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Old Feb 4th, 2013, 16:09 PM   261
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Not sure what to say really...

Started bleeding and cramping on Friday night/Saturday morning so I made an appointment with the doctor on call. Was in lots of pain so I was sent to the hospital to be checked and when they did a scan, I was told that I had miscarried. They thought the miscarriage was incomplete because they could still see bits of material in my uterus so I had a D&C a few hours later... I was given the option to wait for a few days to see if things passed on there own but I was in so much pain that I decided to get it over and done with. Thankfully they sedated me for the procedure so I didn't have to witness it. Was hospitalised for a few hours but then I was sent home with antibiotics and pain killers.

Feel so incredibly guilty because I had considered having an abortion and although I know its irrational... I somehow feel like I am being punished. Haven't spoken to my (ex) SO - I sent him a text to fill him in and he replied once but I haven't heard from him since... he appears to be ignoring me. No doubt he's delighted but there are no words to describe how sad I feel.

Wishing ye a happy and healthy nine months. Hope to be back here again some day.
I'm so very sorry you have gone through this. I am right here for you. Please PM any time if you want to talk, I will be able to relate as I am still cramping and bleeding. A constant reminder what I don't have anymore.
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss as well. I've stopped bleeding (for the moment anyway) but I'm still cramping. I was told each could last for 10-14 days. Wish I could fast forward the next few weeks of my life. Knowing my ex is happy with someone else is killing me as well. Ugh
Well the one thing that is getting me through is that everything happens for a reason. So maybe it happened because my endo is plugging my tubes and they need to be fixed first or maybe it just wasn't my time. If this guy was so awful maybe he is not meant to be a dad. I KNOW in my heart of hearts you ARE meant to be a mom. A really great mom! You need to vent any time message me, I'll be there!



 
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Not sure what to say really...

Started bleeding and cramping on Friday night/Saturday morning so I made an appointment with the doctor on call. Was in lots of pain so I was sent to the hospital to be checked and when they did a scan, I was told that I had miscarried. They thought the miscarriage was incomplete because they could still see bits of material in my uterus so I had a D&C a few hours later... I was given the option to wait for a few days to see if things passed on there own but I was in so much pain that I decided to get it over and done with. Thankfully they sedated me for the procedure so I didn't have to witness it. Was hospitalised for a few hours but then I was sent home with antibiotics and pain killers.

Feel so incredibly guilty because I had considered having an abortion and although I know its irrational... I somehow feel like I am being punished. Haven't spoken to my (ex) SO - I sent him a text to fill him in and he replied once but I haven't heard from him since... he appears to be ignoring me. No doubt he's delighted but there are no words to describe how sad I feel.

Wishing ye a happy and healthy nine months. Hope to be back here again some day.
Oh Cflower, I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss. I can't tell you how sad it makes me to read this.

I hope we do see you back on the pregnancy forums someday, supported by the kind of love you deserve.

And I hope the fleas of a thousand camels infest the hairs of your ex-boyfriend's nether regions...



 
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Proserpina I couldn't have said that better!



 
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I had my (sort-of) first prenatal exam yesterday. It went great! I talked about it at length here. Can't get enough of my doctor, he is wonderful.

(And if you were following my unintentional STD screening drama from the other day, we came to a peaceful resolution on that.)



 
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Hi everyone, I am very sorry for your loss cflowe04 and allforthegirl, I send you a lot of hugs.

Well my morning sickness definitely started last Sunday, I had all Sunday, and Monday, Tuesday and today has been ok but I have a constant sensation of hunger, I don't know how to explain it, it is like an emptiness sensation in my oesophagus that goes to and from my stomach, really awfull sometimes it ends in nausea, and the only way to make it go away is eating something, it happens every 2 to 3 hrs, I am trying to eat healthy and really small portions because I don't want to end 1rst trimester with 5 more kilos, and I already gained 1 :/.
I had my first ultrasound on Monday : it was really amazing, we heard the heartbeat wow it is so strong! 146 bpm, everything is good and the cramps and twinges are completely normal, they change my date to the 23 September instead of the 20.

I haven't said anything at work because I think is too early but I have been sick and can't hide it they are going to start suspecting, will try to hold on a couple more weeks depending on how I feel.

Well good luck for you all, hope you are ok,



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Hi everyone, I am very sorry for your loss cflowe04 and allforthegirl, I send you a lot of hugs.

Well my morning sickness definitely started last Sunday, I had all Sunday, and Monday, Tuesday and today has been ok but I have a constant sensation of hunger, I don't know how to explain it, it is like an emptiness sensation in my oesophagus that goes to and from my stomach, really awfull sometimes it ends in nausea, and the only way to make it go away is eating something, it happens every 2 to 3 hrs, I am trying to eat healthy and really small portions because I don't want to end 1rst trimester with 5 more kilos, and I already gained 1 :/.
I had my first ultrasound on Monday : it was really amazing, we heard the heartbeat wow it is so strong! 146 bpm, everything is good and the cramps and twinges are completely normal, they change my date to the 23 September instead of the 20.

I haven't said anything at work because I think is too early but I have been sick and can't hide it they are going to start suspecting, will try to hold on a couple more weeks depending on how I feel.

Well good luck for you all, hope you are ok,
I moved your due date on the list, Maybebub. If anyone else gets their EDD moved, let me know and I will update the list for them.

I threw up for the first time on Saturday morning and have been feeling pretty nauseous ever since, though no more vomiting thus far. Ugh. Can't wait for this part of the pregnancy to pass.



 
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Cryssie, just wanted to say here that I'm sorry for your loss.



 
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Had slight brown discharge over the weekend and felt like something just wasn't right so I went in today, an ultrasound revealed the babies heart had stopped beating Saturday based off the babys size. I go in tomorrow for a D & C. Good bye for now, hopefully we will be back soon. Bless you all!!



 
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Had slight brown discharge over the weekend and felt like something just wasn't right so I went in today, an ultrasound revealed the babies heart had stopped beating Saturday based off the babys size. I go in tomorrow for a D & C. Good bye for now, hopefully we will be back soon. Bless you all!!
Goodness.... I am sorry for your loss! I know how you feel. If you need to talk please PM me. I am here for you!!



 
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Had slight brown discharge over the weekend and felt like something just wasn't right so I went in today, an ultrasound revealed the babies heart had stopped beating Saturday based off the babys size. I go in tomorrow for a D & C. Good bye for now, hopefully we will be back soon. Bless you all!!
Wow. Not a good day for our little group.

So sorry for your loss, WantaBelly. Hope to see you back in the pregnancy forums soon.



 
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