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Old Apr 18th, 2013, 10:56 AM   1731
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Id like to be added Kelly!!

DS for first and team yellow for this one! They will be just over 20 months apart!



 
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Old Apr 21st, 2013, 13:41 PM   1732
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Oh sassy, I've just seen your post. I'm so sorry hun



 
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Old Apr 21st, 2013, 13:44 PM   1733
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Kelly - could you update my front page thing? Expected LO was pink and 15 months between her and Henry and 25 between her and Stephen



 
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Old Apr 29th, 2013, 17:41 PM   1734
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I'm pg with my second. When he/she is born, the age difference will be about 19 months. Will be lurking/reading to get tips. And eventually sharing



 
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Old Apr 29th, 2013, 17:44 PM   1735
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyC75 View Post
ANNOUNCEMENT

(I currently have access to a laptop for the next couple of weeks! (Havent been able to update from my phone!)

If anyone is not on the front page & would like to be, please post me your details as in the format shown on the front page ie:

Username:
Age gap:
or 's
Hakunamatata
19 months



 
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Old Apr 30th, 2013, 21:24 PM   1736
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Do any of your Los have problems getting along? Mine are 20 months and 5 months and all of a sudden our toddler isn't being so nice to the baby he'll take his bottle or toys away from him or he'll hit him! He's never been a violent kid ever. We really try to treat them the same. We aren't neglecting him or doing anything different. He's still getting the same amount of love and attention. He's nice and loving to him too just other times he's mean



 
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Old May 1st, 2013, 02:19 AM   1737
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Yes my eldest went through this, she was only ever mean a handful of times before she got the message how wrong it was. I know some people don't approve but I made her sit on the naughty step, literally for 20seconds then she had to say sorry and kiss the baby! Never done it again since, in fact she's amazing with him, even if he plays with the toys that she wants she gets him something else and then takes the toy she wants away and says "my toy, you play with this" lol clever and cute! She's like his 2nd mummy now and wants to get involved in everything!



 
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Old May 12th, 2013, 21:18 PM   1738
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My OH has really been putting on the pressure to try for #3. I really want to wait at least two years. I know I can deal with anything given to us..BUT in all honesty you ladies with 3 under 3 do you think its a good idea? Would you recommend it even if your experience is perfect or horrible lol. I really think its an awful idea for us



 
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Old May 13th, 2013, 01:27 AM   1739
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I think if you don't feel 100% ready then don't give in just because that's what your husband wants. You already think its an awful idea so you must have valid reasons.
I only have 2 close together and that was hard enough, yes I'm sure I could cope with 3 but I wouldn't want to!
Saying that, I'm sure many manage 3 under 3 just fine



 
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Old May 13th, 2013, 02:54 AM   1740
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Thanks I do want a third but I just think that the best time to ttc would be 2 years from now when the boys will be a little older. I think financially and physically I could take it but mentally 3 under 3 would be hard to not be so stressed.

Idk why but my husband has this now or never attitude. We really aren't that old (27 years old) but he says we aren't getting any younger I mean my sister had a baby at 39yrs old. we are still discussing and deciding. He asks me to stop taking birth control, which he hates from a religious and manly stand point (no sex drive, mood swings and weird bleeding patterns), and to just not prevent and not actively try just go with it. Which sounds great in theory but that's how #2 got here! It took over 2 years and clomid for us to have #1 so I thought it wrong to prevent what we tried so hard for then 6 months post partum to my surprise I was pregnant!



 
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