I think my OH is going to cut me off until LO is born:(

hoptingfor3 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:20 AM

So after a somewhat unsuccessful sexy time last night, I think we are done until LO gets here. OMG does that suck! Its just getting really awkward for him, since he can feel her move around every day, its hard for him to forget about it when its sexy time.

I don't know how I am going to get through the next 19 weeks

Anyone else having this issue?

Stephannie · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:24 AM

I had the same issue! It seems to be once every 2-3 weeks now which kills me!! OH thinks he going to hurt or poke through to baby

lol x

hoptingfor3 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:27 AM

He says that's not what bothers him. Its just the fact that his baby girl is "right there" and it makes it hard for him to really enjoy it. Is not a positioning thing or anything like that. Before the last month or so it was a couple times a week, but for some reason, the last couple weeks, my drive has gone WAY down! So we are lucky if it has been once a week.

Also, since I started showing, the only time we seem to DTD is when he's had a few beers, which is getting more seldom now too. He told me last night that he feels like he needs it so he can block her out more easily???

Doesn't make sense to me because I am not a guy.

lynnikins · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:28 AM

lol with my spd positioning has become so difficult we dont bother anymore lol DH is used to it though

sam1984 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:31 AM

has he been more conscious of it since you found out what you were having?

cait · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:38 AM

I think that's really unfair - if you cut him off for 19 weeks I doubt he'd take it too well.
He needs to wise up, the baby isn't aware of whats going on and if anything its good for baby if mama is more relaxed! You getting frustrated and tense over the next 4 months cannot be good!
Maybe need to do some non-penetrative stuff to compromise?

hoptingfor3 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by cait

I think that's really unfair - if you cut him off for 19 weeks I doubt he'd take it too well.
He needs to wise up, the baby isn't aware of whats going on and if anything its good for baby if mama is more relaxed! You getting frustrated and tense over the next 4 months cannot be good!
Maybe need to do some non-penetrative stuff to compromise?

I think that's the plan. To do other things besides actual intercourse. He know's me well enough that if I was 100% cut off from EVERYTHING, he's been in a bad way. Cause if mama ain't happy, aint nobody happy - as they say!

hoptingfor3 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by sam1984

has he been more conscious of it since you found out what you were having?

Yes, and no, I think he would have an issue either way. I think its moreso because she's his baby girl.

pcake · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:43 AM

Maybe u should remind him its not going to be a case of once the baby arrives ul be hopping straight back in the sack... isnt it 2 months after birth that ur meant to wait?

sam1984 · Jul 29th, 2011, 08:46 AM

just wondered as we have not found out what we are having so i dont think it is a son or daughter in hubbys eyes.
you should threaten him with however he holds off for before baby is here you will make sure you hold off for at least that long after. he might change his mind.
or if you just want to be mean just explain that he is no way big enough to disturb the baby

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hoptingfor3 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 881	I think my OH is going to cut me off until LO is born:( So after a somewhat unsuccessful sexy time last night, I think we are done until LO gets here. OMG does that suck! Its just getting really awkward for him, since he can feel her move around every day, its hard for him to forget about it when its sexy time. I don't know how I am going to get through the next 19 weeks Anyone else having this issue?

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Stephannie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Gateshead, Tyne-and-Wear Posts: 792	I had the same issue! It seems to be once every 2-3 weeks now which kills me!! OH thinks he going to hurt or poke through to baby lol x

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Jul 29th, 2011, 08:27 AM	#3
hoptingfor3 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 881	He says that's not what bothers him. Its just the fact that his baby girl is "right there" and it makes it hard for him to really enjoy it. Is not a positioning thing or anything like that. Before the last month or so it was a couple times a week, but for some reason, the last couple weeks, my drive has gone WAY down! So we are lucky if it has been once a week. Also, since I started showing, the only time we seem to DTD is when he's had a few beers, which is getting more seldom now too. He told me last night that he feels like he needs it so he can block her out more easily??? Doesn't make sense to me because I am not a guy.

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Jul 29th, 2011, 08:28 AM	#4
lynnikins Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: East Midlands Posts: 15,432	lol with my spd positioning has become so difficult we dont bother anymore lol DH is used to it though

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sam1984 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 631	has he been more conscious of it since you found out what you were having?

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cait Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 1,045	I think that's really unfair - if you cut him off for 19 weeks I doubt he'd take it too well. He needs to wise up, the baby isn't aware of whats going on and if anything its good for baby if mama is more relaxed! You getting frustrated and tense over the next 4 months cannot be good! Maybe need to do some non-penetrative stuff to compromise?

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pcake Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Bedfordshire Posts: 2,090	Maybe u should remind him its not going to be a case of once the baby arrives ul be hopping straight back in the sack... isnt it 2 months after birth that ur meant to wait?

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sam1984 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 631	just wondered as we have not found out what we are having so i dont think it is a son or daughter in hubbys eyes. you should threaten him with however he holds off for before baby is here you will make sure you hold off for at least that long after. he might change his mind. or if you just want to be mean just explain that he is no way big enough to disturb the baby

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