My daddies funeral today :-( - Page 2

natasja32 · May 3rd, 2011, 05:42 AM

He had just turned 51 and died suddenly of a heartattack.

BattyNora · May 3rd, 2011, 05:57 AM

You've definately done the right thing hun - you've put your baby first. It must be hard not to feel guilt at not being there but just think to when you're holding your beautiful little girl - I'm pretty certain he'd be looking at you both with a smile agreeing focussing on her was the best choice you could have made.

Thinking of you xx

natasja32 · May 3rd, 2011, 10:01 AM

Just spoke to mum. She said dad had an open casket,so you could see him before being cremated.

It was the last chance I had to see my dad and give him a kiss and a cuddle and I missed it.

ProudMommy26 · May 3rd, 2011, 10:26 AM

I know how you feel hun. But you did the right thing. He will always be with you, looking after you all. Much love and respect to you sweety xxx

MrsMalowey · May 3rd, 2011, 10:26 AM

Oh bless you poor thing. Hope you are okay.. xxxxxxxxx

AngelBunny · May 3rd, 2011, 10:30 AM

he wouldn't have wanted you to risk travelling all that way honey

he knows how much you love him, don't be hard on yourself you're doing the right thing.

could you maybe do your own little thing for him, light a candle and say what you want to say.

so sorry you're going though this xxxx

Hayley83 · May 3rd, 2011, 10:47 AM

Sorry your going through this , your dad would have known you loved him.

MissMooMoo · May 3rd, 2011, 12:30 PM

I echo what everyone else has said, your dad will know how much you love him and no amount of miles between you will change that. Your baby comes first which you know and your dad knows. Your baby will have thir own special guardian angel. Thinking of you
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natasja32 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: folkestone,kent Posts: 8,051	He had just turned 51 and died suddenly of a heartattack.

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BattyNora Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 998	You've definately done the right thing hun - you've put your baby first. It must be hard not to feel guilt at not being there but just think to when you're holding your beautiful little girl - I'm pretty certain he'd be looking at you both with a smile agreeing focussing on her was the best choice you could have made. Thinking of you xx

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natasja32 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: folkestone,kent Posts: 8,051	Just spoke to mum. She said dad had an open casket,so you could see him before being cremated. It was the last chance I had to see my dad and give him a kiss and a cuddle and I missed it.

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ProudMommy26 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: UK Posts: 1,945	I know how you feel hun. But you did the right thing. He will always be with you, looking after you all. Much love and respect to you sweety xxx

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MrsMalowey Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Southampton, UK Posts: 3,791	Oh bless you poor thing. Hope you are okay.. xxxxxxxxx

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AngelBunny Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Dunstable, England Posts: 8,085	he wouldn't have wanted you to risk travelling all that way honey he knows how much you love him, don't be hard on yourself you're doing the right thing. could you maybe do your own little thing for him, light a candle and say what you want to say. so sorry you're going though this xxxx

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Hayley83 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 433	Sorry your going through this , your dad would have known you loved him.

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MissMooMoo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Milton Keynes Posts: 402	I echo what everyone else has said, your dad will know how much you love him and no amount of miles between you will change that. Your baby comes first which you know and your dad knows. Your baby will have thir own special guardian angel. Thinking of you xxx

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