Just finished work till LO is here now due to stress(not due till 10th December):\

hawalkden · Aug 22nd, 2011, 06:22 AM

For the past two weeks I've been on sick due to cervicitis (inflamed and irritated cervix) I was bleed and the pressure on my cervix doesn't help..

I went into work today and said I was worried about bleeding again (I work in a Private Day Nursery, so really active) and I mentioned what the midwife said that the more I'm active the more the bleeding will happen, but Peanut is all okay

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So after talking to my boss and manager we all agreed that for the rest of this month I'd take as holiday and then my Maternity Pay will start at the end of September

I know I'm not till 10th December but I'm hoping to get induced around 24th November; due to diabetes.

I just feel at the moment peanuts health and mine is more important at the end of the day and I know we can cancel a few things e.g. few Sky packages and the internet if money is tight near the end when LO is here..

I spoke to OH who works 12 hour days and is on a good wage but works hard days :\ so I feel really bad about finishing work now and doing nothing till LO is here..

winbig82 · Aug 22nd, 2011, 06:36 AM

Hey hun xx Dont feel bad..... Make the most of it

Youve got issues going on and you would be gutted if something happened because you pushed yourself so take what youve been told and rest - I would love to finish work now and take it easy lol

xx Im sure your OH is more bothered about you and LO being safe so please dont beat yourself up, you will get to do your fair share when LO is here remember

xx Take it easy hun and all the best xx

charlie1510 · Aug 22nd, 2011, 06:42 AM

Sorry to hear that. Does that mean you'll have to go back to work earlier than you planned?

hawalkden · Aug 22nd, 2011, 07:06 AM

well just been thinking the 90% of my wage for Mat Leave for the weeks before it goes to whatever the rate it at the moment, I'll just take a chunk out of that money and keep it in the house to use at the end of my Mat Leave..
It'll just be at the end of my Mat Leave time were we'll struggle a little but hopefully we'll be okay and I can push to the extra few months off before going back to work and start paying Childcare fees

Fingerscrossed that we'll be okay.. OH just phoned on his dinner and after me explaining it he seems a lot more cool with the idea and just the rent to worry about with my wage/SMP covering it just about

He pays for the rest of the bills

x

missmayhem · Aug 22nd, 2011, 07:07 AM

i know how you feel, honestly i really do

i've been off for 2 months now..... and going to docs later this week for another sickline

i've also decided to take my mat leave asap but it sucks not doing anything

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hawalkden BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Lancashire. Country: Posts: 3,053 Thanked others: 1,204 Thanked 519 times in 447 posts Currently Feeling:	Just finished work till LO is here now due to stress(not due till 10th December):\ For the past two weeks I've been on sick due to cervicitis (inflamed and irritated cervix) I was bleed and the pressure on my cervix doesn't help.. I went into work today and said I was worried about bleeding again (I work in a Private Day Nursery, so really active) and I mentioned what the midwife said that the more I'm active the more the bleeding will happen, but Peanut is all okay . So after talking to my boss and manager we all agreed that for the rest of this month I'd take as holiday and then my Maternity Pay will start at the end of September I know I'm not till 10th December but I'm hoping to get induced around 24th November; due to diabetes. I just feel at the moment peanuts health and mine is more important at the end of the day and I know we can cancel a few things e.g. few Sky packages and the internet if money is tight near the end when LO is here.. I spoke to OH who works 12 hour days and is on a good wage but works hard days :\ so I feel really bad about finishing work now and doing nothing till LO is here.. __________________
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winbig82 Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Leicester Country: Posts: 558 Thanked others: 368 Thanked 126 times in 109 posts Currently Feeling:	Hey hun xx Dont feel bad..... Make the most of it Youve got issues going on and you would be gutted if something happened because you pushed yourself so take what youve been told and rest - I would love to finish work now and take it easy lol xx Im sure your OH is more bothered about you and LO being safe so please dont beat yourself up, you will get to do your fair share when LO is here remember xx Take it easy hun and all the best xx
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hawalkden BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Lancashire. Country: Posts: 3,053 Thanked others: 1,204 Thanked 519 times in 447 posts Currently Feeling:	well just been thinking the 90% of my wage for Mat Leave for the weeks before it goes to whatever the rate it at the moment, I'll just take a chunk out of that money and keep it in the house to use at the end of my Mat Leave.. It'll just be at the end of my Mat Leave time were we'll struggle a little but hopefully we'll be okay and I can push to the extra few months off before going back to work and start paying Childcare fees Fingerscrossed that we'll be okay.. OH just phoned on his dinner and after me explaining it he seems a lot more cool with the idea and just the rent to worry about with my wage/SMP covering it just about He pays for the rest of the bills x
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