I'm so frustrated with peoples responses to me being pregnant again. I wasn't trying no but every child is a blessing. But when your constantly hearing things like"jesus"or"your joking right" or "are you fucking serious". I just don't know how much more I can take without snapping and losing it on someone...
I'm sorry you've had a lot of bad reactions hun, I'm expecting some myself even though this baby is planned. I'm not sure why people feel like they have a right to comment at all especially if you're going to be negative. What I plan on doing is telling people and been so enthusiastically I'm hoping no one will try that line!
Not much advice for u though unless start answering very cheeky answers x
im expecting the same thing we have to children already and we planned this one, but we are only in a 2 bedroom house but there is plenty of room.I was talking to my friends yesterday, one asked if I'm pregnant yet I had to say no as its not common knowledge yet, and the first thing my other friend said was " well she has to sort a house out first as there isn't any room" I felt awful
Oh thats a really crappy response to such good news! but you know what hun, you have to say 'screw'em' its not their life, its not their world, its not their child! I have had the response of 'thought you were going to get a puppy? Its much easier you know?'...didnt really know what to make of that! Also had a blinder of a response which was 'oh my god! You as a mother, thats hilarious!'....mmmm once again didnt know what to make of that either! Hun, so long as your happy and your family are happy then ignore them and reply with 'yes i am f*cking serious and im over the moon'
Your blooming wonderful hun, ignore ignorant rude people who really have no place at all in commenting on your decisions in life. Like i said, your life not theirs x
katlin- my sister had her first in feb 2011 and her second just a few weeks ago (14 months apart). We were all very shocked at how quickly it happened and like you it wasnt a planned baby, but we were all supportive of her..........her decision her choice......and although shes found the last few weeks very hard having two small children, she is blessed to have two beautiful healthy children!!
I love how people are sooo quick to put us down.. But yet there fail to remember that years ago people would have like 8 children off the trott!
My friend told me I was mad for wanting another child! This is our third... We have a perfect family and my children are lovely.... She just had her second and I said to. Her I don't know y you had another baby when your little girl is a horrible shit!
Then she replied with, I know I think I need me head testing... That sorted her out! Lol
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