So my OH moved back to his parents' in September to save a bit while we search for a suitable apartment for our new family. It's SO weird for me...I usually spend most nights at his place, but my MIL is so suffocating. His family is doing renovations right now and literally the entire house is in shambles. So we he is sleeping in the livingroom right next to the kitchen. I told him I probably wouldn't be staying over as much as I used to because I really am not comfortable sleeping over there all open to the world in my pjs, but sometimes when we get in late I just pass out. When he goes to work in the morning, I leave too because I am not about to be waking up with his family sitting around having breakfast next to the bed, but he just doesn't understand why it bothers me so much. Last night was a Saturday and we were out late (I was ready for bed, he was getting his drink on and of course I am DD) so I stayed over at his place. I asked him can we please not sleep in late because I don`t want to be waking up during breakfast. Because of the renos, the only bathroom in the house is in his mom`s room way down in the basement...and I am hitting that up every half hour. So I wake up this morning, and within two minutes of sitting up and rubbing my eyes she is standing above me talking away about how she didn't want to wake us up, did we hear them making breakfast, etc etc etc. It was so uncomfortable for me that I kind of just took off to go home, I didn't even want to pee there. And as I'm leaving shes standing there asking me if I'm coming back tonight,I said I don't know yet, she said why not. ???? What do I say to that?? Because I haven't planned my evening yet??? And he got soooo upset, said I could have at least stayed for breakfast like a "normal person." And I'm just thinking, if you hadn't been drinking all night AGAIN I would have just gone home to my own bed, or we would have woken up earlier, or I don't know.....whatever else card could come up during the blaming game. And of course my ownmom agreed that I should have stayed for breakfast. I wish he could understand how awkward it is for me. Especially since he promised he would be coming over to my place more often, and yet I still find myself at his parents most of the time. AHH it's driving me up the wall I just want to find that apartment that we can call home!!!
i think i would of been abit like woah im in my pjs and here you all are eating breakfast.. food would probably not kicked into my mind until abit later! i might of took off aswell if i felt uncomfortable.. sorry hun dont really have any advice just didnt want to r&r
Thanks ladies, I wasn't expecting advice cuz there aren't too many options! But I can tell you that this situation is definitely making me appreciate my own bed and the solitude of four solid walls with a door!!
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