins ago) and called me and told me to get effed and to enjoy being a single mum.

Those are the comments that hurt too.
My mum asked me why he left and i told he and she said why couldnt of this happenes before you got pregnant, you found out who he really is.

Ugh. Im so angry with him!!
Im sick and tired of the stress he causes me all the time..

To be honest, sounds like you're better off without him! It sounds like he's throwing a childish tantrum because you don't feel like sex. Well maybe if he looked after you a little better you would have more of a sex drive, I know when I am tired or stressed what little drive I have disappears completely. (and how would he know about other people's sex drive when pregnant anyway?)

At my hennie the other night people said I looked like I'd lost weight. I've had some bloating and stuff, but when I lose it shows around my face first. Haven't dared set foot on the scales to confirm or deny.

As for your other half, it doesn't sound like he's ready to take on the responsibility you're carrying - better no father than an inconsiderate shite like him. You can do better, both for yourself and your LO.

Best of luck hun x

I agree with sproglet. It seems like you would be better off without him unless he gets an attitude adjustment. You need support!

Cos his brothets gf was sex crazy and his bestmates gf was sex crazy but she had a mc.

I know i feel like im better off with out him aswell.
He treats me alright but when he wants to kiss he wants to for ages and i dont want to.

I wanted to watch Home and Away and he full on turned off the tv and light so we could make out. Boy that got me angry!
He come to my house and ditched me for my lil brother and i went in like 30mins later nd we watched bit of tv for 40mins? Talked with my mum for a bit but as soon as my stepdad walked in the door home from work i had to put my brush back in my room and as i was walking back out OH was there and wasnt turning back to go talk to my stepdad?
I always chat to him when he gets home..
My lil bro was in my room too for like 1hour or something had dinner nd i sat on my bed ready to watch home and away.
He knows i have no sex drive but he trys? But bes an asshole before hand fights with me then expects me to be all lovey dovey.

I lost weight with my 1st baby in the 1st trimester and ended weighing less than I did before I got pregnant. That was due to morning sickness. Although I was never sick the much. And with this pregnancy I have lost weight too. This is due to me feeling sick all the time, although I've only been sick twice. It's so horrible trying to eat when you feel sick xx

If i show OH this he would feel bettet abouy my weight loss.. Buy if i tell him its okay he wont believe me..

If i loose weight it shoes in my face too.

I was just always im a size 10. But i can now button up a size 8 pair of jeans.. And my size 10 skinny legs are a bit big for me now as i wore them the other day and mum noticed my weight more..
I weighed 55kgs normally would never change from that i weighed myself at mu dads 2 weeks ago and i was 52kgs.. But idk what i am atm.


*clothes sizes are australian

I have lost about 5lb so far, I am very over weight any way so there is no concern about me losing weight in fact the doctors will be happy if I lose even more