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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 10:54 AM   111
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Hi ladies,
I am due 20th April.
I am still In throws of work and also have a paper to write for my masters.
We are off to do a John Lewis shop in 2 weeks when ill be 34 weeks. I'll choose my buggy then -need one with buggy board for toddler so if anyone has any ideas about this then let me know.
Also need 2 changing boards for up and down stairs and of course baby clothes, Muslins, breast pads etc.
My anxiety is centred around my inlaws. They live in the north east so need to stay over somewhere when baby is born.
I nearly killed MiL when DS was born. She came along with this attitude about needing to protect LO and suggested I may not cope and would get depressed. She felt quite rejected by my decision to breast feed. I can't handle all that stress again but at same time need help with DS. I am hoping they can stay with my mum but DH feels I am being petty and need to get over myself and take the help and support where it is being offered.
I intend to make a decision nearer the time... Fortunately inlaws are not types who need to plan ahead.
Im due 20th too
My hubby is always on at me sayin i should let mil elp out more an when i tell him i dont need he says everyone else lets grandparents take kids.



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 11:05 AM   112
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Hi ladies,
I am due 20th April.
I am still In throws of work and also have a paper to write for my masters.
We are off to do a John Lewis shop in 2 weeks when ill be 34 weeks. I'll choose my buggy then -need one with buggy board for toddler so if anyone has any ideas about this then let me know.
Also need 2 changing boards for up and down stairs and of course baby clothes, Muslins, breast pads etc.
My anxiety is centred around my inlaws. They live in the north east so need to stay over somewhere when baby is born.
I nearly killed MiL when DS was born. She came along with this attitude about needing to protect LO and suggested I may not cope and would get depressed. She felt quite rejected by my decision to breast feed. I can't handle all that stress again but at same time need help with DS. I am hoping they can stay with my mum but DH feels I am being petty and need to get over myself and take the help and support where it is being offered.
I intend to make a decision nearer the time... Fortunately inlaws are not types who need to plan ahead.
We went with the mothercare my4 pram because the handle extends really far so dd can fit inside it comfortably on her buggy board. If we didn't need the buggy board we wouldnt have picked that pram but I didn't feel there were many options in our price range that would be comfortable for all 3 of us. I like bugaboos as well but they're too costly for us.

Re your mil situation, much as I love mine there is no way in hell ANYONE is welcome to come and stay in the early days. They can visit and help out but we want time to ourselves in the early days.



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 11:17 AM   113
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Hi ladies.

Anyone know if its normal to go off food in 3rd tri?!

I literally have to forse myself to eat :-/



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 11:21 AM   114
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Jenny, my friends sister had this too and i hear morning sickness can also come back so maybe a bit of food aversion? xxxxx



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 11:26 AM   115
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Jenny, my friends sister had this too and i hear morning sickness can also come back so maybe a bit of food aversion? xxxxx

In first tri I definitely couldn't stand some smells and foods. Now im not feeling that way, I just dont feel hungry at all. Today it was half 12 before I realized that I hadn't eaten anything. Just hope everything is ok with Lo xx



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 11:47 AM   116
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In first tri I definitely couldn't stand some smells and foods. Now im not feeling that way, I just dont feel hungry at all. Today it was half 12 before I realized that I hadn't eaten anything. Just hope everything is ok with Lo xx
Maybe call your midwife if your worried hun it could be a stress/worry thing, i dont tend to eat when im anxious xxx



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 12:02 PM   117
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In first tri I definitely couldn't stand some smells and foods. Now im not feeling that way, I just dont feel hungry at all. Today it was half 12 before I realized that I hadn't eaten anything. Just hope everything is ok with Lo xx
Your stomach is getting heavy compressed now as your uterus expands. I'm eating smaller meals now as its too uncomfortable to eat a normal portion. Perfectly normal if you've lost your appetite for that reason. Try to eat little and often x



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 13:18 PM   118
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Im finding that I cant eat as much and that I havent really got much of an appetite either and some nausea has returned...im just eating when I can and fruit and veg when I feel I can lol! We went with the babystyle delux 3in1 classic chassis xxxx



 
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Old Feb 24th, 2013, 19:03 PM   119
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Hi ladies can I join?!

I'm due on April 20th, with a little boy!



 
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Old Feb 25th, 2013, 09:06 AM   120
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I don't feel very hungry at the minute either- but now that I'm not working I'm getting pretty bored and eating loads despite never
Feeling hungry... Hmm prob don't feel hungry because I eat loads before I get a chance to! I think about food all the time! :/



 
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