It's always a struggle with me and my hubby. Most days I won't feel like it but every so often I accommodate him. But when I really really want it he just says no and there's no changing his mind. He doesn't get that this is a two way deal. Ugh. It's frustrating. Then he gets mad if I self pleasure. Men are such babies.
i have wanted sex the entire time i have been pregnnt and my bf only wants it like once a week and that not enough for me ...... so i told him the last time he tried to have sex with me ifu only want it once a week thn do it yourself cause thats not enough for me and it has been two weeks today and still no sex .... oh well i guess he is doin the job hisself
I am the opposite. I have never had a high sex drive where as my boyfriend is like a duracel bunny that I wish i could take the batteries out of. Before getting pregnant, I was constantly badgered for sex and "helping hands" as you ladies so delicately put it. I have to say, he has backed off recently which I am so happy about as I don't feel like I am constantly turning him away, helping himself is also easing it. Makes me enjoy it more when we do eventually DTD. I wanted a sex drive surge but looks like I'm not getting one
I never have to worry about my husband turning me down. I literally have to pry him off me most days. Hes like a hormonal teenage boy. Sex is all he ever wants. Like I'll be trying to do the dishes and he gets in the mood haha. Its like no, get away from me.
My OH is unpredictable. He can come onto me in the middle of the day which winds me up then at night I make moves and get nothing. Other times I can't keep him off me. I've stopped coming onto him though cos I hate being shot down, especially now I'm pregnant.
I WISH my oh was a horny rabbit, I always have to initiate with him and when he is tired, his body is a no go, no matter what I do, I could throw money at it and it wouldn't rise to the occasion I know not to even try when he's tired but when he's not I have to 'romance' him to get it going.
Im so jealous of you ladies who get poked in the back while blow drying your hair, not even on my birthday would that wonderful thing happen to me!!
I normally initiate 95% of the time. Ladies, you'd be proud of me!! Tonight I realized I caught his cold so for revenge I played with him and when he was good and ready I whispered in his ear "how does it feel to want?" and walked away .
my husband has never refused sex but he does often do his thing and then roll over and go to sleep i get really angry when he does this and sometimes its for days on end so i refuse him sex for a few days and make him make it up to me in other ways when he finally cant take anymore :wink:
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