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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:04 PM   1
jem_5500
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Why are men so impatient?!


Right, I now feel bubs kick from outside. My DH is saying he wants to feel it so when it starts I tell him to come and sit by me and put his hand on my tummy.

He wanders over stands over me and puts hand on tummy then after 10 seconds ifnothing he says oh its not gonna kick now and walks off!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

I point out I wait a long time to feel it so sitting next to me would help but no!

Bloooming heck men drive me nuts!



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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:06 PM   2
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How annoying!!! Suppose he is just jealous that you've already got this connection with the baby and get to feel it every time he kicks. I understand he's annoyed by it, but he shouldnt take it out on you and should learn to be more patient! Sheesh, Men!



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:33 PM   3
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how weird..... he sounds a little jealous already of the baby.....men eh?



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:35 PM   4
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My man is exactly the same "ooh baby already hates me!" (NOOOO you are just being impatient and not waiting for him to kick!!)

My mum has felt him kick loads from the outside so its not that he's not kicking hard enough yet!!?

Bloody men eh?!

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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:39 PM   5
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plus its too soon anyway for the men to be able to feel the baby kicking from the outside.



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 13:40 PM   6
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It's a bit of the opposite for me. Bubz kicks and kicks and kicks for daddy but when I try and feel something (I have sat there for 10 minutes at a time) I feel nothing. The baby always kicks for my mom, grandma, aunt, OH, and has only done it a few times for me.

Maybe I'm just too impatient too? lol



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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 15:55 PM   7
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plus its too soon anyway for the men to be able to feel the baby kicking from the outside.
I disagree, mum was able to feel kicks on the outside at 19ish weeks with me

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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:12 PM   8
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My Baby Bible says it should be quite difficult to feel it from the inside at the moment let alone the outside - but that is if it's the first pregnancy. Apprently a lot of woman who are on there 2nd + pregnancy can feel a lot more a lot sooner - aren't they lucky! Lol. should be getting kicks that OH can feel around 26weeks+ apprently. Mine can't wait! :-)



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:17 PM   9
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Im 19+3 and can feel definate kicks and taps on the inside but think it will be a while before oh can feel it.

I've got a doppler so he has to be satisfied with listening to the heartbeat for now hehe



 
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Old Jun 23rd, 2009, 18:50 PM   10
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I started feeling kicks at 15 weeks at around the same time you could feel the kicks from the outside. Every pregnancy is different. Some people can even feels kicks on the inside at 12 weeks.



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