Sarah- have you heard back from the meeting yet? When he comes home you definitely need to make some heads spin!
Lauryn- Hope Millie continues to be better, it is so hard, i get so much guilt with Izzy, especially at the moment when i'm fit for nothing!
I didnt have a scar infection with Izzy, i had a womb infection, with lots of bleeding/clots etc, this time the bleeding etc was minimal, but didnt realise i had a womb infection which i think then spread to my scar. It is still leaking, and the nurses havent been- they told Dave at the surgery that they will be here today or tomorrow!!!??? All i can think of is that they have been told its a re-dress or something surely they shouldnt just leave me with a 5cm open wound in my tummy thats still leaking blood and pus? It is very stingy now, Dave has just gone to boots to get a dressing to put on it as the sanitary towels werent quite doing their job!
We had the HV round today, she has raised a concern with Poppys head circumference- she was 98 centile when born now 50- it could be down to the fact she was a c section delivery so head didnt squash down or down to human error of measuring. I need to see her in a month to see if its grown.
Same lauryn, luke is mostly happy playing with toys and watching peppa pig and wall e, he has always wanted to play alone which I guess is good but I do feel so guilty. I want to potty train him next month, no idea how im going to do that with a screaming clingy baby! Im not sure if its colic. Its not just after feeds, its morning and evening, between 8 and 12 then 5 til 9. He is content for around 15 minutes during these times, the rest he is crying. I guess he is just like his brother! I have had a few cries, that helps a little. I think having wes at home over christmas had made things worse, 10 days of help now all on my own again.
Sarah. I saw your post on facebook. Im not sure when you will come back here and see this but im so so sorry. I am devastated that this is the outcome. I just dont understand with no proof how they can do this. I really thought it wouldn't turn out this way. And 4 months wait?!?! What a joke. I dont know what else to say, im just so angry. You have so much support though, all those friends who want to help you. Again it backs up what lovely innocent people you and neil are. I wish I could fight for you, if I could do anything to help I would. Its so damn unfair on the 3 of you xxx
And now im more cross. Perfect innocent parents like sarah and neil who do nothing wrong and have to suffer for doing norhing except loving and protecting their child and now I read on twitter about a mother who today wanted nandos so bad she took her 19 month old in a car without a car seat. But it was ok cos she was holding him. Jeez, this world is so wrong.
Oh god i am so sorry about that Sarah- there is such an injustice in this i think u should take it to the papers! On the day they decide Neils dad isnt suitable, wtf???!!! After getting your hopes up like that?
AND that his veins are larger so could have been caused by anything trivial and STILL they think u have done something awful?!?!!! And 4 months to wait until court??? What is wrong with these people??? I am angry for you, upset, shocked, i dont blame u starting smoking again, this situation is insane!
How is everybody?
Sarah I cannot believe how you have been treated. I hope you and Neil fight with all you have to get him back where he belongs as soon as possible.
Is anybody else still feeling bruised down below? It's been 5 weeks now and I didn't have stitches or anything but I just feel a little sore still. I have my 6 week check next week anyway so I presume they check everything is normal?!
Sarah. Im so so sorry hun, this is beyond unfair and unjustified. After ALL that work Neils dad did to be the main carer, it just gets pushed aside. I really feel for you at this hard time. Are you able to have any contact with Logan through the foster carers? What is this about court? Are you going to court to try and fight for him back or is it a case agaisnt you? Sorry for the questions, i cant see any writing about the info above.
As for the 'reasons' behind the injury.. what a loads of BS?!! As you say, it could of been anything and as you wasnt aware of the large veins (as no one would be) then how could you of prevented trauma?! Im completely lost with how this has worked out.
Remember that he is YOUR son, you brought him into this world and you deserve to have him back in your arms, i pray all will work out in your favour sooner rather than later .
Kellie, Im sorry sweetie that Oliver has been non stop with the crying, it can drive you to dispair when they just wont settle. Its not because your a bad mum, very far from it. When Reimi goes off like that for hours, i have to generally remind myself that shes just a baby and this is her way of acting out. Weve recentlt found that she loves her rocking chair and (if that fails) the sound of a hairdryer shuts her up. I now have an app which does hairdryer sound for me to use on a night. Maybe experiment with different sounds? Hope things have been better today x
Time, i didnt have stitches either but i healed and stopped bleeding about 2 weeks ago. Not had any soreness since. Maybe its just taking you a little longer, all bodies heal differently. You could mention it on your 6 week check x
Scally, hope your C-sec scar heals up soon, what a nightmare! Cant believe its got to the point of putting a pad on it?! Bloody hope the medics get it sorted soon! x
Hope everyone elce is doing ok, all fine with me and Reimi. Cant believe how quick my little girl is growing, she's going to be sooo tall when she's older!
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