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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 08:57 AM   51
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Im a big girl here! I'm a US size 18/20. I'm due with LO#2 April 8th 2013



 
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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 13:29 PM   52
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Hey ladies how we all feeling today???
Hi Sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think I am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think I am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!



 
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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 14:44 PM   53
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hey ladies how we all feeling today???
hi sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think i am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think i am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!
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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 15:23 PM   54
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hi ladies,

Found out I was pregnant on August 2, and I'm a bit scared since im overweight. This is my second pregnancy, the first was a miscarriage and I was at a way more healthier weight than I am now. I'm 17stone5lbs, I don't know how far along I am since I had an ultrasound done and the doctor said it was still early he could only see a sac. I got blood work done so should be finding out tommorrow how far along I am. I'm hoping I don't gain alot of weight, im trying to eat as healthy as possible but since I haven't been able to cook much coz of food aversions its really hard.



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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 16:24 PM   55
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Hey ladies how we all feeling today???
Hi Sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think I am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think I am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!
Hun, no matter how big you are you deserve to have a baby!! Just because we are big and have a high BMI doesn't mean we should not have a baby... yeah we are a little more high risk.. but you could have a perfectly normal pregnancy and delivery. At the end of the day the midwifes and specialists get paid a great deal to deal with ladies like us so make them earn their wages. I feel the same as you about looking at the fat... my view of myself at the moment is a beached whale! BUT you will get a gorgeous bump.. and who cares if its a bit more cushioned than a skinny girls.. just means theres more love to go round when baby comes!

Lots of love hun.



 
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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 18:00 PM   56
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Hey ladies how we all feeling today???
Hi Sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think I am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think I am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!
Hun, no matter how big you are you deserve to have a baby!! Just because we are big and have a high BMI doesn't mean we should not have a baby... yeah we are a little more high risk.. but you could have a perfectly normal pregnancy and delivery. At the end of the day the midwifes and specialists get paid a great deal to deal with ladies like us so make them earn their wages. I feel the same as you about looking at the fat... my view of myself at the moment is a beached whale! BUT you will get a gorgeous bump.. and who cares if its a bit more cushioned than a skinny girls.. just means theres more love to go round when baby comes!

Lots of love hun.
Thanks hun, Its just hard you know...I am just feeling incerdibly sorry for myself right now
I hope you are well x



 
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Old Aug 16th, 2012, 22:23 PM   57
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hello everyone.

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Old Aug 17th, 2012, 03:48 AM   58
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Hey ladies how we all feeling today???
Hi Sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think I am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think I am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!
You poor love! I know how you feel... Don't be scared, hun. I know it's easier said than done, but you CAN have a healthy pregnancy, delivery and baby!



 
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Hey ladies how we all feeling today???
Hi Sparklegirl.. I had a mini meltdown today... I was sat there this morning looking at my rolls of fat and i just cried. I think I am in for a hard uncomfortable pregnancy I dont know what i think I am playing at having a baby with a bmi of 44 I must be frikkin mad I am well and truly scared half to death!
i know exactly how you feel, but we just have to stay positive i know its easier said than done, just because we are bigger doesnt mean we cant have normal healthy pregnancies... we also cant let fear keep us enjoying our pregnancies & beautiful bumps



 
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I think we're all going to hit the point during our pregnancy where we wonder whether its right to get pregnant being a bigger woman... but the answer is YES YES and YES! We are BIG .... we are BEAUTIFULL and we are GIFT BEARERS of the most precious kind xxxxxxxxxxxxx



 
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