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Old Sep 10th, 2015, 13:56 PM   41
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Thanks everyone. As soon as I hear from the doc I will let everyone know. I am just sitting here waiting for the call but they may wait until my next scan on Tuesday to tell me. I hope not. It is hard enough to wait this long.



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2015, 14:59 PM   42
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Thanks everyone. As soon as I hear from the doc I will let everyone know. I am just sitting here waiting for the call but they may wait until my next scan on Tuesday to tell me. I hope not. It is hard enough to wait this long.
My fingeres are crossed for you!!



 
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Old Sep 10th, 2015, 15:06 PM   43
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Mine are crossed too!



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Old Sep 10th, 2015, 20:41 PM   44
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Oh Aayla, my fingers are crossed as well! I hope everything is well!


Afm, I had my first scan today at what I thought was 12+1 weeks. The technician decides to move my EDD back by a week, so I am now only 11+1 and due on March 30th. It's weird how just a week made me really bummed out. It's hard to explain it, it's just this weird frustration. I guess I'm now closer to April like you lovely ladies.

The good news is that we heard the baby's heartbeat and got to see it move around in there. Bad news is that we have to go back in 2 weeks to re-do the scan so they can do the nuchal measurements.



 
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Oh Aayla, my fingers are crossed as well! I hope everything is well!


Afm, I had my first scan today at what I thought was 12+1 weeks. The technician decides to move my EDD back by a week, so I am now only 11+1 and due on March 30th. It's weird how just a week made me really bummed out. It's hard to explain it, it's just this weird frustration. I guess I'm now closer to April like you lovely ladies.

The good news is that we heard the baby's heartbeat and got to see it move around in there. Bad news is that we have to go back in 2 weeks to re-do the scan so they can do the nuchal measurements.
This happened to me with my first baby, I remember how upset I was that I was pushed back a week, it was like repeating another week in the first trimester and it drove me nuts. But good to know the baby is good and growing perfect. I opted out of the downs testing this round it only made me nuts last time. Let us know how your next scan goes, maybe post a pic!!



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2015, 19:28 PM   46
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went to the gp today. He is pretty sure I miscarried. I went for blood work to confirm my hcg levels. I still have my appt on tuesday with the fertility doc. I will know more in a few hours when I get my numbers back. I'm not optimistic.



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2015, 21:41 PM   47
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So sorry, Aayla. I went through a miscarriage earlier this year and it was awful. I too didn't have much blood at first but it did eventually get heavier. Just take good care of yourself and get lots of rest.

AFM, things are going okay so far this time. I had an initial scan at 7 weeks with the reproductive specialist I was seeing and my next appointment (with midwives) is Wednesday. I'm feeling tried and not really nauseated, but sort of queasy and not really into foods. That didn't stop me from devouring a brownie and a plate of nachos tonight though.


Hopeful, I really wanted a girl last time but this time I'll be happy with either. We will probably find out the gender at the 20 week scan. I hear what you are saying about having all the clothes, though! That would make it easier. I have a ton of stuff because my sister had a girl 9 months older than my daughter, and another friend sends me "installments" of her daughters clothes. Plus there's all the stuff my shopaholic mom buys. I'd hate to have to start all over with boy stuff!

Chrissy, it does suck to have your due date moved back. I'm anxious to be out of the first trimester, for some reason. But I feel like the due dates are such a crapshoot anyway. Your measurements could change a lot still and as we all know babies come when they feel like it.

Bekah, were you maybe thinking/hoping it was 2? We did IUI with Femara to get pregnant this time so I was thinking there could be a chance... but was relieved to just have one. I don't think I could handle twins and a 2 year old!

So is anyone else showing already (or at least needing to hide a little bump)? I felt like with my first I didn't show until I was into the 2nd trimester, and now I'm definitely starting to feel self-conscious. Thankfully it is still warm here so I'm wearing a lot of dresses with loose tie waists that maybe just make me look like I've gained some weight, but I'm sure once pants weather is here I'll be breaking out the maternity clothes.



 
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Old Sep 11th, 2015, 23:04 PM   48
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Hey ladies. So I am officially having to leave this thread My hcg was only 31 today (it was 365 on sunday). So I have officially lost our little bean. Not sure what the next steps will be but I finally have the closure that I needed.
I'm thinking of taking the rest of the year off to lose some weight. I let TTC be an excuse to not work out and I gained some serious pounds. The doc won't be happy. But for now I am just going to be and get ready to move to our new apt.
Love and light to you all and I will see you around the forums. A happy and healthy 9 month to all of you!!



 
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So sorry Aayla. Big hugs. Take some time out and treat yourself.



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Old Sep 12th, 2015, 01:23 AM   50
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[QUOTE=penelopejones

Bekah, were you maybe thinking/hoping it was 2? We did IUI with Femara to get pregnant this time so I was thinking there could be a chance... but was relieved to just have one. I don't think I could handle twins and a 2 year old!

So is anyone else showing already (or at least needing to hide a little bump)? I felt like with my first I didn't show until I was into the 2nd trimester, and now I'm definitely starting to feel self-conscious. Thankfully it is still warm here so I'm wearing a lot of dresses with loose tie waists that maybe just make me look like I've gained some weight, but I'm sure once pants weather is here I'll be breaking out the maternity clothes.[/QUOTE]

We did Icsi this time had transferred two at day 5. One was a blastocyst and the other was almost there too. There was a 62% chance of twins. My head said one is best as less risky but my heart said two as both my DH and I are twins so it would have been great to have twins ourselves. After all this time trying though we are just feeling so blessed to finally be pregnant.

I have had to buy some new clothes to cover up a bit of a bump. I've had it from the start though and put it down to the hormones from the Icsi cycle. I'm only 5"2 and size 6 (UK) so slight changes are quite obvious.

Hope you're all doing ok ladies. Have you started telling people yet? I'm finding the first tri a nerve wrecking time. I have emailed my Aunt who lives in Ottawa to give her our news. I'd say she's the family member I'm closest too, and is one of the kindest people I know. I am keeping it quite though till the 12 week stage.



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