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Old Apr 12th, 2013, 08:41 AM   51
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LAdies, I am cramping horribly this morning. They start in my stomach and go down my thighs. They feel like really bad AF cramps. I have a bad feeling about this.



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2013, 09:02 AM   52
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LAdies, I am cramping horribly this morning. They start in my stomach and go down my thighs. They feel like really bad AF cramps. I have a bad feeling about this.
I'm sorry to hear that You have an u/s tomorrow right? I hope everything turns out ok! I know I have had some cramping on and off for days now, I don't usually get horrible cramps for af, these don't feel the same necessarily but they are near the same intensity. I'm not doubled over or having to take anything for the pain, but they are definitely noticeable. I'm thinking its just my uterus expanding and growing causing them. Could it be really bad gas pains? I think some of what I have had is due to that. I can tell my digestive system is not running the way it usually does, it feels a lot slower.

GL tomorrow at your u/s, keep us updated!



 
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Well, the cramps have disappeared. That is crazy, but I have hope again. I will hold on to this little grain of hope. It might be intestinal pains, my digestive system is a little slow too. LOL the fun of pregnancy! I love it though. I will take anythign and everythign this baby throws at me and not complain.

My SIL who found out she was pregnant about a month ago. Who made it clear she did not want this baby by complaining about being pregnant and not wanting it, found out she is having twins!! She is so mad, I just wanted to knock the shit out of her last night. I would kill to not have to worry as much about my pregnancy and to know that not only one, but both of my babies are doing great.



 
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Seriously? I hate people like that; be grateful at least. Those babies didn't choose to be conceived, and perhaps she should have been a bit more careful if she was so against having a baby

As for you; I'm sorry you're having such a rough time at the moment. I've never cramped like that in pregnancy, but it would scare me too. Even the subtle cramps make me second guess things. I really hope your scan shows growth tomorrow. Good luck; we're all thinking of you



 
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Thanks Lara! I love your new avatar. Your kids are so cute!!

When she found out she was pregnant, she was liek how did this happen. I told her duh you had unprotective sex! She kind of didn't like my response. I think she was looking for sympathy, but how can I sympathize when she has what I have tried for over a year to get and she doesn't want it.



 
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Old Apr 12th, 2013, 10:23 AM   56
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Thanks GalvanBaby

I agree with you. If she'd been taking precautions I'd think differently, but to say those things and act that way when she (it seems) didn't actively try to prevent a pregnancy... does she know you have been trying for over a year?



 
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That's so frustrating I will also take whatever I can get, boy, girl, twins, triplets, doesn't matter to me! Sure I may have a preference, but the second I find out either way I will be ecstatic. Does she know you have been trying for a while? Why of all people would she complain anywhere near you about being pregnant/having twins? That seems very inconsiderate

I agree, even the small cramps I get worry me, its so hard not to be worrying about every little thing



 
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When we first started TTC#3 I was desperate for a boy; we have two girls already, and we've always wanted to be parents to both genders. But as each cycle passed I lost that urge, and then I just wanted to be pregnant; with any gender; I didn't care. I still don't care; I actually love the thought of having a third girl. I could never sound so ungrateful though; you never know who's having trouble conceiving



 
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I agree with you. If she'd been taking precautions I'd think differently, but to say those things and act that way when she (it seems) didn't actively try to prevent a pregnancy... does she know you have been trying for over a year?
Yes, she does know. I had a tubal reversal last year. They all know. OH is the kind of person who as soon as we had a BFP test, he was telling mama and she told everybody. Well, we have had 2 CPs so she knows all about our problems and all the meds I ahve been taking to get pregnant. I told OH if we lose this baby, I will be staying away from his mom's for a while because I won't be able to see her and her negativity about her wonderful blessing without going off. I pray this baby sticks and we have our little TR miracle in December. Cheri22 said we are having a girl.

We can't agree on girl names, but have for a boy. Oh's name is Miguel. So, we decided on Miguel Zayden. We want him to have a middle name and OH doesn't. Now, we need a girl's name we both like. I like exotic names, hence Zayden and he likes regular names. I think we will do a regular name and an exotic name. Ahh eventually she will have her name. LOL



 
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When we first started TTC#3 I was desperate for a boy; we have two girls already, and we've always wanted to be parents to both genders. But as each cycle passed I lost that urge, and then I just wanted to be pregnant; with any gender; I didn't care. I still don't care; I actually love the thought of having a third girl. I could never sound so ungrateful though; you never know who's having trouble conceiving
My parents had 3 girls, I'm the middle one. We are all super close, we usually hang out twice a week! They are my best friends and always have been One thing nice about having all the same gender is I think GENERALLY they get along better/ have more in common, especially when older. Not to say that different gender siblings can't be as close or that ALL same gender siblings get along, but in my experience and my families/friends cases it has been the same gender siblings that get along best.



 
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