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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 09:33 AM   41
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Weíre not telling anyone until after 20 weeks, and even then it will only be close family. No one else is going to know until after baby is born. Our children are 5&2 so we arenít even going to tell them. Our oldest was heartbroken when his baby brother never came home and I couldnít do that to him again. I am so desperate to tell people and talk to others about this as I feel so scared and alone (DH works full time so we donít get much time alone).
I cannot imagine that pain. I completely understand why you would want to keep it a secret.
We are all here for you and a healthy and happy 9 months to you!
Thank you itís nice to talk to others on here, I donít feel so completely alone.
Every little thing is scaring me! Every twinge, every move I make, every toilet visit! (Iím feeling a little more wet Ďdown thereí which is making me panic run to the toilet multiple times a day!)

I had my midwife booking in appointment through today, 12th February! So a whole month away yet!!! But I know I can go to the GP in the mean time if Iím worried about anything x



 
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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 15:42 PM   42
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I'm so sorry for your loss CookieDough . My eldest (who is 4) was there when I found out on Christmas day so is aware that something is going on, and asks multiple times a day if the baby is still 'in mummys tummy'. It's heartbreaking as I'm so nervous anyway it's hard to know what to say!

And yes, i've had the same. Definitely wetter down there. I remember this from before though that I was experiencing more CM and constantly worried i'd go to the loo and find blood. Such a nerve wracking time.

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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 15:49 PM   43
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Sorry for your loss CookieDough



 
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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 19:05 PM   44
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We have not told anyone yet. We are planning to tell our parents after we have our first ultrasound and then other family / friends after the first trimester is over. It has been very hard not to say anything to my mom though!

I am so sorry for your loss, CookieDough. That sounds like an incredibly hard experience. I hope that this pregnancy is a sticky little bean for you.



 
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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 21:51 PM   45
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I'm so sorry for your loss xCookieDoughx I could never imagine how completely awful it would be and fair enough for not telling people.

Although I've been lucky enough to have healthy pregnancies, I've never done big announcements, not on FB or anything. We just tell those people who we'd like to know. Last time when DS2 was born I posted about his arrival on FB and I got a few "oh I didn't know you were pregnant" or "I must have missed your announcement" comments. Nah, I just didn't go about telling everyone!



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 00:50 AM   46
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Brown spotting this morning AF is due today and the spotting is back. I just feel so hopeless. I don’t know what to do!



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 01:48 AM   47
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Brown spotting this morning AF is due today and the spotting is back. I just feel so hopeless. I don’t know what to do!
Hang in there, could be IB. I had IB for 3-4 days or so this time around and started a few days before period was due.



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 01:59 AM   48
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Brown spotting this morning AF is due today and the spotting is back. I just feel so hopeless. I donít know what to do!
Hang in there, could be IB. I had IB for 3-4 days or so this time around and started a few days before period was due.
I had spotting last week at 9&10DPO which stopped thankfully. But itís just started up again



 
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Old Jan 9th, 2018, 08:04 AM   49
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Hang in there- hopefully it will stop like before. Praying for a sticky bean.



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Old Jan 10th, 2018, 05:41 AM   50
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Hey everyone! The spotting stopped yesterday afternoon, thank goodness! I think it might just be something that keeps happening to me on and off for a while. Iíll go back to the doctors next week like they said and see what happens from there. Took another test this morning which I think is slightly darker than the others and darker than control so Iím quite happy



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