'Little Ones Close in Age' Please join us - Page 5

suzzle · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:08 PM

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Happy to help! Not sure about the different gender thing being an issue, I'm sure it certainly helped that they were both boys & into the same things but that's only been my experience. Hopefully someone who has had a girl & boy close together will get in touch soon

Also, sorry for the delayed response! Had youngests birthday party today so have been scurrying around sorting things for that. Hope you are well, I am currently suffering from a bout of self induced indigestion - it was worth it though ;p

Sorry! Have cut&pasted my reply above as managed to reply in the middle of the previous post :-/ Total iPhone fail

KellyC75 · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:09 PM

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Happy to help! Not sure about the different gender thing being an issue, I'm sure it certainly helped that they were both boys & into the same things but that's only been my experience. Hopefully someone who has had a girl & boy close together will get in touch soon

Also, sorry for the delayed response! Had youngests birthday party today so have been scurrying around sorting things for that. Hope you are well, I am currently suffering from a bout of self induced indigestion - it though

Im hoping for another Girl ~ But of course be happy with a Boy

Happy Birthday to your LO

My DH made me dinner tonight (this rarely happens btw)

He bought it to me (un-expectadly) & I nearly threw up

I felt sooooo bad

KellyC75 · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:10 PM

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Sorry! Have cut&pasted my reply above as managed to reply in the middle of the previous post :-/ Total iPhone fail

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Its Ok ~ I worked it out

Ju_bubbs · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:16 PM

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Yeah we split up a couple of days ago.. he sudden;y decided that he couldn't hack the family lifestyle, and left about 5 minutes later!

Im so sorry ~

What a shock for you at such an important time of your life

Had you been together long

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Nah, we only got together about a week before I got pregnant, tho we've known each other for about 8 years now! Getting pregnant was our first time and we got completely carried away, typically it was on a friday night before a bank holiday monday so was too late to take the MAP by the tie docs was open!

As much as I really, really hate myself for even thinking it, let alone saying it, I suggested a termination to him since we only just got together, but he convinced me to keep it and that we'd manage ok.. then changes his mind a few weeks later!
Tho I am still very glad I didn't get a termination, id have never forgiven myself, no matter how hard its gunna be!

KellyC75 · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:20 PM

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Nah, we only got together about a week before I got pregnant, tho we've known each other for about 8 years now! Getting pregnant was our first time and we got completely carried away, typically it was on a friday night before a bank holiday monday so was too late to take the MAP by the tie docs was open!

As much as I really, really hate myself for even thinking it, let alone saying it, I suggested a termination to him since we only just got together, but he convinced me to keep it and that we'd manage ok.. then changes his mind a few weeks later!
Tho I am still very glad I didn't get a termination, id have never forgiven myself, no matter how hard its gunna be!

Of course its Ok to think that way ~

You were in shock

Things will be Ok for you ~ Better to be a strong single mummy than be with someone who doesnt want to be there

We're all here for you

Ju_bubbs · Jul 10th, 2011, 16:36 PM

Thanks for the kind words kelly!

LakensMommy11 · Jul 10th, 2011, 21:27 PM

My son is 13 months now...I am not coping with the tiredness very well, especially since my husband works night shift and isn't much help with that. Sometimes I wonder why we let this happen again so soon but God has a plan for us!! It will all work out!

Squishyplush1 · Jul 10th, 2011, 21:39 PM

Hi hun thought id share

my son is 15 months now so will be a month off two when this new bubba is born

good luck to you i think all of us with little ones already will need it but at the same time we will be fine!

KellyC75 · Jul 11th, 2011, 01:37 AM

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My son is 13 months now...I am not coping with the tiredness very well, especially since my husband works night shift and isn't much help with that. Sometimes I wonder why we let this happen again so soon but God has a plan for us!! It will all work out!

Hi LakensMommy

I remember you from 'Autumn Acorns'

Seems we have 3 graduates now

Its mostly in the early morning when im suddendy sruck with 'im crazy ~ what the heck am I doing!'

paulaj · Jul 11th, 2011, 04:52 AM

baby 2 and baby 3 are 12 months apart. was the easiest age gap. the baby still slept so i could sleep when she did, then once the younger one was born she was walking so we could play while i fed the baby.

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suzzle Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 527	[QUOTE=suzzle;11627129][QUOTE=KellyC75;11610725][QUOT Happy to help! Not sure about the different gender thing being an issue, I'm sure it certainly helped that they were both boys & into the same things but that's only been my experience. Hopefully someone who has had a girl & boy close together will get in touch soon Also, sorry for the delayed response! Had youngests birthday party today so have been scurrying around sorting things for that. Hope you are well, I am currently suffering from a bout of self induced indigestion - it was worth it though ;p Sorry! Have cut&pasted my reply above as managed to reply in the middle of the previous post :-/ Total iPhone fail

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Ju_bubbs Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: UK Posts: 5,174	Thanks for the kind words kelly!

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LakensMommy11 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 688	My son is 13 months now...I am not coping with the tiredness very well, especially since my husband works night shift and isn't much help with that. Sometimes I wonder why we let this happen again so soon but God has a plan for us!! It will all work out!

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Squishyplush1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 236	Hi hun thought id share my son is 15 months now so will be a month off two when this new bubba is born good luck to you i think all of us with little ones already will need it but at the same time we will be fine!

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paulaj Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Posts: 29	baby 2 and baby 3 are 12 months apart. was the easiest age gap. the baby still slept so i could sleep when she did, then once the younger one was born she was walking so we could play while i fed the baby.

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