I'm so frustrated

katlin · Apr 17th, 2012, 23:43 PM

I'm so frustrated with peoples responses to me being pregnant again. I wasn't trying no but every child is a blessing. But when your constantly hearing things like"jesus"or"your joking right" or "are you fucking serious". I just don't know how much more I can take without snapping and losing it on someone...

katlin · Apr 17th, 2012, 23:47 PM

Or "are you stupid" our "thought you got fixed" like were damn dogs

phineas · Apr 18th, 2012, 00:58 AM

I'm sorry you've had a lot of bad reactions hun, I'm expecting some myself even though this baby is planned. I'm not sure why people feel like they have a right to comment at all especially if you're going to be negative. What I plan on doing is telling people and been so enthusiastically I'm hoping no one will try that line!

Not much advice for u though unless start answering very cheeky answers x

wishing2012 · Apr 18th, 2012, 02:01 AM

im expecting the same thing we have to children already and we planned this one, but we are only in a 2 bedroom house but there is plenty of room.I was talking to my friends yesterday, one asked if I'm pregnant yet I had to say no as its not common knowledge yet, and the first thing my other friend said was " well she has to sort a house out first as there isn't any room" I felt awful

Waitie · Apr 18th, 2012, 02:29 AM

Oh thats a really crappy response to such good news! but you know what hun, you have to say 'screw'em' its not their life, its not their world, its not their child! I have had the response of 'thought you were going to get a puppy? Its much easier you know?'...didnt really know what to make of that! Also had a blinder of a response which was 'oh my god! You as a mother, thats hilarious!'....mmmm once again didnt know what to make of that either! Hun, so long as your happy and your family are happy then ignore them and reply with 'yes i am f*cking serious and im over the moon'

Your blooming wonderful hun, ignore ignorant rude people who really have no place at all in commenting on your decisions in life. Like i said, your life not theirs x

wishing2012 · Apr 18th, 2012, 02:52 AM

That's what me and my husband keep saying its nothing to do with anyone else its up to us and we know its going to be fine otherwise we wouldn't of got pregnant

katlin · Apr 18th, 2012, 08:32 AM

Ty ladies! This has helped me feel tons better I was so unprepared to hear what I've heard from people who were excited for my last and allot of it has been said by close and immediate family.

pomeranian · Apr 18th, 2012, 08:49 AM

katlin- my sister had her first in feb 2011 and her second just a few weeks ago (14 months apart). We were all very shocked at how quickly it happened and like you it wasnt a planned baby, but we were all supportive of her..........her decision her choice......and although shes found the last few weeks very hard having two small children, she is blessed to have two beautiful healthy children!!

H&H 9M

Babee_Bugs · Apr 18th, 2012, 08:55 AM

I love how people are sooo quick to put us down.. But yet there fail to remember that years ago people would have like 8 children off the trott!

My friend told me I was mad for wanting another child! This is our third... We have a perfect family and my children are lovely.... She just had her second and I said to. Her I don't know y you had another baby when your little girl is a horrible shit!

Then she replied with, I know I think I need me head testing... That sorted her out! Lol

Apr 17th, 2012, 23:43 PM	#1
katlin Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: northern alberta Posts: 2,644	I'm so frustrated I'm so frustrated with peoples responses to me being pregnant again. I wasn't trying no but every child is a blessing. But when your constantly hearing things like"jesus"or"your joking right" or "are you fucking serious". I just don't know how much more I can take without snapping and losing it on someone...

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Apr 17th, 2012, 23:47 PM	#2
katlin Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: northern alberta Posts: 2,644	Or "are you stupid" our "thought you got fixed" like were damn dogs

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Apr 18th, 2012, 00:58 AM	#3
phineas Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 2,093	I'm sorry you've had a lot of bad reactions hun, I'm expecting some myself even though this baby is planned. I'm not sure why people feel like they have a right to comment at all especially if you're going to be negative. What I plan on doing is telling people and been so enthusiastically I'm hoping no one will try that line! Not much advice for u though unless start answering very cheeky answers x

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Apr 18th, 2012, 02:01 AM	#4
wishing2012 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: wales Posts: 566	im expecting the same thing we have to children already and we planned this one, but we are only in a 2 bedroom house but there is plenty of room.I was talking to my friends yesterday, one asked if I'm pregnant yet I had to say no as its not common knowledge yet, and the first thing my other friend said was " well she has to sort a house out first as there isn't any room" I felt awful

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Apr 18th, 2012, 02:29 AM	#5
Waitie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Perth, Western Australia Posts: 38	Oh thats a really crappy response to such good news! but you know what hun, you have to say 'screw'em' its not their life, its not their world, its not their child! I have had the response of 'thought you were going to get a puppy? Its much easier you know?'...didnt really know what to make of that! Also had a blinder of a response which was 'oh my god! You as a mother, thats hilarious!'....mmmm once again didnt know what to make of that either! Hun, so long as your happy and your family are happy then ignore them and reply with 'yes i am f*cking serious and im over the moon' Your blooming wonderful hun, ignore ignorant rude people who really have no place at all in commenting on your decisions in life. Like i said, your life not theirs x

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Apr 18th, 2012, 02:52 AM	#6
wishing2012 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: wales Posts: 566	That's what me and my husband keep saying its nothing to do with anyone else its up to us and we know its going to be fine otherwise we wouldn't of got pregnant

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Apr 18th, 2012, 08:32 AM	#7
katlin Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: northern alberta Posts: 2,644	Ty ladies! This has helped me feel tons better I was so unprepared to hear what I've heard from people who were excited for my last and allot of it has been said by close and immediate family.

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Apr 18th, 2012, 08:49 AM	#8
pomeranian Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Suffolk, England Posts: 635	katlin- my sister had her first in feb 2011 and her second just a few weeks ago (14 months apart). We were all very shocked at how quickly it happened and like you it wasnt a planned baby, but we were all supportive of her..........her decision her choice......and although shes found the last few weeks very hard having two small children, she is blessed to have two beautiful healthy children!! H&H 9M

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Apr 18th, 2012, 08:55 AM	#9
Babee_Bugs Mum (Mom) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Hartlepool, United Kingdom Posts: 8,103	I love how people are sooo quick to put us down.. But yet there fail to remember that years ago people would have like 8 children off the trott! My friend told me I was mad for wanting another child! This is our third... We have a perfect family and my children are lovely.... She just had her second and I said to. Her I don't know y you had another baby when your little girl is a horrible shit! Then she replied with, I know I think I need me head testing... That sorted her out! Lol

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