Someone please help as i have just been so nasty and moody lately and i dont mean to please tell me it isnt just me ??? every little thing annoys me and my OH seems to be getting the worst of everything so he thinks i am horrible and moody but im not, i swear! its the hormones!!
and i seem to be getting even more upset because no one seems to understand that i carnt help it and i just need people to be patiant with me and more understanding and i deffonatly need OH to be more supportive as all he seems to do is walk away and not listen to me and he never askes about the baby i have to tell him stuff first and it upsets me and makes me feel like he is uninterested coz of course once again i am crazy and hormonal i just need him to help calm me down not storm off and make it worse, i dont no what to do coz i know its not just him i need to stay more calm too... argghhh please tell me someone else is going threw this????
sorry about the rant having a pretty lonely emotional week (hormones again!!) sorry ladies :/
Hi hun.. I went through this with my first pregnancy, luckily this time, he had learnt the first time around lol.
You need to sit down and talk to OH, explain that being told you are crazy and hormonal doesn't help a situation, if you are telling him you feel about something, his opinion on that doesn't matter, you feel how you feel, that is a fact, now how can we help that ?
I am going through the same thing! When I am moody I tell my OH that I am a porcupine. That way he knows I am hormonal and doesn't get upset when I snap at nothing :-) But I think he gets a pretty good idea when I am hormonal...I start to cry at game shows on TV (like Wheel of Fortune) LOL.
You should talk to your OH and come up with a little phrase or use "I am a porcupine". And also talk about the other stuff that is bothering you. My OH doesn't talk too much about the baby either...I think he is still in shock hahaha.
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