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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 03:10 AM   771
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Well basically itís the only time I had unprotected sex, and she felt my uterus but I think Iím 8 and just a higher uterus oh well early scan for me haha
At least if you are 12/13 weeks you'll have saved yourself an extra 4 weeks of worry and can almost hop straight into 2nd tri



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 04:16 AM   772
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Does anyone else feel alone...

I know I’m not I have wonderful support from my husband.

Im grateful for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby growing. I guess it’s been quite a unplanned journey. I’m out my comfort zone. My life plan I always imangined I would have two children. And now we’re having three.

My youngest is just starting school and I’m just getting back into work I feel like I’ve fudged my chances up of progressing with my work now. Everything will take a step back for baby. My husband has always wanted three and I knew it would happen. The three year age gap between Abby and youngest is perfect. She starts full time school in September which means quality time me and baby and rest time!

I’m scared at how I will cope with three. How will I manage!

I’m full of worries today and I’m tearful. So emotional ahhhh I can’t even share any of this with anyone as I’ve not told anyone I’m pregnant I’m still getting my head round it all myself. I’m still in disbelief I guesss. After many miscarriages it’s what happens I’m planning on not telling my family till I’m ready may it be 12 week 16 or 20 weeks. I tend not to show much. I’m quite small framed 5foot and 110lbs. I don’t know where I hide it



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 06:33 AM   773
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Hannah oh wow thats crazy I hope your scan comes through quickly and you can find out exactly how far along you are, also I agree if you are 4 wks ahead thats great less worry and into the 2nd tri xx

Picks your bound to be emotional hun I think you should tell your family for that support you have already been through alot and need that support hun around you we are all here to moan as much as you want here we will always listen xx



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 07:38 AM   774
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Picks- I've felt the same. Some days if my LO is having a rough day, I cry thinking how will I cope with an infant. I've discussed these feelings with my dh and it has helped. I was content with 2, but if we were blessed with another we'd be fine with that. I know once baby gets here all of those worries will disappear. It's just a flood of hormones. I've noticed I've calmed down a lot in the last week.



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 14:41 PM   775
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I have been reading but haven't gotten a chance to post!

I worry about coping with 2 but still feel very blessed to have fallen pregnant so quickly.

How is going from 1-2? How do you handle bedtime and naps?

Keep us posted on all the scans. I'm hoping no more bad weather here so mine isn't delayed again!!!!



 
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Old Jan 13th, 2018, 16:18 PM   776
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I have been reading but haven't gotten a chance to post!

I worry about coping with 2 but still feel very blessed to have fallen pregnant so quickly.

How is going from 1-2? How do you handle bedtime and naps?

Keep us posted on all the scans. I'm hoping no more bad weather here so mine isn't delayed again!!!!
My situation was a bit easier due to my dd1 being much older and more independent. It was a struggle getting on a good schedule with getting my 1st to school while trying to take care of an infant. Also, trying to divide time between them was hard too. After time, things fall into place.



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 01:34 AM   777
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I'm so glad some of u have said how emotional you have been. I had a proper breakdown last night how will I cope with 5! Tbh I think we will manage but my brain had other ideas last night. My partner has an ex wife and their youngest does nothing but scream from the min she gets here to the min she leaves, it's bloody awful, I can't stand her Nd it's making me and my partner drift apart it's heartbreaking but iv tried I really have. My children love everyone and are so accepting even they don't like her! His 7year old is a good girl she stays over occasionally and her and my oldest are inseparable.. I don't know what to do...



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 02:14 AM   778
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Oooo wow exciting Hannah! When is your scan?

Ahh picks sorry youíre feeling that way Iíve felt emotional and teary also. Youíve had a lot of deal with recently and it must be hard. Maybe tell a close friend or family member so you can have someone to talk to about it?

Cat that sounds tough, but everything always works out in the end and Iím sure youíll manage just fine!



 
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Old Jan 14th, 2018, 02:21 AM   779
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Picks- I'm sorry you're feeling this way, I went through a horrid time with my first as he was very unplanned. I agree with Jennifer, maybe tell someone close to you just so you can unload some of the burden and it may hopefully make you feel better. Have you seen your midwife yet? I would say talk to her about your worries as well. We're always here too if you want to talk x



 
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Yay Im 10wks today xx

Starlight what is the weather like now has the snowing stopped x



 
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