Was your baby planned? - Page 4

strawberry19 · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:24 AM

i really dont want to go back onto anything to be honest we dont use condoms and the pill messed me up i really dont fancy the injection, rod or coil either... oh what to do!!

XJessicaX · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:27 AM

That sounds good, a 2 year gap is perfect (as its actually 1 year 3 months of not being pregnant!)...I know its early to think about it, but I only have 18 weeks left till this little mite meets the world and don't want to be pregnant in 20 weeks. (I just couldnt believe it when a friend at work told me she was pregnant again...3 weeks after giving birth to her second!)

lindseymw · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:30 AM

DS was totally unplanned, I was on the injection, & had dreamt twice that I would find out I was pregnant the day I flew on hols. Had to do a test on that day just so I knew that I wasnt & could enjoy a few drinks on holiday. Oops, it came back BFP! Had only been with FOB for 3 months.

He is now my DH, and expecting our second who was planned kinda, NTNP.

GersPrincess · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:44 AM

Hmmm, well, DS was conceived on the pill a few months after I lost a baby at 17 weeks, so unplanned. DD1 was conceived on a different pill when DS was 4 month's old, again unplanned. I then had a Mirena put in, because I had nightmares of falling pregnant again! 4 years later, I had it removed as DH and I decided we wanted to try for a baby.. it took 3 years to fall! About 2 months after we'd booked and paid for an all inclusive carribean holiday for just the 2 of us.. still, he enjoyed all the free booze and food!!
This baby wasn't planned either, I had been on the pill, but stopped it as DH was only in the country 2 days a month, and I was still BF, somehow we managed to conceive this little lady, and I cant wait. Each one of my babies has been a surprise one way or another, and they give me a reason to smile every day and I couldnt be without any of them x

scuffer · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:50 AM

Ours was planned, I think one friend knew we were trying. It's my 3rd baby and the first that was actually planned and tried for!!!

xtinydancerx · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:52 AM

In a way yes, she was planned, we charted, temped, tracked and everything else for months and nothing happened, so we decided to just stop "planning and tracking" and we just DTD whenever we felt like it haha, and the first month of that I got PG, I was 4 days late for AF but kept getting period like pains so I kept thinking she was coming any day. On a whim I took a PG test fully expecting it to be negative, and within 30 seconds it was +, DH came running into the bathroom when he heard me yell "Holy shit, I'm PREGNANT" bahaha.

beauty · Jan 20th, 2011, 09:54 AM

Oh yeah going through ivf i would say very much planned.. lol
x

jessica716 · Jan 20th, 2011, 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by XJessicaX

Those that conceived really quickly...do you ever worry about falling pregnant too fast with another whilst on maternity leave? I wont be taking the pill as it comes out in your breast milk, hate condoms and OH is erm..endowed well enough that they are restrictive shall we say. So thinking about having a coil inserted? hmm...
Going by my mum, she fell pregnant 2 months after me with my brother and 4 months after him with my sister!

Then again....I wouldn't mind having 2 children in quick succession. Yes....its a little bit early to be thinking about these things.

I'm absolutley crapping myself (excuse the language) .....

When i fell pregnant with my ectopic i was on the implant and also taking cerazette alongside it to stop the bleeding yet i fell pregnant! What are the odds of that!!

Then once i had my ectopic and lost my tube i got pregnant the first month after....and that was with one tube....

The doctors have decided that both the pill and the implant dont agree with me as i had so many problems when i was on them and also had problems with the injection.... My only thing left to try is the coil and hope that works for me

(Saying that though...my mum got pregnant on the coil!!)

ChristinaRN · Jan 20th, 2011, 10:13 AM

We were NTNP....I really wanted a 4th child, DH was unsure so I left the ball in his court. He stopped using protection at some point (don't really remember when) and I was preggo within a month or two.

Doodlepants · Jan 20th, 2011, 10:13 AM

My daughter wasn't really planned we just said 'it'll happen when it happens'. This time we planned to start trying in September so I started taking folic acid etc at the end of May and fell pregnant at the beginning of October! We were really lucky that it happened so quickly- I was in shock for the first 2 days as I couldn't believe our luck! I'd been on the pill up until august so I thought it was going to take ages! xx

Jan 20th, 2011, 09:24 AM	#31
strawberry19 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: cornwall Posts: 3,290	i really dont want to go back onto anything to be honest we dont use condoms and the pill messed me up i really dont fancy the injection, rod or coil either... oh what to do!!

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:27 AM	#32
XJessicaX Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Cambridgshire UK Posts: 8,967	That sounds good, a 2 year gap is perfect (as its actually 1 year 3 months of not being pregnant!)...I know its early to think about it, but I only have 18 weeks left till this little mite meets the world and don't want to be pregnant in 20 weeks. (I just couldnt believe it when a friend at work told me she was pregnant again...3 weeks after giving birth to her second!)

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:30 AM	#33
lindseymw Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: North Yorks Posts: 3,095	DS was totally unplanned, I was on the injection, & had dreamt twice that I would find out I was pregnant the day I flew on hols. Had to do a test on that day just so I knew that I wasnt & could enjoy a few drinks on holiday. Oops, it came back BFP! Had only been with FOB for 3 months. He is now my DH, and expecting our second who was planned kinda, NTNP.

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:44 AM	#34
GersPrincess Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,581	Hmmm, well, DS was conceived on the pill a few months after I lost a baby at 17 weeks, so unplanned. DD1 was conceived on a different pill when DS was 4 month's old, again unplanned. I then had a Mirena put in, because I had nightmares of falling pregnant again! 4 years later, I had it removed as DH and I decided we wanted to try for a baby.. it took 3 years to fall! About 2 months after we'd booked and paid for an all inclusive carribean holiday for just the 2 of us.. still, he enjoyed all the free booze and food!! This baby wasn't planned either, I had been on the pill, but stopped it as DH was only in the country 2 days a month, and I was still BF, somehow we managed to conceive this little lady, and I cant wait. Each one of my babies has been a surprise one way or another, and they give me a reason to smile every day and I couldnt be without any of them x

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:50 AM	#35
scuffer Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 2,513	Ours was planned, I think one friend knew we were trying. It's my 3rd baby and the first that was actually planned and tried for!!!

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:52 AM	#36
xtinydancerx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: OH Posts: 433	In a way yes, she was planned, we charted, temped, tracked and everything else for months and nothing happened, so we decided to just stop "planning and tracking" and we just DTD whenever we felt like it haha, and the first month of that I got PG, I was 4 days late for AF but kept getting period like pains so I kept thinking she was coming any day. On a whim I took a PG test fully expecting it to be negative, and within 30 seconds it was +, DH came running into the bathroom when he heard me yell "Holy shit, I'm PREGNANT" bahaha.

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Jan 20th, 2011, 09:54 AM	#37
beauty Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,792	Oh yeah going through ivf i would say very much planned.. lol x

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Jan 20th, 2011, 10:13 AM	#39
ChristinaRN Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Central Coast, California Posts: 2,068	We were NTNP....I really wanted a 4th child, DH was unsure so I left the ball in his court. He stopped using protection at some point (don't really remember when) and I was preggo within a month or two.

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Jan 20th, 2011, 10:13 AM	#40
Doodlepants Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: West Sussex, UK Posts: 3,859	My daughter wasn't really planned we just said 'it'll happen when it happens'. This time we planned to start trying in September so I started taking folic acid etc at the end of May and fell pregnant at the beginning of October! We were really lucky that it happened so quickly- I was in shock for the first 2 days as I couldn't believe our luck! I'd been on the pill up until august so I thought it was going to take ages! xx

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