Hello lovely ladies - I am stalking you all on this thread!
Personally your pregnancy talk didn't ever offend or upset me but I've only had one stab at ivf so cannot begin to imagine how some would feel after multiple fails.
It's lovely to see you all together and chatting away openly. I hope to join you soon!!!! Xx
We hope to see you here too!
What is your plan of action now? You don't get to see your consultant until September?? Is that right? Hope your as well as can be x
Originally Posted by harley81
I know I can't believe how fast it's going, it seems like yesterday we both joined the other thread, you were mid cycle and I was gearing up to start.
I'm great, except for my sore hips and pubic bone. The midwife has referred me to the physio, I'm hoping they can help as I'm due to work until 39.5 weeks, which could be fun when I'm already walking like I've been riding a horse!
How are you feeling? Does it seem real to you yet? It still hasn't sunk in for me that there is an actual small person in my tummy who I will be responsible for soon, scary! X
Ha I now have the pregnant waddle, I'm slowly starting to get uncomfortable and sleeping at night is a no-no.. My poor oh is getting none either!
I'm excited now, she has gone from kicks and knocks to full on rolls and sticking her knees and elbows out, it's quite a strange experience ha,
Your a trooper working so long, I will be 34 weeks but 3 weeks off will be holidays I'm still owed so not so bad x
Thanks ladies still a little shocked about having a girl but so excited to go shopping for girly stuff
Jamie - OHs 2 boys are 4 and 3 so will be quite close unfortunately his ex has stopped contact so we dont see them at the moment (something we are hoping will get sorted soon) they dont even know we are expecting as we were waiting until after 20 wk scan to tell them
I was feeling a little akward posting in the other thread. Its a great thread and i still stalk it. It helped me through some hard times but must be hard for the ladies who have had many fails.
Oh I'm sorry to hear that wrighty, me and my big gob.
Hope that you get it resolved soon just try not to worry, she can't keep them away without a very good reason xx
Dont be sorry hun his ex is bitter and twisted and uses the children as a weapon. OH has had trouble with contact for years she has told him she doesnt want him involved in their life. its aweful that when we did see the boys both of them have said at different times 'mummy doesnt want you to be our daddy she wants grandpa (her own dad) to be our daddy'
Coaching is a big thing that happens and its not just the ex doing it its her parents aswell. Nana tells them not to do as they are told when with us and even went through a stage where Nana was telling them not to use our toilet so they would wet them selves (something we did eventuallty get sorted out)
Grandpa loves telling the boys what a useless idiot OH is then they just repeat it.
shes hurting the boy and they are going to hate her for it when they are older and when they realise that its her thats stopping contact
That's terrible! What a wicked woman, her parents are no better! And wanting grandad to be daddy's, that's a normal way to raise your children!
It won't take them long at all to realise, I've seen it happen loads of times, it will bite her straight in her ass! X
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