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Originally Posted by pinklightbulb Hi all!
Mrsmctobe: I had to have a c-section for Eamon as he was footling breech and never turned, and it wasn't as bad as I imagined  They have come really really far with caesars over the years. My recovery period wasn't long at all. I was walking on the day after the section, showering myself, and was able to do light housework two weeks after, and felt normal again by 4 weeks PP. (I did bleed for six weeks but I know that varies from woman to woman.)
This time I will be having an elective section, not by choice as my hospital doesn't allow VBACs  And I am scared as of course it is major surgery but I also know that the risks aren't as high as they were even say 10 years ago with c-sections. | yeah but its a bid deal to me the thought terrifies me and i honestly think i would feel i failed cos i couldnt give birth to my son myself.
peeps say its not bad but its not called major surgery for nothing and what bothers some doesnt bother others.
but as long as my son is healthy and gets out safe i'll just have deal with it however that may be i dont know. how do you get over your fears of that and how you feel you will have failed thats what worries me. | Sorry...just wanted to point out that a heart transplant is major surgery! A c-section while invasive is extremely routine and the risks are actually quite low especially in today's day and age. No one likes the thought of having any type
of surgery but sometimes that is what we have to do for our own health. Anyone can understand you being scared...anyone would be but this is what we all got on board with when we got pregnant. You will be fine no matter what happens...you just need to take it one day at a time just like the rest of us (and I am having a scheduled section so it is a certainty for me). |
Sorry. This has annoyed me. Don't mean to start another fight but:
A section *is* major surgery... lol....
It involves cutting through 7 layers of freaking muscle and an organ. No, it isn't a heart transplant. But it's still classed as major surgery. Tell that to the scar I have that is still red 2 years after the incision was made

Now it's *me* not meaning to be rude, but have you ever had a section? And if you have, and got lucky like me and recovered faster, that's good-- but it doesn't mean it isn't still a major surgical procedure.
NotNic: I will be 39 weeks on Liam's birthday. It was originally going to be 38 but it was moved forward a week as Eamon was only 5lb at birth at 38 weeks
ETA: I know a section is scary. I've had one. I've been in the exact position mrsmctobe is. I've had a breech delivered by section so I *do* know what I'm talking about. I understand how frightening the prospect is of surgery, especially when you didn't ask for it but it's necessary to keep you and your baby alive

I have beaten myself up for the last 2 years for not being a 'proper' woman and giving birth naturally to my son. But you know what? If I tried to birth him vaginally chances are he would not be here and neither would I.
So I am thankful c-sections exist, as terrifying as the idea is-- when you've been there and done it and had one and know it was your only option.... you kinda don't feel so bad when you look at what the other outcome could've been.
Double ETA: Sorry boofs and Wobbles, I didn't see you there. I just saw the post about sections not being major surgery and couldn't help myself from correcting it. Will stop the discussion now