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Taylah · Jan 14th, 2013, 15:56 PM

Hi ladies,
Sorry haven't been on Internet has been down due to crossed line !

Kelly I hope Sunday isn't to emotional for you hun , I can't even imagine how painful the memories are , sending you lots of hugs xxx

Sam - I'm hoping for less than 2 weeks, I'm so sick of worrying when I'm not feeling my lo move much ( I know she is running out of room ) what have you been trying to encourage lo out??? I've done the spicy food & dtd - which was actually quite funny !

I've been left feeling disappointed today (tues) because hospital was supposed to call yesterday to give me c-section date & they didn't so I think that means they are too busy this coming week & I will have to wait till following week - boo hoo

Kelly9 · Jan 14th, 2013, 17:53 PM

Sam you don't cope, you loose your mind and go to pieces and take it out on everyone around you even though thats not what you want to do. A year later and I still feel the strain from her passing on my family relationships. I'm not the same person I was and all I want besides having her back is to be myself again, you know before she left, but a year later and I think I've just got to accept that I'm a new me and won't be getting back to the person I was so somehow I need to make the best of it.

On a better note, our house is officially sold.

sam79 · Jan 15th, 2013, 18:08 PM

Kelly -

As a parent the passing of a child has got to be the hardest thing ever to deal with. You must be one brave lady to have made it this far. Although Tulip will never replace Hannah, her becoming part of your family is one wonderful positive to look forward to this year. Congrats on Selling your house. At least that is one less stress.

sam79 · Jan 15th, 2013, 18:15 PM

Taylah - I've mainly been bouncing on my exercise ball, walking quite a bit, doing squats and other yoga poses. Eating some spicy food. Everyone says to dtd but it has been so hot here at the moment that that's the last thing I feel like doing. I have also been taking EPO along with RLT tablets. Oh, and have been getting acupuncture. Hopefully something will work. Hope you get your c-section date soon.

Taylah · Jan 15th, 2013, 23:28 PM

Thanks Sam , I've tried everything you have plus dtd & still nothing, but yay I got my c-section date today, later than I had hoped but at least I got it - 25 th of jan I will finally get to meet my little girl 9 DAYS & COUNTING :-)

Kelly - I feel so sad for you, even though I know it's not the same thing as losing a child, I am left feeling empty and a changed person after losing my mum , we were so very close & I still cry a lot & miss her everyday , I heard this saying & it helps me feel a little better-

Death is a heartache that no one can heal but Love is a memory that no one can steal !

It's been four years this past October since I lost my mum & although time doesn't heal like people say, it does make it a little bit easier to cope with the loss & heartache you feel, the worst part is knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do to make it better, we just have to accept it as life & keep living xxxx

Kelly9 · Jan 16th, 2013, 01:14 AM

Loosing a mother would be very hard to

but I agree, there is nothing like loosing a child, there isn't even a name for it either. I'm not brave, like you said you just have to accept it and live life. I have hopes of feeling normal again, this pregnancy has brought up so many conflicting emotions because it does at times make me remember and miss things I didn't get with Hannah but mostly I am happy to have tulip and a second chance to raise a daughter. It's tough for me because my only memories of her are from when she was inside me and then the few hours I got to hold her. Time has helped and I'm confident with more time I'll feel normal ish again.

You guys are so close to having your babies!!!!! Can't wait to see some cute little pics of what I'll get in 10 more weeks

Taylah · Jan 16th, 2013, 16:34 PM

Thanks Kelly , & we are always here if you need to talk or vent xxx

Kelly9 · Jan 17th, 2013, 15:49 PM

I'm doing ok, went through her memory box and had a good cry. It helped.

sam79 · Jan 18th, 2013, 16:15 PM

Hope everyone is doing well. I went for acupuncture to try and help this lo engage as according to my ob it is no more engaged then last week. I also picked up my TENS machine for labour the other day so I'm really hoping that it will help with some pain relief. I know I still have a week to go until bub is born but I'm so ready for him/her now! If nothing has happened by Thursday when I go for my next ob appointment then we will discuss induction. Hopefully, bub will make his/her appearance before then though, fx'd.

Kelly9 · Jan 18th, 2013, 23:10 PM

Sam I hope babe comes soon, I feel the same and still have like 9 ish weeks left! Ive been ready for her for ages.

