I forgot to mention, his last gf got pregnant and he left her when she was 5 months, has no contact with the baby or her, he pays for the baby and thats it. Looks like hes setting himself up to do it again, even though we have (or had) an amazing relationship and he promised to stand by me when i found out i was pregnant. Guess not.
I feel so stupid and so alone. He hasnt spoken to me tonight either just deleted his facebook account... And its all over something so little. To me it feels as if hes using this petty argument to show his true feelings, maybe he didnt want to be with me anyway and this is his way out? I dont know. Deep down I think I know he wont leave me on my own but why has he gotta make me play this waiting game, not even knowing if I need to start planning for the future as a single mum to my baby
Its easy for men, they can walk away, were the ones left with the baby and a broken family! xx
Sorry that things are like this for you , Sounds a bit like me and my oh..were okay now but a while back he was acting completely uninterested , we were fighting over stupid things and he was saying he would stick by me but actions speak alot louder than words. . I told him taht we were done it would be alot stressful for me to do it alone than be fighting with him the whole time and that he could prove himself if he wanted to be a part of our lives ( i was absolutely shitting it and hoping he wouldnt walk away) but I didnt want to be taken for a ride.. Anyways took him a while to come round, hes coppedo n and things are better now..we still have the odd stuid fight but weve realised that this baby is more importnant than us ..I really hope things work out for you too !!
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