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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 15:28 PM   #1
Jemlo
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I feel lost


I don't know where I belong I'm 13 weeks and 1st trimester ladies are talking about how I used to feel and second trimester ladies are talking about how I haven't felt yet lol... Anyone else feeling lost?


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 15:32 PM   #2
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I get what you are saying. I've already started loitering in second tri now nd then, looking at what's relevant. I guess until 2nd tri is more relevant you can always jump between the two sections.


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 15:57 PM   #3
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People post this concern a lot!! I've seen it several (hundred) times - LOL!

Many people just suggest that you straddle both boards until you feel more comfortable in Second Tri. There is no hard and fast rule that you must only view and respond to the threads in the board that fits your timeline. You can weave in and out of all (or none) of the boards at any time!!

I imagine if 1st and 2nd are too boring or feel inappropriate right now, the ladies in TTC or TWW would love to have your wisdom and pregnancy expertise! :-)


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 16:45 PM   #4
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I feel the same and I'm only 12 weeks today. I've been floating between 1st and 2nd tri but still haven't posted in 2nd as I'm a bit early for that. They really ought to have a tsw, (tri. switch wait) forum like the tww forum.


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 16:56 PM   #5
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I'm only 11 weeks and not even had my scan yet but feel the same...have been loitering in 2nd tri too but not posted either!


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 16:58 PM   #6
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I think most people feel like that. Your best bet, as someone else suggested, is to post in both. You will get used to 2nd soon. I still post in all 3!!


 
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Old Apr 12th, 2012, 19:37 PM   #7
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I float between 1st and 2nd tri boards as well. I feel the same so I only comment on things that seem relevant to what I'm going through right now. In a few weeks we'll feel like we belong again lol


 
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Old Apr 13th, 2012, 01:35 AM   #8
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I agree there should be a last few weeks of 1st tri subsection. I have been hanging out it 2nd, but feel a bit of a fraud to post anything or join in any conversations.

Pregnancy club is a good happy medium. Or just start a thread for last few weeks of 1st Tri/first few weeks of 2nd Tri! We are joing to be in no mans land for a bit.


 
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Old Apr 13th, 2012, 06:26 AM   #9
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This is funny. I SO relate!!


 
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Old Apr 13th, 2012, 09:46 AM   #10
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I felt that way too...in fact, I still do! Feel too early to relate full on with 2nd Trimester, but getting more comfortable there. I come back here though and it's not all that relevant, so it's just a matter of balancing between the two I guess


 
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