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Taylah Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 1,547	Hi ladies, Sorry haven't been on Internet has been down due to crossed line ! Kelly I hope Sunday isn't to emotional for you hun , I can't even imagine how painful the memories are , sending you lots of hugs xxx Sam - I'm hoping for less than 2 weeks, I'm so sick of worrying when I'm not feeling my lo move much ( I know she is running out of room ) what have you been trying to encourage lo out??? I've done the spicy food & dtd - which was actually quite funny ! I've been left feeling disappointed today (tues) because hospital was supposed to call yesterday to give me c-section date & they didn't so I think that means they are too busy this coming week & I will have to wait till following week - boo hoo

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Jan 14th, 2013, 17:53 PM	#142
Kelly9 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 29,062	Sam you don't cope, you loose your mind and go to pieces and take it out on everyone around you even though thats not what you want to do. A year later and I still feel the strain from her passing on my family relationships. I'm not the same person I was and all I want besides having her back is to be myself again, you know before she left, but a year later and I think I've just got to accept that I'm a new me and won't be getting back to the person I was so somehow I need to make the best of it. On a better note, our house is officially sold.

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Jan 15th, 2013, 18:08 PM	#143
sam79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Australia Posts: 230	Kelly - As a parent the passing of a child has got to be the hardest thing ever to deal with. You must be one brave lady to have made it this far. Although Tulip will never replace Hannah, her becoming part of your family is one wonderful positive to look forward to this year. Congrats on Selling your house. At least that is one less stress.

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Jan 15th, 2013, 18:15 PM	#144
sam79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Australia Posts: 230	Taylah - I've mainly been bouncing on my exercise ball, walking quite a bit, doing squats and other yoga poses. Eating some spicy food. Everyone says to dtd but it has been so hot here at the moment that that's the last thing I feel like doing. I have also been taking EPO along with RLT tablets. Oh, and have been getting acupuncture. Hopefully something will work. Hope you get your c-section date soon.

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Jan 15th, 2013, 23:28 PM	#145
Taylah Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 1,547	Thanks Sam , I've tried everything you have plus dtd & still nothing, but yay I got my c-section date today, later than I had hoped but at least I got it - 25 th of jan I will finally get to meet my little girl 9 DAYS & COUNTING :-) Kelly - I feel so sad for you, even though I know it's not the same thing as losing a child, I am left feeling empty and a changed person after losing my mum , we were so very close & I still cry a lot & miss her everyday , I heard this saying & it helps me feel a little better- Death is a heartache that no one can heal but Love is a memory that no one can steal ! It's been four years this past October since I lost my mum & although time doesn't heal like people say, it does make it a little bit easier to cope with the loss & heartache you feel, the worst part is knowing there is absolutely nothing you can do to make it better, we just have to accept it as life & keep living xxxx

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Jan 16th, 2013, 01:14 AM	#146
Kelly9 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 29,062	Loosing a mother would be very hard to but I agree, there is nothing like loosing a child, there isn't even a name for it either. I'm not brave, like you said you just have to accept it and live life. I have hopes of feeling normal again, this pregnancy has brought up so many conflicting emotions because it does at times make me remember and miss things I didn't get with Hannah but mostly I am happy to have tulip and a second chance to raise a daughter. It's tough for me because my only memories of her are from when she was inside me and then the few hours I got to hold her. Time has helped and I'm confident with more time I'll feel normal ish again. You guys are so close to having your babies!!!!! Can't wait to see some cute little pics of what I'll get in 10 more weeks

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Jan 16th, 2013, 16:34 PM	#147
Taylah Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 1,547	Thanks Kelly , & we are always here if you need to talk or vent xxx

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Jan 17th, 2013, 15:49 PM	#148
Kelly9 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 29,062	I'm doing ok, went through her memory box and had a good cry. It helped.

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Jan 18th, 2013, 16:15 PM	#149
sam79 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Australia Posts: 230	Hope everyone is doing well. I went for acupuncture to try and help this lo engage as according to my ob it is no more engaged then last week. I also picked up my TENS machine for labour the other day so I'm really hoping that it will help with some pain relief. I know I still have a week to go until bub is born but I'm so ready for him/her now! If nothing has happened by Thursday when I go for my next ob appointment then we will discuss induction. Hopefully, bub will make his/her appearance before then though, fx'd.

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Jan 18th, 2013, 23:10 PM	#150
Kelly9 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 29,062	Sam I hope babe comes soon, I feel the same and still have like 9 ish weeks left! Ive been ready for her for ages.

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