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Old Dec 21st, 2017, 04:08 AM   1
Tyree99
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Ok so my girlfriend is 16 weeks along at the beginning of 2nd trimester she absolutely hated me wouldnít talk to tried talking to her about it she stormed off we still live together Iím always super nice try and help her with everything around the house before the pregnancy we did every little thing together and she would always come hang out with me when I was at work and Iíd hang out with her when she was at work Iím so lost right now she doesnít communicate with me she talks to me more now but at this point sheís acting strange sheís always hiding her phone she never used to I canít touch her Iím so confused and lost I live with her and her parents sheís never kicked me out or anything but I usually wait until she starts conversation. I always ask her if I can do anything and how sheís feeling she always says no and sheís ok but when weíre with her brother sheís a complete a$hole to me when itís just us sheís fine i canít get her to talk to me about anything personal I feel like sheís hiding something from me I need help



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Old Dec 21st, 2017, 15:43 PM   2
WackyMumof2
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I know it's hard but try not to take it personally. Pregnancy is hard and hormones are running high so it's likely that's the cause of it. But rather than waiting to ask her if she needs or wants something, try taking care of it BEFORE and see how that goes. Hang in there. It will all be worth it in the end.



 
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Old Dec 21st, 2017, 19:45 PM   3
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I know it's hard but try not to take it personally. Pregnancy is hard and hormones are running high so it's likely that's the cause of it. But rather than waiting to ask her if she needs or wants something, try taking care of it BEFORE and see how that goes. Hang in there. It will all be worth it in the end.
Well I try and do everything I can at the top of my head like the household jobs I try and do without question because I shouldnít have to be asked to do that in the first place lol except cleaning women are queens of organization but Iíve been struggling at work the way I get treated I work 12 hour days and the second I leave for work I already canít wait to see my beautiful girlfriend and I tell her that I always look forward to coming home to see her and she just asks why with a little frustration in her voice and the stress of what kind of father Iím going to be and the man I want to be for my gf everything is just so hard right now and I have very bad anxiety I donít believe in medicine for it. But I also donít want to make this sound like itís about me either i also feel like Iím trying to hard for her and not enough for myself either I guess Iím asking for advice on both ends of this deal. Sheís never been one for talking to anyone about anything personal and I feel like she expects me to read her mind I keep close contact with her parents if it werenít for mine and hers we would be split up and elsewhere I canít thank them enough so everyday I get on this website and some others to read other peopleís stories until I felt comfortable to share mine thereís so much running through my mind I need help even if itís just little advice as well idk what to do



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