Sex..

Mummy2Be__x · Feb 26th, 2012, 11:45 AM

My OH likes to have ROUGH sex and goes for hours, can rough hard sex harm the baby or do any damage to my cervix ? sorry if thats TMI x

Sunshine12 · Feb 26th, 2012, 11:46 AM

Dont think it can harm baby but can irritate your cervix. If you dont like it rough too then just dont do it. x

TheSmpsns · Feb 26th, 2012, 12:04 PM

I can speak from experience on this one. I like it a bit rough myself. And I ended up getting some decent bleeding, and went in for an ultrasound. Doc says that he is hitting my cervix and making it angry. I cannot do anything rough through the pregnancy. I think it depends upon whether or not he can reach your cervix during intercourse.
I am only allowed slow sex now, and I'm a bit mad about it.

Nafretili · Feb 26th, 2012, 12:59 PM

I always thought it was fine as long as you're not in any pain or discomfort x

kcoennen · Feb 26th, 2012, 13:15 PM

From experience... in the beginning, I wouldn't let DH go in all the way (he is rather large... tmi) and it would hurt if he did. On Monday, I went a little wild and didn't care how far he went in because it wasn't hurting. Wednesday I started bleeding. My dr saw me right away and said there was a bleeding spot on my cervix, which was from sex. So now I am extremely scared to have any sex. Today, I am still having brown spotting, which is just leftover blood. So no sex for us until it is totally gone.

mom and ttc · Feb 26th, 2012, 13:16 PM

i like it harder, which ended in a lot of bleeds ...

hours, o m g

Missmarie87 · Feb 26th, 2012, 16:25 PM

Cant say i do it ruff ruff but it can get a bit boring how gentle and how he cant just throw me about lol x

LegoHouse · Feb 26th, 2012, 16:27 PM

I've bled but I'm pretty sure it wasn't to do with our sex

I would be gutted if it was!

Mummy2Be__x · Feb 26th, 2012, 16:37 PM

My OH is very big, and he love to do it rough, havn't seen him in 2/3 weeks as he studies at uni in a different city, he been saying he dying to have rough sex with me, as much as I tell him we can't really do that while I'm pregnant he is NOT having it at all ! Just have to make sure he don't else we're stopping all together lol x

scotmum35 · Feb 26th, 2012, 16:41 PM

could damage the cervix but going for hours would bore the fk out of me,and id be to aware my poor baby was being rocked about and squashed for hours.
maybe your hubby should take up another hobby.

Feb 26th, 2012, 11:45 AM	#1
Mummy2Be__x Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Coventry Posts: 1,852	Sex.. My OH likes to have ROUGH sex and goes for hours, can rough hard sex harm the baby or do any damage to my cervix ? sorry if thats TMI x

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Feb 26th, 2012, 11:46 AM	#2
Sunshine12 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 10,610	Dont think it can harm baby but can irritate your cervix. If you dont like it rough too then just dont do it. x

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Feb 26th, 2012, 12:04 PM	#3
TheSmpsns Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Texas, United States Posts: 1,211	I can speak from experience on this one. I like it a bit rough myself. And I ended up getting some decent bleeding, and went in for an ultrasound. Doc says that he is hitting my cervix and making it angry. I cannot do anything rough through the pregnancy. I think it depends upon whether or not he can reach your cervix during intercourse. I am only allowed slow sex now, and I'm a bit mad about it.

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Feb 26th, 2012, 12:59 PM	#4
Nafretili Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: UK, Cleethorpes Posts: 2,079	I always thought it was fine as long as you're not in any pain or discomfort x

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Feb 26th, 2012, 13:15 PM	#5
kcoennen Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 926	From experience... in the beginning, I wouldn't let DH go in all the way (he is rather large... tmi) and it would hurt if he did. On Monday, I went a little wild and didn't care how far he went in because it wasn't hurting. Wednesday I started bleeding. My dr saw me right away and said there was a bleeding spot on my cervix, which was from sex. So now I am extremely scared to have any sex. Today, I am still having brown spotting, which is just leftover blood. So no sex for us until it is totally gone.

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Feb 26th, 2012, 13:16 PM	#6
mom and ttc Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Location: florida Posts: 2,709	i like it harder, which ended in a lot of bleeds ... hours, o m g

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Feb 26th, 2012, 16:25 PM	#7
Missmarie87 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 745	Cant say i do it ruff ruff but it can get a bit boring how gentle and how he cant just throw me about lol x

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Feb 26th, 2012, 16:27 PM	#8
LegoHouse Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,473	I've bled but I'm pretty sure it wasn't to do with our sex I would be gutted if it was!

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Feb 26th, 2012, 16:37 PM	#9
Mummy2Be__x Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Coventry Posts: 1,852	My OH is very big, and he love to do it rough, havn't seen him in 2/3 weeks as he studies at uni in a different city, he been saying he dying to have rough sex with me, as much as I tell him we can't really do that while I'm pregnant he is NOT having it at all ! Just have to make sure he don't else we're stopping all together lol x

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Feb 26th, 2012, 16:41 PM	#10
scotmum35 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 1,013	could damage the cervix but going for hours would bore the fk out of me,and id be to aware my poor baby was being rocked about and squashed for hours. maybe your hubby should take up another hobby.

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