Our surprise pregnancies - lets stick together - Page 3

designer · Dec 9th, 2012, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ShamrockMamma

So I'm new here. Just found out im expecting my first... of course i find out the day after my birthday...

I feel you. Try not to worry. I was like you when I first found out I was pregnant. This is my first too. By the end you will be excited to see this beautiful new human being that your body is creating!

77Tulips · Dec 9th, 2012, 13:32 PM

Morning

my youngest has just turned 1, we were done, DH was getting the snip and we were happy. It was a huge shock to find out we were pregnant and an even bigger one to find out it was twins, I must admit I cried

I have a CVS on Friday as I am very high risk and if all is good we will tell the world when the results are in, I am hoping they come back before Christmas.
My older two are 22 months apart and although the first six months were hard it has been the best thing ever. They play together are best of friends and it gave me lots of me time back.

embo216 · Dec 9th, 2012, 13:34 PM

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Originally Posted by 77Tulips

Morning

my youngest has just turned 1, we were done, DH was getting the snip and we were happy. It was a huge shock to find out we were pregnant and an even bigger one to find out it was twins, I must admit I cried

I have a CVS on Friday as I am very high risk and if all is good we will tell the world when the results are in, I am hoping they come back before Christmas.
My older two are 22 months apart and although the first six months were hard it has been the best thing ever. They play together are best of friends and it gave me lots of me time back.

oh wow! Twin shock! congratulations

dreambaby · Dec 9th, 2012, 14:09 PM

Hi to the new ladies that have joined us

77Tulips - I forgot to say congratulations earlier !!!! I've always loved the idea of twins. They are in my family.

Katerdid - Ours will possibly have similar due dates.

If I'm being really honest, I'm petrified of going through pregnancy again. I was really ill from 34 weeks with pre-eclampsia, they had me in hospital for ages. But because it was holiday season they didn't do an awful lot with me (there was no staff around half the time) and I could feel myself getting more ill by the day. In the end they did an emergency scan and emergency induction which let to Max's heart struggling during contractions. They then whisked me in for an emergence c-section!
As it was only 11 months ago the emotions and memories are still really raw. I was so scared and so let down by the professionals around me. I'm really worried it will happen all over again.

katerdid · Dec 9th, 2012, 15:11 PM

Same here dream, my last pregnancy was awful, I was so miserable and had ms almost the entire time. I went into preterm labor at 30wks and was in a state of fear until he was born as I was in and out of the hospital for weeks.
I am terrified to have a repeat.

dreambaby · Dec 9th, 2012, 15:15 PM

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Originally Posted by katerdid

Same here dream, my last pregnancy was awful, I was so miserable and had ms almost the entire time. I went into preterm labor at 30wks and was in a state of fear until he was born as I was in and out of the hospital for weeks.
I am terrified to have a repeat.

It is truly scary, I feel your fear. It is a nice comfort to know I'm not alone though and that some of you will understand my worries.

armywife2011 · Dec 9th, 2012, 19:19 PM

Hello! thanks for the invite to the group

dreambaby · Dec 10th, 2012, 02:42 AM

Hi

armywife,
How are you doing today??

katerdid · Dec 10th, 2012, 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by dreambaby

It is truly scary, I feel your fear. It is a nice comfort to know I'm not alone though and that some of you will understand my worries.

I just have to keep telling myself, I've done this before and survived. If I have to, I can do it again.

dreambaby · Dec 10th, 2012, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by katerdid

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Originally Posted by dreambaby

It is truly scary, I feel your fear. It is a nice comfort to know I'm not alone though and that some of you will understand my worries.

I just have to keep telling myself, I've done this before and survived. If I have to, I can do it again.

That's so true. I almost feel guilty for feeling the way that I do (a little shocked at the bad timing element), because this little bean is growing on me

and I want it to be healthy with all my heart. I guess if it's meant to be, it will be !!

Dec 9th, 2012, 13:32 PM	#22
77Tulips Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: NZ Posts: 417	Morning my youngest has just turned 1, we were done, DH was getting the snip and we were happy. It was a huge shock to find out we were pregnant and an even bigger one to find out it was twins, I must admit I cried I have a CVS on Friday as I am very high risk and if all is good we will tell the world when the results are in, I am hoping they come back before Christmas. My older two are 22 months apart and although the first six months were hard it has been the best thing ever. They play together are best of friends and it gave me lots of me time back.

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Dec 9th, 2012, 14:09 PM	#24
dreambaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: South Coast UK Posts: 666	Hi to the new ladies that have joined us 77Tulips - I forgot to say congratulations earlier !!!! I've always loved the idea of twins. They are in my family. Katerdid - Ours will possibly have similar due dates. If I'm being really honest, I'm petrified of going through pregnancy again. I was really ill from 34 weeks with pre-eclampsia, they had me in hospital for ages. But because it was holiday season they didn't do an awful lot with me (there was no staff around half the time) and I could feel myself getting more ill by the day. In the end they did an emergency scan and emergency induction which let to Max's heart struggling during contractions. They then whisked me in for an emergence c-section! As it was only 11 months ago the emotions and memories are still really raw. I was so scared and so let down by the professionals around me. I'm really worried it will happen all over again.

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Dec 9th, 2012, 15:11 PM	#25
katerdid Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Michigan/USA Posts: 4,004	Same here dream, my last pregnancy was awful, I was so miserable and had ms almost the entire time. I went into preterm labor at 30wks and was in a state of fear until he was born as I was in and out of the hospital for weeks. I am terrified to have a repeat.

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Dec 9th, 2012, 19:19 PM	#27
armywife2011 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 108	Hello! thanks for the invite to the group

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dreambaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: South Coast UK Posts: 666	Hi armywife, How are you doing today??

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