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Old Apr 4th, 2017, 20:30 PM   11
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From a little different persepective..

I had an emcs with dd1, it was extremely traumatic and I was under general, completely missed her birth, didn't see her until she was several hours old. Recovery rough although not terrible.
With #2 I was ADAMANT I wanted a vbac and thought I was with a supportive Dr but in the end I felt unsupported and like I was putting my baby at risk. So I had an elective c-section. Everyone told me it would be so much better than my emcs because it was planned ect... well it was even worse and even more traumatic . .. I started vomiting on the table and continued for 12+ hours despite iv meds to make me stop, they finally gave me phenergan which worked but knocked me out! So for 12 hours I couldn't stay awake I would be mid sentence and just fall asleep (I mean the awesome head falls back mouth wide open drooling kind).. and my recovery was HELL.. they cut into a nerve and it was the most excruciating pain ever made me almost pass out several times! I had to have injections into my stomach to try to numb the pain but it didn't work. There was so much more that was terrible..
I said I was done having kids because I just could not go through that again. It was awful. Well i fell pregnant while on bcp and now I'm with a new Dr and she has the highest vbac rates in our city and one of the highest in the countries.. she is encouraging me to try vba2c and I'm going for it. I regret so badly not trying for vbac!

I would suggest you look at all sides of it and make a decision best for you , but I will say that i feel like everyone throws c-section around like it's just no big deal but it is major abdominal surgery and is a huge deal! Consider whether or not you want more children and the other pros cons. In my opinion it's always best to try vbac if you are okayed to by your dr!



 
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Old Apr 4th, 2017, 21:08 PM   12
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Pink Passion makes another important point. The hospital and midwife/doctor has to be supportive. I selected a practice that was well known for having successful VBACs. Their stats supported that they were vbac friendly. My midwife supported this decision until the end and helped keep me calm.

I also hired a doula to support and advocate for me.

I also feel that the chiropractor helped me have a smooth vbac. My spine was in perfect alignment to allow baby to slide out.

Pink- good luck with your vbac2. My ecs was so traumatic that I had a lot of anxiety this time around. If you feel anxious feel free to chat with me. I think my husband was tired of dealing with my hormones and anxiety. Lol.



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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 05:40 AM   13
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Bella I definitely could use people who've had successful vbac to talk to, I feel like sometimes the threads are cold and dead lol no responses and no support! Follow my journal if you'd like, I've been talking a lot about it!



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 09:23 AM   14
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I'm still on the fence with this one.. probably won't make a final decision till a bit nearer the time but my midwife is really supportive with which path I choose luckily.
I just want the baby out safely. I see these ladies on TV give birth and they make it look so easy. I may do antenatal classes this time which may help. I went in a bit unprepared with DD and came out traumatised. :/



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 09:48 AM   15
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I have to make this choice too but I'm probably going to go with the repeat c-section...

With DS I had an emcs after 32 hellish hours of labor. I was terrified and in crazy, unimaginable amounts of pain. I remember feeling like my uterus was going to explode from all the pressure. I don't really remember this, but DH says I was screaming and sobbing and begging people to help me. Towards the end my blood pressure absolutely skyrocketed (I never knew it was possible to have bp that high and NOT be in the midst of a heart attack) and then they broke my water finally and there was meconium in it. They were concerned DS was becoming distressed which terrified me because we have a history of stillbirths in my extended family.

By contrast the actual c-section was a breeze. The doctor on call happened to be the one who is said to be the best at c-sections, and I had no pain at all and was up walking around right away. This doctor said he'd be happy to do my next c-section as well if I go that route, though he says I should be fine to have a vbac too.

I'm with the same midwives for this pregnancy and I'm worried they're going to try and pressure me into having a vbac. At my postpartum appointments with DS one of them was already cheerleading it and telling me I'd be a perfect candidate...But I really don't want one!! DH is also really against the idea - he's still traumatized by how my labor went too...



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 12:11 PM   16
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Hmm, sara... My DS was a vaginal delivery but due to a pelvic injury I may or may not need a c-section and there is just no way to know until that time comes. Like you, it was a big decision for me and I worried that if I needed a c-section it would better to have a planned one vs an unplanned/emergency one. My Dr said it was up to me and when I told him my concern his words to me were that there was really no difference to him between a planned one or an emergency one. He does the same thing either way. He said if I need one I need one and if I don't I don't. It helped me a lot to better understand his perspective on it. His response really calmed a lot of my fears as a lot of them were due to an emergency c-section just sounding scarier than a planned one. I've decided to try vaginal birth again and I hope it works out but if it doesn't I feel confident that my Dr will safety deliver my daughter either way.



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 12:33 PM   17
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I'm hoping to have this conversation with my ob about this soon. Ds was a scheduled c due to his measuring big and concerns about my hip that I had replaced several years ago. I went through years of pain to correct the hip and don't want any issues. My hip surgeon does not work out of the hospital where I'll deliver and I don't like the orthos there. If I go for the vbac, I have to basically agree to no epidural because I have to have full awareness of my hip, it's placement, and my pain levels. I'm strongly leaning towards the second c but also worry that I'll keep wondering "what if" and never know if I could have done it.



 
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Old Apr 5th, 2017, 17:24 PM   18
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My body clearly isn't meant to birth babies vaginally, as evidenced by my failed natural hypnobirth...27 miserable hours in the hospital after 2 days at home. I'm having a planned c section at 39 weeks exactly this time. I'm not going through all of that again just to end up with another section.



 
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Old Apr 11th, 2017, 14:15 PM   19
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Hello,
To those who have had a C-section already, what are you planning on doing with this pregnancy?

I had a planned C-section with my daughter 3 years ago (due to her being breech), and even though the recovery was difficult, I am still unsure what to do now that I am given the choice. Is the recovery from a second section more difficult? Given that I will have a toddler and a newborn that I will be unable to lift, I am a bit worried about this. The planner in me would like another section, I have had a very difficult pregnancy and knowing that I could have it over at 38 weeks excites me, but I also know that's no reason to have a major surgery again if it's not necessary.

Not looking for judgements here, just general feedback from people who have had a section and what they are doing with their second, or from people with multiple sections and how their experience was.

Thanks!!!
Hey looks like they moved you a couple days one of my coworkers said that after her first C-section she preferred to have them for her subsequent pregnancies because it was easier to have everything planned and such hOpe this helps



 
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Old Apr 13th, 2017, 20:25 PM   20
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You could compromise and have a natural c-section? I wouldn't beat yourself up about having one 'the way nature intended' - having a safe birth is more important than a natural one, and caesars have been going on for thousands of years (they were named after Julius Caesar, after all!).

I'm on #4 and will have to have a caesar as my first was an emcs (almost lost him) and subsequent two were electives (didn't want to take the risk). I'm obviously nervous about having another caesar but it has been 6 years since my last so I'm hoping it'll be ok.... and I'm probably going to ask if they can accommodate my wish for a natural one....or, at least, vaginal swabbing post-delivery so baby's microbiota benefits from my v-bacteria.

Also, we're 10'000 miles away from my family and my husband works 1.5-2 hours away 3 days a week, so if I went into labour I'd probably be on my own and have nobody to look after the kids at short notice, whereas with a caesar I can plan for them to go to friends' houses and hubby knows what day(s) to take off work for the operation.



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