Anyone else feeling bummed about something stupid? - Page 2

bexxc · Apr 13th, 2012, 22:13 PM

aw, heather...i'm sorry. that's horrible.

i hope your friend comes around and realizes what a twit she's being.

Dahlia2007 · Apr 14th, 2012, 08:37 AM

Yeah heather that's not cool! I'm sure as the days go on she will feel bad, but she may not want to bring it up to you herself. Maybe lightly confront her in a few days and see if you can resolve.

Here I gO again, but I was slightly jealous of my BFF when she got pregnant days after my miscarriage. So I couldn't talk tO her on the phone like we always had. I really didn't want to hear about her pregnancy cause it hurt. Maybe your friend just needs some time to adjust, although her outburst was very inappropriate.

bexxc · Apr 14th, 2012, 09:06 AM

i totally understand pregnancy jealousy. dh an i had already been trying for 18 months when a very close friend of mine got pregnant her first month off the pill. i was so upset. every time i saw her, all i thought about was how she had never even had to go through one month of disappointment. she never once had to wonder if it would ever happen for her. but feeling jealous of her just made me feel more guilty!

Dahlia2007 · Apr 14th, 2012, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by bexxc

i totally understand pregnancy jealousy. dh an i had already been trying for 18 months when a very close friend of mine got pregnant her first month off the pill. i was so upset. every time i saw her, all i thought about was how she had never even had to go through one month of disappointment. she never once had to wonder if it would ever happen for her. but feeling jealous of her just made me feel more guilty!

oh bexxc! tell me about it. I get jealous when people announce at 6 weeks that they're expecting, like they don't have a care or worry in the world! I would have loved to shout from the mountaintops that I am pregnant, but with my history I just have to wait til 2nd tri. ah! Our time will come. I think when 2nd tri gets here I will feel much more secure and we can bask in pregnancy glory!
ps- I guess I am a sore loser and a sore winner as well

bexxc · Apr 14th, 2012, 09:15 AM

i can't wait!!!!!

Apr 13th, 2012, 22:13 PM	#11
bexxc Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: California Posts: 10,087	aw, heather...i'm sorry. that's horrible. i hope your friend comes around and realizes what a twit she's being.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 08:37 AM	#12
Dahlia2007 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Michigan, USA Posts: 1,783	Yeah heather that's not cool! I'm sure as the days go on she will feel bad, but she may not want to bring it up to you herself. Maybe lightly confront her in a few days and see if you can resolve. Here I gO again, but I was slightly jealous of my BFF when she got pregnant days after my miscarriage. So I couldn't talk tO her on the phone like we always had. I really didn't want to hear about her pregnancy cause it hurt. Maybe your friend just needs some time to adjust, although her outburst was very inappropriate.

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bexxc Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: California Posts: 10,087	i totally understand pregnancy jealousy. dh an i had already been trying for 18 months when a very close friend of mine got pregnant her first month off the pill. i was so upset. every time i saw her, all i thought about was how she had never even had to go through one month of disappointment. she never once had to wonder if it would ever happen for her. but feeling jealous of her just made me feel more guilty!

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Apr 14th, 2012, 09:15 AM	#15
bexxc Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: California Posts: 10,087	i can't wait!!!!!

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